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I live with my fantastic serious partner. We're non-monogamous and I'm open to play partners, and maybe dating (potentially even from random folks on this site if you seem cool!).
Some disclaimers
(a) I'm demisexual, but don't need as much of an emotional connection to be interested in kink play with another person. I'm particularly intrigued by the idea of a kink relationship with minimal sex.
(b) 95% of the time I am not attracted to cis men. Couples are totally different, and much more appealing - lots of fun dynamics to play with there!
I started going to clubs in and around LA in Nov 2009. Went a lot for a few years, and over the course of the last decade have gradually fallen out of the scene. Was trying to get back into it when COVID struck - but starting to feel safe to meet new (vaccinated) folks!
As an overview of my kinks: I am intelligent, confident, and capable. I am in control of most situations I make things happen the way I want them to happen. I find it attractive when that is no longer the case. :)
Condescension and humiliation are delicious. I tend to prefer "you're a waste of my time" over "good girl," etc etc. Emotions are a delight. Roleplaying is fun.
Outside of the kink world, I have a great job in the video game industry. I spend a lot of free time cooking, petting my two delightfully matching cats, reading, and playing video games. I miss weight lifting and rock climbing and I'm looking forward to getting back into something active as I start feeling safe in gyms again.
I am very good at logistics, planning, and scheduling.
I also like board games, trying new things, the occasional adventure, and getting to know my friends better in small group hang outs.
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