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DomDepot
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VictoriaThrashn
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Wow. I haven't updated this in forever. I'm an active member of the local kink community. I'm an unabashed geek and a proud switch! I don't smoke and I don't do drugs, though I drink socially.
I'm looking for friends only. If you want to chat and flirt, that's great, but I'm not single and not looking.
If you'd like to know more, send me a message.
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Full disclosure: I'm sick to death of being used. Unfortunately, that seems to be all that people -and, by people, I mean single women- are interested in lately.
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My 5/13 entry still stands. I'll be in Maggie Valley from 7/26 through 8/2. If you're interested in meeting up for coffee or what-have-you, send me an email.
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I'm going to be in Maggie Valley, NC, at the end of June/beginning of August. If you're from that area and spotted me checking out your profile, that's why. :) (Well, also, I lived in the Piedmont area of NC for several years and was curious about the kinkster population there.)
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On Titles:
I love titles. There's a part of me that loves formality and ritual in my kink. That part of me makes me want the submissives I play with to call me by a title, a formal name that acknowledges that, in the context of the scene or relationship, I have a superior social status.
Then again, I also recognize that titles must be earned, that to insist on a title for myself would be pretentious. If a girl is going to call me "Master" or "my Lord" or even "Sir," I want it to be because she wishes to honor me, not because I insist upon it.
I tend to mention my appreciation of titles in negotiation, but that feels a little bit like cheating to me, like I'm prompting her to do something she wouldn't otherwise think of. It feels, to me, like I'm saying, "I want you to call me by a title, but I know it's douchebaggy to insist, so I'm just going to drop a strong hint."
On the other end of the whip, when I'm negotiating play with a Domme, I usually ask what her favored title is. This is both because I want to honor her and make her comfortable and because, again, I enjoy the formal touch, the confirmation of status difference.
By taking on the names of Mistress and slave, she is freeing me to immerse fully into my submissive side.
By taking the names of Master and slave, I am elevated beyond myself, able to fully exist in my Dominant headspace.
Does that make sense to you?
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I had a good time at the munch tonight. I never feel that I get to attend community functions often enough, but that's mostly my own fault. If you're reading this and I forgot your name tonight, I'm sorry. I'm terrible with names!
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Holy wow! I have the sexiest friends on this whole site, hands-down.
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