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27 GAY WM novice boy searching for serious Master (strict but gentle) to participate in D/s relationship. semi-smooth, slim body. Interests include Rubber, Leather, Shaving, cbt, tt. safe/sane/clean

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3/14/2003 11:03:23 AM
GAY is what I enter into my profile, but somehow it refuses to update...does it know something I don't? The increasing hours of daylight are nice, although the approach of summer makes me a little too warm. It is nice that the changes are gradual as one has time to appreciate them. I really wish someone would email me, it would be nice to hear about others experiences. Maybe I will take some initiative and do the contacting myself (that's a novel idea!).

1/21/2003 8:11:47 AM
Perhaps I am expecting too much. What are the odds of meeting someone compatible? They don't seem to be very high or I am going about my search the wrong way. I spent a good deal of the holidays in leather bars and book shops. My skin tingled when I saw an older man with a fresh haircut and leather pants or a jacket, but I always seemed to walk home alone. I tell myself that I should proach this as a hobby or side interest. I shouldn't be getting too obsessed or frustrated. This is about pleasure after all, I should try and appreciate the anticipation, the potential... I am noticing a new interest in younger men as well. Walking this morning I saw an average looking young man with a military style buzz cut, perhaps 28.. it was largely his average features and clothing (and haircut!) that I found myself taking a second look at. And I immediately thought about how rare it seems to be that a gay man would look so unconcerned about being fashionable or attractive (too attractive). I must try to enjoy the watching, waiting and the hoping.

1/17/2003 2:24:05 PM
I have had very little experience in a D/s relationship, but I am consistently attracted to the idea. I find I am interested in older, more experienced men. I fantasize about meeting someone who leads a 'normal' life on the outside (married? suit and tie by day? military?), but who is also interested in undertaking the training of a new boy. A man who is comfortable in the roles of strict Master/Father and also Mentor/Friend. The fantasy version has us meeting, finding we have some common interests...we meet a few times and decide to explore more intensely. I submit to him..he shaves me, instructs me, tests me..he demonstrates his Dominance as well as his idea of how his boy should be by piercing his boy. I find this very erotic. It can also be a path to increased control and chastity. In this way the Master marks his boy, he sets his sign on him. Boy will think of his Master every time he notices his baldness or feels the piercings shift. It is serious and painful and for those reasons, it also an opportunity to for the boy to demonstrate his willingness to submit. This ritual is also a chance for the Master to improve his boys body, push his boy's limits, fulfill a wish, test boy's resolve and achieve some physical results. This is of course only a small episode, and probably the fantasy of a number of submissives, but it continualy excites me. I hope it excites a Man who feels a similar excitement at the thought of training a boy. It seems that there are far more men interested in submitting rather than Dominating or assuming the active role. Perhaps some of the few Masters who exist were once subs who decided to help out all the subs who can't find a serious Dom?

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