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Female Dominant, 37, Meadville, Pennsylvania
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Female Submissive, 45, Northern, Virginia
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About Arach
I am a sensuous heterosexual sadistic Dominant Daddy. I was born on Memorial Day, 1947 and continue to celebrate it on the Holiday. I live in the Austin Area.
I may write you to tell you about my blog. I may write you to tell you about myself. If you do not answer, I will not bother you. Everyone deserves their own opinions and desires. But politeness dictates that you let me know you are not interested.
The purpose of all of this that we do is, in my opinion, the enjoyment and growth of all partners. If you do not enjoy your time with me, there is little purpose in continuing it. While I would wish a relationship based on Mastery and Dominance, that submission should be chosen because it is enjoyable and rewarding for all parties.
I am a man with exquisite and passionate erotic tastes. I seek a closely bonded long term relationship with a strongly masochistic women of the same. The mind is the strongest sex organ, and mine works overtime. But PASSION is the greatest aphrodisiac to me. There is little hotter to me than watching a woman cum to exhaustion, and knowing I had a major part in it.
I think the first thing for me to say is that connection, communication, transparency and authenticity are the most important things to me. Without a basis in trusted communication, I do not feel it is possible to have a healthy Dominant and submissive relationship. What this means is we have to take time to get to know each other on a day to day basis. On line relationships are entertaining, but it is the day to day life that makes a relationship, so if you are not close, things will probably not work out.
Next would come sex. I am a very sexual being. I greatly enjoy a womans passion and will do what I can to create and sustain it. The bonding that occurs in a Ds sadomasochistic relationship is profound and I will work to deepen that. I admit to being a great admirer of physical beauty. It often, but does not necessarily come with youth. I greatly enjoy the Daddylittle dynamic. I also would insist on strong bi-sexuality in a partner, as experimental and broader sexual scenarios are a delight to me. There will be times when I may wish to enjoy you with another or watch you being taken by another for MY pleasure. As a hint of sexual activity, watch some Nacho Vidal or Rocco Siffredis movies some time. I have used the term pornographic sex to my detriment. But what I mean is as in the fantasy of porn, I want a partner who is anxious to be as sexual towards me as I am towards her, to be open in her lusts particularly for me. Why else are we enjoying each others bodies?
Part of that is my enjoyment of sadistic behavior. While I greatly enjoy a wide range of sadistic play, my greatest reward is the masochistic pleasure and passion created. In other words, I want to hurt you till you beg to cum. But just being a top is not enough for me. The emotional gift of submission is a fulfillment of who I am. I will definitely work to create an environment where that is possible. There is much discussion about gift and I do not wish to debate that now, suffice it to say, I can lead the relationship with your support. Let us keep to that.
In that line, emotional trust is vastly important. There are wounds in all of us, and I am capable and willing to be there when it is necessary to expose those wounds and assist in their healing. But I expect that my partner will be there for me as well. While it is thought that this is an UN-equal relationship, it MUST be between partners of equal VALUE and equal RESPECT, and based in trust and admiration no matter the inequality of the roles we play. Grief is healed not alone, but with an accepting partner.
I commit to working for your physical, mental and spiritual health and growth. I wish to be held accountable for that. I will work diligently to learn what excites you and to protect and advise you to the best of my ability. Strength in my submissive does not frighten me away. On the contrary, I am drawn to it. How much better if that strength is given freely from admiration? (I would far rather the momentary submission of a Queen, than the abject slavery of someone who feels they are a wretch.)
I am an intelligent man who continues training and tries to be active in the community. I constantly seek to learn more about myself with a more fulfilled life, both physical and spiritual, being the goal. Butchmanns and SWLC has assisted me greatly in that path. I teach and seek to further contribute to the community by presentations wherever possible.
While I greatly enjoy Sadistic behavior, I do NOT enjoy suffering for its sake alone. It would be far better if you were excited by being taken by me and became wet from the pain. A friend once said, Youre not a Sadist, with a masochist, you are just a very nice guy.
Finally I would say that your health, your family, and your career all take precedence to any of Dominance or play on my part. You will be treated as a valuable human being. Also, life has its challenges, and you will never be WRONG if you have a reasonable excuse for not accomplishing something assigned.
Arach
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I was asked what is it that I am looking for. This was my answer.
My long term goal would be to have a deeply bonded life partner. My interests would require a fit and attractive woman, bisexual, deeply submissive to me, and Masochistic. While I do enjoy and would need her to accept multiple partners, it would always be WITH her, not outside of our relationship. Sexual acts between her and others would be acceptable as long as she understands and accepts that any pleasure she receives would be due to me, so any appreciation beyond sincere manors would be mine as well. I suppose one way of putting that would be that she might be poly sexual, but not poly submissive.
In the short term, that is more problematic. My play tends to have strong sexual overtones and emphasize D/s aspects. I can be a strong sadist, but do not require it as long as the REACTION I get is true and appreciative. I play with both male and female, but I must say I do appreciate the female energy far more. |
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There is much I have written here that is history and is truly no longer necessary.
I am a man with exquisite and passionate erotic tastes. I seek a closely bonded long term relationship with a woman of the same.
I believe that there are wounds in all of us, and I am capable and willing to be there when it is necessary to expose those wounds and thereby heal. But I expect that my partner will be there for me as well. While it is sometime thought that this is an UN-equal relationship, it MUST be between partners of equal VALUE and equal RESPECT, no matter what the inequality of the roles we play.
I am an intelligent man who continues training and is active in the community. I constantly seek to learn more about myself with a more fulfilled life, both physical and spiritual being the goal.
If you are interested enough to want to know more, ask.
Arach
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