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alisonb
Male , single, working but with lots of free time, no other commitments and able to accommodate or visit. I love sexy women, not bdsm obsessed or into anything extreme but I  love the feeling of submitting to a woman, using my desire for and to please her to make me, for her pleasure!

If this includes punishment great but I'm not a painslut or seeking any kinky thrills primarily and/or for my own needs and jollies.

I'm not an internet fantasist, do not want to spend hours/days/weeks talking about fantasies, I hope to meet a woman real life as soon as possible compatibilty is established and if then desired, to enjoy a fun relationship and friendship together, based on mutual desire and shared interests, including but not only our respective kinky desires. I'm predominantly and more naturally submissive to women (not in life generally) but this is a manifestation of my desire for and to be desired by her,  not a desire or need to be whipped, humiliated and or abused constantly. I like to playfully switch at times, if desired but have no wish to be anyone's total slave,  more a friend and lover, being kinky together privately, discretely in public or more openly in suitable environments. I have been to munches semi-regularly and to clubs in the past and would happily do so again but I'm not and don't wish to be, living in "the scene" or by the lifestyle 24/7. I have a real life, like to go to the gym/running/swimming, to the pub, cinema etc and on holidasys r weekends away, to interesting places or just to relax/sunbathe and have fun. There are a few European cities I'd quite like to explore the fetish-club scene in with a partner.
7/15/2010 11:45:57 AM
  Forget this - since I wrote it, manstarved has changed her location to ondon, making this impossible unless it is the same lady with two profiles/locations. They are both very lovely, blonde, 41, have very similar motives/wants and appeared/disappeared and appeared again on the same day - coincidence?

Anybody else think' manstarved' and 'needy widow' are the same woman? Were anyway, profiles appeared and disappeared on the same day, today and yesterday. No matter, she's just gorgeous and I'm missing her already! lol
6/25/2010 8:03:42 AM
I add wemon  to my faavourites, if I find them attractive and sexy (looking and sounding), with no regard to the role they think they should fill or wish a man to fill for her. This is because bdsm and sub/domme rolesa come  way behind how i think i would feel with and about a lady, in the "usual"ways in importance.
6/22/2010 1:57:18 AM
The Trades Description Act people should have a look at some of the profile names that some  pro - dommes use here!
6/21/2010 9:30:32 PM
If you like the look of me, please say so. I will then meet you in person as soon as you wish, with the minimum of online communication. I do not wish for "online relationships." Though I'm happy to remain in touch with people on a friends basis in this way, if nothing real is going to happen, I  probably won't chat at length.
6/20/2010 11:37:10 AM
Somebody yesterday was kind enough tio make a generous remark about my pic and tell me it needed rotating, which i have now done.

She then proceeded to malign and completely misrepresent me - I told her I was currently chatting with several women, none of which have gone beyond online and she depicted this as me deceiving them and being a timewaster! If one went r/t, the others would cease other than to exchange pleasantries. Bollocks, why am I giving her the satisfaction of wasting more time on a twisted bitch!?
6/20/2010 5:05:36 AM
 Why oh why, are all the ladies that I make what seems to be a real "connection" with, 100s of miles away!?
GradeASlave
 
 Age: 38
  Texas