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Love many, trust few, always paddle your own canoe!
I'm a hopeful girl, a lover of life and I enjoy a wide variety of life's pleasures.
Everyone's time is precious. Please do not step to me to get my attention if you are not in possession of at least basic English and writing skills. I will not answer. Sorry, everyone has their line in the sand and that's mine.
About me, I am passionate and deliberate. I'm deliberate in my words, deeds, thoughts and actions. I am passionate on all levels - from those whom I love, to my beliefs, values and life in general.
I am FIERCELY independent and am used to being in control of everything in my life and I am thinking it might be nice to turn control of my mind/thoughts and body over from time to time to an exceptional, experienced, capable and qualified gentleman.
But he's going to have to be truly exceptional, that's for certain and he can best believe I will push him, just to make certain he's as exceptional as I require, in order to receive my consideration and an invitation into my head.
My ideal partner can write. People who can write, can reach me. My ideal partner would have to know how to write eloquently from a brilliant mind as well as from his heart. His words should be a concerto of both intellect and emotion. For me, attraction begins totally in the mind. If someone engages my mind or my thoughts, everything else falls into place.
The man for me is educated and conversant on a wide range of topics - from current events, politics, entertainment, and he must have his own well-formed and well-based opinions. He is cultured, enjoying art, music, independent and some mainstream film, he self-educates (as I do) on those issues of importance to him.
He is a paragon of strength; strength of character, strength of presence, strength of intellect, strength of his convictions, strength of his passion and of course, this should go without saying... his physical strength.
He must be PASSIONATE in all aspects - from the way he kisses me intuitively knowing it must be a strong, firm and knowing kiss, to how he teaches and disciplines, to how he lives, to how he lives his life. He is passionate about those things that mean the most to him and will fight fiercely to protect that which means the most to him. This includes me...
He has a strong character, an amazing sense of self-respect and respect for others, appreciates and meets personal challenges and strives to better himself and his life daily and always.
He must not be intimidated that I am independent, a homeowner, a college graduate, devoted to my friends and family but rather, he would appreciate those qualities because he shares them. He would have to appreciate that I'm a brat and a bitch from time to time in ironic complement to my (sometimes) intimidating independence. He will need extreme tolerance and patience in dealing with these facets of my feminine character but I think this will be an enjoyable and challenging journey of discovery for myself and just the right gentleman.
Oh yeah, he better have a sense of humor!
The payoff could be boundless and limitless... and THAT'S what I'm looking for. The boundless and limitless exploration and relationship with the right gentleman...
And I'm not holding my breath either for I know and have known exceptional men in my life and will not settle for anything less at this point!
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Life really never ceases to amuse and entertain me. It's true. C'est vrai.
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Oh wow, get this, this is a message I received today in my CM mailbox:
"thank god, the site finally pulled the plug on your iam perfect, and my
dream dom-blah blah.. should be, blah blah.. reality check, call dr
phil bitte!"
Verbatim.
I was SO incredibly inspired by this man and when I attempted to reply to his message in my usual charming way (and judging by his profile, I imagine he does not receive very many responses)... well, imagine my surprise to find out that after he pushed send on this message to me, HE BLOCKED ME from being able to answer.
This, folks, is an INSPIRATION of a man.
He is an inspration of how a man should not be.
He is an inspiration in his personification of the word chicken-shit.
He is an inspiration, gentlemen, to achieve a better way of life and a better way to conduct yourself in your dealings with others.
What kind of man attacks a woman verbally and then blocks her from being able to answer his allegations?
Truly inspiring!
Wanna know who he is? ;) Oh relax, I'm not that kind of girl...
But what's truly ironic is that this has happened once before. Some colossal douche-nugget sent me an offensive email and blocked me from responding. It's a shame. My responses to vitriolic emails are a lot of fun!
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DominATE - verb; DominANT - adjective/noun. DISCUSS! DISCUSS! DISCUSS! Grrrrrrr!
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The best email on CM I have received to date:
"Saw your profile. For an uneducated, overweight, ugly woman, you sure are full of yourself.
Get an college education...or at least a GED...and go on a diet..."
And it came from someone with absolutely NOTHING in his profile signifying what? He's as vapid, empty, and full of absolutely nothing as his profile would suggest.
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A message from the grammar gestapo: Okay it's petty and maybe I *am* rude and offensive. That's it, I am. I'm petty and shallow and rude and offensiveYes, whatever it is *I* am, there are rules for punctuation just as there are rules for words such as your, you're, their, there, they're, its and it's. I will not amend my profile to say this but for real, it's called an ellipsis (or ellipses as the case sometimes can be.) Yes, if you were speaking it aloud, you'd call it a dot-dot-dot.
You would not call it a dot-dot-dot-dot-dot-dot-dot-dot-dot-dot-dot... now, I'm not necessarily speaking to anyone here on this site, it's just that I have corrected the grammar of folks who probably run laps around me salary wise and can't write their way out of a wet paper bag.
Then again, staying aware of grammar is not paying me as much as they make, maybe I should be taking note of this.
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Voice... what is it about a certain type of voice that makes me respond in certain ways? And it's not one specific voice either, it's more a tone. I have said it before, a tone of practiced yet gentle authority - I've only heard this voice a handful of times, the effect it has on me defies even my own words. It's too difficult to describe in my profile, I only know it when I hear it... the more I think about it, the more I think I am searching for an entire package that just does not exist...
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No place to start but at the beginning, right?
Not on here for a week and already I have been attacked for the tone of my profile. I even apologized for the tone, stating I meant no offense, that grammar skills and eloquence were just personal preferences and was still accused of being offensive and rude. Sometimes people are just going to infer whatever they want no matter your intention.
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