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About YandJcouple
**NO MEN, NO COUPLES, Sub/Slave WOMEN ONLY**
What we seek:
We are a married couple. Both seeking our “unicorn”. Someone who is secure enough with themselves to be shared by a couple. To be loved equally by the both of us.
Triad is a better definition of what we see; although not a choice here on CM (only Poly is, such a generic term). Each of us love each other the same. Three of us together, no separate relationships. You will be as much involved with him as with her. We see it as “US” not Him/Her, Him/you, or Her/you – just US!
INSIDE THE BEDROOM: You need to be a sub that can switch. Being married as long as we have, and having the connection we have (that we want to grow with you, also) we both cannot be Dom at the same time in bed – so technically we switch with each other; but will both be Dom/me with you. BUT at times will request your assistance when one of us is dominating the other.
We Love toys, oral, pain, anal, all of it, really. We are not a cyber couple, we are looking for real life/live-in situation with the right third.
OUTSIDE THE BEDROOM: You will be asked to help keep our house clean, watch the kids while we work (you will not have to work, unless you'd like to help financially). You may be asked to help our children with their homework – you MUST have (at minimum) a high school diploma. Some college would be helpful. We do not want a dumb bitch who cannot do basic 5th grade math, nor do we want someone in our house that cannot complete a simple sentence with proper English. Wife is working on her MBA and will not tolerate ignorance.
You will not receive 24/7 obedience. We have 3 children who are unaware of our “behind the bedroom door” happenings, and for the next few years, it will remain as such.
We have been together for almost 20 years, do not swing, will not “pimp” you out. Not into gangbangs, bukaki parties, one night stands, weekend flings, scat, sex with children or animals – if YOU are – just pass us by.
If you have made it this far in our profile, and we have interested you – please send us an email. Emails without a photo (or photo OF YOU on your profile) will be deleted unread. If you do not have a photo on your profile, you will take a photo with your cell, holding a sign that says “Hello YandJ” and attach it to the email you send. We do not want to see your pussy, ass or tits, we want a face pic (first).
We are not looking to PURCHASE anyone – if you email us requesting we contact someone else to send them money – don’t waste our time. If you email us to tell us to go to a website to see your videos – again, don’t waste our time. BE REAL, BE HONEST, AND BE YOU.
Lastly, we smoke, have cats and a dog. If you’re allergic or if smoke bothers you – I’m sorry, we’re not for you. If you are outside the US, male, or tranny – keep looking. We don’t have issues with how you want to live your life, we’re just currently seeking women only. |
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the amount of fake profiles on here is ridiculous - where are all the real people? |
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Wife:
If you cannot laugh at yourself - who can you laugh at?
You have to have SOME sort of personality in order to get along with us - SOME sense of humor, understand sarcasm, crack a joke now and again - regardless if our true Poly 3rd comes along, or if a slave comes along - you NEED to have SOME sort of personality. Be able to carry on a conversation, ask questions for Christ's sake!! We do not bite (too hard anyway), and in order to know if we're the right couple for you, you HAVE to ask SOME questions.
I do not mind dominating the conversation; but a little feedback/interest on your part goes a LONG way in my book. And although we may not be a 24/7 BDSM house, we do play - with each other - a LOT and the right 3rd will be played with as well.
You cannot judge us solely on our profile - you HAVE to ask us questions to get to know us.
Although we respect respect, we'd like more than simple "yes sir" or "yes ma'am" answers - or "OK" give us SOMETHING to work with as well as know you're interested (especially if you contact us first!)
That is all - :) I feel better :) |
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Husband:
If we are all interested in each other then after exchanging a few emails and taking it to chat you are to give us your undivided attention! If there are long pauses in answer with more then 60% of our questions then we simply are not interested in you and at that time you will be blocked and deleted. Also when things don’t add up like your profile says one state your yahoo says another then you tell us you are from yet a third state you will then not only be blocked and deleted but listed as a scam! |
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Wife: very frustrated, disappointed, hurt, annoyed - sick of games, fakes, "lead-you-ons", lack of honesty, people more interested in ONE of us, than the BOTH of us. Sick of men contacting us - we're not interested in a male, sorry, please read the fucking profile.
We have kids, NOT a 24/7 BDSM household (now, not until they are older - the WERE and ARE being raised "vanilla").
We are not perfect, no one is, we have our flaws/quirks/attitudes it makes us who we are. |
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Honesty is REALLY the best quality and if you cannot be honest with yourself, you cannot be honest with us. We answer any and all questions asked of us honestly - we expect the same of you. |
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Men, sorry - you go to bulk; not interested in a male slave/sub
Ladies - please have something written in your profile. Just stats of age/location/orientation is NOT enough to peak interest. We have taken a lot of time filling out what we're looking for/what we expect, we respectfully request you have done the same.
Also, if you get a message from us, and are not interested; it is polite to send a "thanks, but no thanks" email in return.
Why are there so many rude, inconsiderate people on here? Were you not raised properly? |
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You Scored as Sadist (Husband,s)
This would be with the wife as hers is with me.
"You like to hurt people and find it arousing. It isn't a problem as long as you find someone who likes what you deal".
| Exhibitionist / Voyeur |
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57% |
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Wife's "Kink" scores:
Switch 89%
Bondage 79%
Submissive 68%
Masochist 68%
Experimental 61%
Exhibitionist/Voyeur 61%
Dominant 57%
Sadist 46%
Degradation Lover 18%
Vanilla 14%
from http://quizfarm.com/quizzes/Sex/poeticthinker/do-you-have-an-inclination-for-bdsm/index.php
Obviously, that's IN the bedroom...eh, maybe not 100%; I can see that outside the bedroom too...answered the questions based on w/ husband only...I'm sure they're different w/ our 3rd :) |
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