AddictiveAnnie

CLEAN UP TIME:

If we haven't talked in two weeks, don't worry about contacting me. I've deleted you from my yahoo list. This means six people were removed. No, that does not mean I'm currently looking again. I'm pretty happy with what I have right now.

Good luck in your search for the perfect Domme/Dom/Sub/Slave,

Addictive Annie

Had a go at teamviewer for all of 5 minutes, the guy turned off his computer I'm assuming. I've definitely learned that I need to get some more practice with Windows, I'm too use to my mac, it takes all the fun out of it. I've also learned that I get really excited once it gets to entering the person's teamviewer ID.

I'm interested in trying teamviewer. Any advice from Dommes, who have done this before, are greatly welcomed. Also, any subs willing to let me "experiment" on their computers, let me know.

Earlier I read a journal entry that had some good points. Mainly that people use this site as a fantasy world, trying to be something they're not in the real world. I'm not sure if that's true or not, but I thought it was a good point to make. It also made me realize that I would hate to meet a sub and have him/her think, "What the hell."So in an effort to not fool anyone on here (which I haven't been doing I hope) I'm going to make it clear what I am and what to expect.

1. I am a plus size domme, just in case that isn't clear from my pictures (which it is).

2. Yes, my breasts are real. I actually got a breast reduction at 16 and went from a G to a C and they eventually grew to a D/DD. (No emails telling me that getting a breast reduction means my breasts aren't real, that makes absolutely no sense).

3. I'm dark skinned, which I think the pictures don't really show due to the flash.

4. The words on my profile are actually real and come from the heart. But surprisingly (well some subs are surprised) I like to get to know a sub first. I'm not going to invite you over so I can fuck you with a strap on immediately after exchanging 3 or 4 emails, sorry.

5. Also, if and when we get to chatting, you'll definitely see my sweet side (I'm not proud of this, but it's true), unless you piss me off. But don't get it twisted, I'm a domme and will always be a domme.

6. If you have any more INTELLIGENT questions, email me.

So the thing with being a Financial Domme, who also welcome subs who are not willing to pay or tribute, is that fake paypigs annoy the hell out of me. I hate when a sub approaches me as a paypig just to get attention when he can get that attention even if he wasn't paying. So, usually when a "paypig" approaches me, I sniff out the real from the fakes by telling them they need to prove that they're for real by tributing (nothing much, like a $10 amazon card). Anyway, yesterday I was reading the scam warning on CM and realized they had this listed as a scam, lol. No wonder some guys didn't reply after that request. I'm a very fair person, so I'll start giving these guys the benefit of the doubt. I'm going to change my strategy and hope these guys noticed that I make it clear in my profile that you do not need to tribute me, buy me shit, pay me, etc. in order to approach me. Like I've said before, tributing and paying Dommes is a fetish, if that's not your personal fetish, don't pretend it is.

-AddictiveAnnie

Ladies, this is long but read as much as you can. At least enough to get this pricks SN.

I had to block someone on here and on my yahoo list. This "guy", NYCBOY22, has been emailing me on here since the 17th. We finally got to talking today and exchanged yahoo SN. I was talking to him for a bit on yahoo and he asked what I would expect him to do. I went into explaining what I expected (basically what's written on my profile, so red flag #1, he didn't read my profile). He was really interested in cuckolding, sissification and forced bi (second red flag, he liked exactly what I liked). I told him I would need a pic of him and that it could be faceless because I chose to have my pics faceless and I understand if he wants privacy. I also made it clear from the get go that I do cam sessions, but only when I think my subs deserve it, and it's always faceless. this is often a deal breaker for a lot of subs, so I make it clear from the get go so they won't waste their time talking to me if that's not for them. I'm very good with giving voice verification and picture (with a personalized sign with the sub's name) if they want to verify that I am real and a woman. I completely understand the need to verify that you are talking to who the person says they are, so I try to accommodate any sub I talk to. He asked for verification and this is how the conversation panned out. Little boys annoy me, it's sad that people come on here just to play games.

New York (aka nycboy222222, ladies please be weary)

 10:35 AM i need you to voice verify...there are so many fuckin gay ass holes on this site...i am sure you know what i mean so many faggots...they are so queer n gross

(My SN hidden for obvious reasons)

10:37 AM Haha, that I can do for you, I can either record something and email it to you, what's your name? or you can call me on here. I do prefer the recording, unless you want to wait until I'm private

New York

10:38 AM no lets do a web cam right now  who the hell would be around you now????

(My SN hidden for obvious reasons)

10:39 AM 1. Who are you talking to 2. My roommate, who cannot see my screen but can definitely hear some guy on my computer

New York

10:40 AM and she does not know your life style give me a break

10:40 AM then just turn your cam on no voice

(My SN hidden for obvious reasons)

10:42 AM Actually, no she doesn't. A roommate is a roommate, not my best friend. Also, you need to calm down with the tone, it's not acceptable. I can understand your reluctance to go any further before verifying that I am a woman. I'm also aware of the scams that some men have fallen prey to. But, at the end of the day, you do not get to talk to me anyway you see fit

SKIPPING AHEAD

(My SN hidden for obvious reasons)

10:47 AM Listen, if you're going to be a time waster and a bullshitter, get the hell off my messenger

New York

10:47 AM you are so full of shit10:47 AM faggot10:48 AM what a losser 

(My SN hidden for obvious reasons)

10:48 AM if you can't be satisfied with a 5 second cam session, a voice recording with a personal message to you and voice call in an hour then seem like you're the wanking loser

10:49 AM Tell me, were you wanking while I was telling you what you would have to do for me

New York

10:49 AM ok put the cam on but  you need to wave to me  

(My SN hidden for obvious reasons)

10:49 AM wanking to the idea of sucking and fucking cock to please me

This is after I decide to get on cam for 5 seconds to give him a fuck you and block him (I love to be right, lol)

10:51 AM Haha, guess you couldn't handle the truth, stupid fucker

New York

10:52 AM i can handle it and you are a guy  a poser  how fucked are you

(My SN hidden for obvious reasons)

10:53 AM Which is why you didn't accept my request to view my cam, wow, stupid ass fuck, don't get mad because now you're being dropped and you're not going to be able to suck some dick for me

10:53 AM Stop wanking nasty slut

New York

10:53 AM i will accept your request send it

(My SN hidden for obvious reasons)

10:55 AM1. I don't talk to fuckers like you who think you can talk to someone any sort of way. That proves that you're just a stupid, disobedient brat. Control your little ass brain and then maybe you'll be able to use your big brain, small prick

10:57 AM 2. I invited you to see my cam a minute ago not because I'm still considering you, but because I want to give you a big fuck you, now let's try that again, and once I give you my big fuck you, you will delete me from your messenger and miove the fuck on

10:58 AM Now delete my shit from your messenger and move the fuck on

New York has accepted the invitation to view your webcam. 

New York has started viewing your webcam.

New York

10:58 AM that is such a piece of crap

10:58 AM that is a file ass hole

10:58 AM do you want the file name???

(My SN hidden for obvious reasons)

10:58 AM What, oh okay, buy loser.

New York

10:59 AM i was a video engineer for yahoo for two years do you want to know your home address too loaser

(My SN hidden for obvious reasons)

10:59 AM oh, go ahead sweety, give me my home address

10:59 AM Oh, while you're at it, give me that file name as well

11:00 AM oh, also, while you're at, get that dick out of your ass and the other one out of your mouth

New York

11:00 AMtrouble dealing wiht the fact you are a poser  and over fifty ass hole

(My SN hidden for obvious reasons)

11:01 AM Calling someone a faggot. Come on loser, you were willing to fuck and suck dick for me, just to please me. Who's the faggot.

11:01 AM Mmm, well let's see, born in July 1988, I think that puts me at 23, but I understand if you can't do math, sweety

New York

11:01 AM no i do not suck dick just playing with you fa

(My SN hidden for obvious reasons)

11:02 AM it's really not your fault that you spend too much time thinking with Mr. little down below and not with your actual brain

11:02 AM it's bitches like you who give CM a bad name

11:03 AM If you want to be a dick, feel free to, but stop giving cm a bad name stupid whore

Next time I'll be sure to block ignorant asses like this instead of carrying them on for almost 30 minutes (didn't even realize the argument was that long, lol, fucker wasted 30 minutes of my time). 

So I got a job which means the move from Maryland to New York was successful. A bachelors degree in Psychology does nothing for me, except to play with my subby's heads, lol. Anyway, went to go look at my workplace today and noticed that it's five minutes away from a shopping center that has some amazing stores; Gucci, Prada, Burberry, etc. Saving is not in my future, ugh. 

Uploaded new pics, but of course they're boob pics. I just love showing them off, lol. Maybe I'll have some normal ones next week.

I'm trying to record some messages for my subs and realize I say "um" waaaay too much. I use to judge my professors who did this, need to work on this asap.

Thanks to all the wonderful subs/slaves that have sent me messages about my previous journal entry. You guys are really sweet.

After all the wonderful messages I've been getting from subs, this was bound to happen. Lol. Ignorance at its finest.

I am currently in need of a techy sub. Someone who is willing to do research. he or she must also be good in video editing. I want to start posting videos for my good little subbies on here or my website, which I'm currently working on.

Two thoughts:

1. Some paypigs have expressed that they would like me to have their numbers for those days that I need to make demands immediately. I wasn't open to the idea because I do not want others to have access to my phone number, that would be breeching my mom's privacy. But, I've decided that getting a tracfone is not a bad idea. It's disposable and requires no contract, which means no name. 

2. I need to get a P.O. box for gifts.

Any paypigs who wish to pay for any of the two, let me know.

I really should have a FAQ post, but I'm going to work on my neglected website, so I'll just post it their instead. But this question has been coming a lot, so I'll answer it: How are you a Financial Domme but don't expect all your subs to pay? Most Dommes only deal with Paypigs.

Well, no two Dommes are alike, which means there isn't one right way to do things. For me personally, I see financial domination as a fetish. I would never want someone to pay me for my services, because I love the style and I'm doing it for fun, not the money. Now, I am mainly a financial domme because that is my favorite part ostyle (besides forced bi of course, lol) because it crosses an entire new level of control. However, if you're a foot worshipper, that's your fetish, I'm not going to ask you for money if that's not a part of your fetish. Maybe this really doesn't answer the question because it's hard to explain, but I'll use this quote that I always seem to use: You're not paying me for my services, giving me money is the service (or in other words, it's the fetish).

This also brings me to something I've been noticing a lot; the bashing of Financial Dommes. I can understand a sub's anger at being asked to pay to even talk to a domme when they're not a paypig, but financial slavery isn't just about that. Some claim that we're blood-sucking, gold-diggers (Lol, makes me laugh every time), and while that might be the case for some, it's not the case for many Dommes. Some guys enjoy giving a woman money just as much as you enjoy being forced to suck a guys dick. So, in other words, that's what gets them going. A paypig's dick will get instantly hard if you send him a very demanding email telling him to buy you something off your wishlist. Some cum extremely hard just by hitting that transfer button. 

Moral of the story, don't bash a lifestyle just because you don't understand it. Society bashes our style because they don't understand it. Which means you're no better than them. If financial slavery is not your thing but a Domme demands it, move on. You guys obviously don't and won't click anyway. She's not into the same kinks as you are. Also, keep in mind that not all Financial Dommes expect you to pay them, so don't just run off when you see those two words in their profile. I currently deal with more subs who aren't paying, than I do with paypigs.

Long I know,

Addictive Annie

PS CM's spacing sucks.

Damn, didn't realize I had so many pages of unread/unreplied messages. My strategy is to start from page 6 and work my way up to page 1. If you don't fall within that range, that means you weren't interested anyway (so many follow up emails from subs who actually want to talk). 

Here you go guys, my gift list. I have three different ones (permission wishlist, general wishlist, and the $25 and under wishlist), so just look to the left-hand side to choose the list.  

Dear Time Wasters, 

I would appreciate it if you refrained from hitting that "send message" button. I'm not sure what you seek to gain. I'm especially confused by the fake money slaves. If you don't enjoy spending money on a Domme, then don't claim that you do, especially since I've made it clear that I'm not only interested in money slaves. While I am a financial Domme, I enjoy the BDSM/fetish world too much to just do it for money. So for all those subs/slaves who like to be abused or controlled, welcome. If you're not willing to spend money, leave the lies at the door and come in anyway.

I do like a sub/slave that I can talk to. Usually when a sub/slave comes at me hardcore, I know they're out for a one time session relationship. That's not always off limits because I often have the urge to abuse someone (I call it a quicky, lol). But, I'm mostly here to find slaves that I can own for a while.

If you're not interested in being owned and is just browsing around, please be clear about this. This will not lower your chances of getting a reply email from Me.

Hello subs/slaves,

Like everyone else on this site, I do not like to waste my time reading generic emails. If you're interested enough to contact Me, you can write a personalized email. If your profile fails to hint at what you're looking for then add that in the email you're sending Me. How can either of us know if we'll make a good fit.

boys, before you ask, scroll through my additional photos. I don't want any emails asking to see more. you get to see more once you become MINE!