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Male Dominant, 38, London
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Male Switch, 60
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About Yangyinandyou
Because I can't change this from couples on the search criteria I have moved this profile to Iflickher2. Please use that nick. It's still me Happy loving D/s healing Yang (Dominant straight Male) would like to encourage a submissive/switch yin (female) to develop to her full potential and with the proper match to build up some additional Karmic credit. I would like a long term possibility but I also know that we often find what we need by not looking for it. Yang and yin form one as they maintain separate and mutually balancing identities. I am willing to consider appropriate arrangements from occasional visits (near or far) to long term live-in, or more, as, and when, appropriate. I practice different healing traditions including an 800 year old traditional Chinese energy method, Qi Gong. I have been in the D/s life for years and am experienced and a community leader. I welcome play partners with all levels of experience and play safe. I also love to chat with those who have interests in the life in general or seek mentoring. I am both literate and educated, but not usually a snob. Most of all I enjoy life, even in vanilla activities and always look for humor in a situation. Well, I really don't appreciate it if a sub laughs during a flogging. I prefer a lady who is more interested in developing a ltr, or exploring that possibility, but I am not above succumbing to the pleasures of the moment. I put more value on a literate response and value a detailed checklist (including the more vanilla parts for ltr consideration). I like, at least until I have a ltr partner, to meet people while I travel around the country and the world and to find people who enjoy traveling with me. No Dom in his right mind would demand, or have the right to, immediate obedience. The Dom must earn the trust of the sub if that trust is to be freely given. It cannot be taken or it is of superficial value. By that I mean the same thing about the responses you likely get from other 'members' who first want to talk about their members. There are far too many jackasses pretending to lead a herd. They demand that every mare they see falls in line with their commands. They are not leaders and they can ultimately produce nothing but Mules. Mules have their place, but I am not a part of that place. Stallions and mares were meant to run with the wind. Of course, when being ridden, they may have bits in their mouth and a crop may need to be laid on, but care must be taken to produce the result the rider intended. Ridden or roaming free, a mare cannot be overly controlled. She must be sufficiently controlled when under saddle to understand and obey the rider's intention and when approaching a jump or other obstacle, if the mare objects, the crop usually needs to be prudently shown or applied to spur her on for the desired task. The rider must never ask the mount to attempt anything he knows the mare cannot accomplish and risk injuring her, but he can train her to increase her abilities to reach new goals. Likewise when the mare is roaming free in the corral or meadow, she must freely come to her rider and care giver with affection and anticipation in her eyes and body language. She allows herself to be bridled and led to her stall and fed and washed, or saddled and mounted. She never knows just which. |
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