Ariel - photo 3


A little insight about myself, and what I am currently seeking. I may have had my proverbial "rose colored glasses" on when starting, but as I've grown older, and hopefully wiser, my views have changed drastically in these last 6 years.

I am a caring, sensual, sadistic, Dominant female, who is seeking a FLR (female led relationship). I am looking for someone that has enough basic knowledge about the lifestyle to understand what kind of dynamic it takes to make a relationship of this nature work. Therefore if you are a newbie, I am not the one that you are looking for. I simply do not have enough time to invest in training from the ground up.

I seek someone who wants, to be in a committed, sane relationship, whom is able to understand, and distinguish that there is a time and place for everything. By that I mean, BDSM is not my only enjoyment in life, I enjoy many vanilla activites as well, and expect my partner to be able to function in that element as well.

I have as many real life issues as the next person, and am seeking a partner that is based in reality, as opposed to living in the fantasy realm of online. I'm a real woman, I smoke, drink, and like to have fun. I do not care to interact with those who have some "silly" preconceived notion about what a dominant should be, from the pics., and stories they have seen, and read online. Those types have no place in my life; I’m looking for face to face meetings, with a submissive man who is looking to meet a domiant woman, and seeks a LTR.

I am not looking for anything online, long distance, anyone who is attached in any way, or any male that has a hidden agenda. As in those that have a laundry list of fantasies they need “taken” care of before they can fully submit.

I am currently seeking a submissive male, with slave tendencies, who knows their place. One who understands what he wants, who he is, happy with himself, and can communicate with me on all levels. I expect my submissive mate to know their own mind, to be a capable, functioning person, with something to offer this relationship. I understand, and value the submissive mindset, and do not take my responsibility lightly. Negotiation, communication, and trust are the primary building blocks that I want my relationship to be built upon. I enjoy conversing on all levels, and encourage any contact. Feel free to drop me a line, learning and growth are a never ending process. We all have something to contribute to this lifestyle, and I am always interested in differening ideas and opinions.

Be good to yourself,


8/24/2008 10:42:22 AM
Has been a while since I have wrote anything here. The first 8 months of this year were nothing to write home about. Am hoping the next 4 will bring about many new and positive changes. Am starting a new job tomorrow, thank gawd...LOL.. and am talking to a new male. Am not going to shoot for the stars quite yet, but it looks promising. Am of course hoping for the best. 
11/21/2007 8:57:35 AM
I hope everyone finds something, or someone to be very thankful for this holiday...

That being said.. "another one bites the dust", time to start that journey of searching again.. gawd.. I hate the thought... but we all know the feeling.. well most of us anyways...the ones that are still searching for their life, D/s partner.
9/29/2007 3:55:55 AM
I read a great saying on the message board this morning... "Hey, if this shit was easy, everybody would be doing it".  I loved it... thanks Ron.
9/10/2007 10:01:54 AM
Have started new dialogue with someone I find to be quite interesting. Waiting to see where it will lead.
4/8/2007 3:36:06 AM
Happy Easter to all
2/28/2007 5:23:05 PM
I'm in a new place, and am thankful for what I am learning. Not looking for much of anything at this point.   

1/11/2006 9:20:42 AM
It still amazes Me to no end, how people will add Me to their favories list, never having spoken to Me.... DUH....
1/4/2006 4:02:25 PM
Do not contact ME telling Me about your "other" relationship, I'm not interested... I only seek unattached men...
1/3/2006 12:17:43 PM
~smiles~... I am going to Woodsstock this year... I'm absolutely thrilled... if anyone has been before I would love to know about your experience...
12/15/2005 6:32:13 AM
I hope everyone has a very joyous Holiday Season....

~WEG~... hopes I get a very special little sub all wrapped in a bow under MY tree this year...

8/28/2005 1:35:34 PM
Mine currently has had his profile deleted.... butt is indeed back.... abitchinpa
8/11/2005 3:05:10 PM
As of this day... the bitch is Mine.... bitchinpa....
12/14/2004 10:21:40 AM
Well, I am back in the game !!!..**GRINS**, W/we all have disappointments, such is life, butt am now setting My sights, for bigger, better, and BRIGHTER !!!!, I hope E/everyone has a very joyous holiday
10/5/2004 7:43:04 PM

As many times as W/we may think W/we have indeed found the right one... turns out to be not the one W/we seek at all, what a shame so many pretend to be real, and honest, and in the end are really gamers and fakes...W/we all hear this alot, but DAMN, if you are not interested in what the other has to offer just so... W/we are all supposed to be adults and looking for basically the same things...what a shame W/we can not detect this in the very beginning and save so much drama to all of those around.  Happy Hunting... LAUGHS

9/28/2004 2:27:57 PM
Smiles, am very happy to think I may indeed have found the ONE... W/we are taking it slow, but must admit, I'm very hopeful...wish U/us the best...
8/20/2004 9:48:30 PM
It amazes Me how many of U/us still seem to find nothing but game players and fakes.... lol....
7/5/2004 6:07:14 PM
I really can not seem to understand, as large as Pa. is why men can not seem to put even the part of the state they are from.....
 Age: 25
 Turin, Italia