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WaywardTraveler

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WaywardTraveler - Male Dominant, 28590 North Carolina | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About WaywardTraveler

Seems appropriate to alter this information to reflect some more current feelings and status. I have recently moved to Greenville, NC. I moved here for a job and know next to no one. I think that should give me a rather fresh and valid "start".

I am looking for friends. People who are willing to stand up and do what they say they are going to do. Some have already contacted me, professed they wanted friendship, then when they realized I was being honest about friendship for the time being and not a full blown relationship, they get upset with me for being honest. Rather ODD turn of events in that. Yes it has happened twice in the 2.5 weeks I have been here.

So that being said, FRIENDS are what I would like. People to hang out with, eat dinner with, catch a movie with. I have had some interesting times in the past few months and need the space to catch my breath, reset my world and just be me.

Actually had someone tell me that I travel too much for them.  Interesting.  No inquiry as to why I travel (because I traveled for work), just that I was a rolling stone and they wanted someone more stable.  LOL  Well there is a 3 year commitment to the job I have now and I start school in the spring in a 2 year program.  I have a great job and I do it very well.  Guess that means I am not stable  LOL  The real bad part of all this, it was simply for occasional dinner or movie. LOL

I have apparently been rather out of sorts.  I have been attempting to be careful with how I interact with others, but alas, a very innocent and vanilla conversation has initiated a block against me.  I just think it would be nice for people to talk to people about issues they may have, especially if there is no undertones etc.  Just makes you think HMMMMM what did I do or what the hell were they thinking.

I find myself pretty much stuck.  Finances are such that a move to Central Florida at the present time is unfathomable.  The 3 jobs that were offering assistance seem to offer that assistance only as a last and I do mean FINAL resort. 

 

Therefore, I am going to find a small, inexpensive place to call home for awhile.  Work my Dragon Tail off and hopefully, in 12 months, the Harley is paid off, the jeep is paid off and I have a nest egg.  We shall see.

 

Goals, gotta love them.

Sitting at the beach in Pompano watching the storm roll in off the Atlantic. Wow would be great to be sitting here with someone special!

I am also seeking someone who would enjoy spending time on the golf course with me.  I am quite new at the sport but enjoy the time out and about.  Always easier to have someone you can chat with while enjoying the links.  Please, let me know.  Ciao

Ok, so I have found a job, is it optimum?  Not from my present view point, however, that could change.  I will be in Margate Florida for about 3 months.  Should it work out and I enjoy it there, may sign on for longer, if not, I am at least IN Florida.  Interviews are so much easier when you are able to jump in the truck and drive to them  LOL.

 

I hope to get some beach time while in the Margate/Pompano area.  Anyone like to fish?  I plan on doing some of that as well.

I had the oppotrunity to swap philosophy with a young lady earlier today.  The question came up "When is it time to call a Dom Master, Daddy or Sir?"  My honest opinion was when he/she earns that right.  Anyone can join this site, put their name up as Master, Mistress, King, Queen "whatever" and in reality it means nothing.  Those titles are given to Doms by the sub who, over time, opens their heart to full submission to the Dominant.  A respectful Sir or Ma'am is quite appropriate throughout the conversation and "courting" period.  A true leader does just that, leads.  Leading means creating the path for others to follow.  You cannot lead from behind, you must be in front, watching where you are going, have a goal in mind and providing a standard for the follower(s) to look up to.  Anyone who DEMANDS titles such as Master or Mistress at the very onset of a relationship is demeaning the titles, in my opinion.  Earn those words from your subs and the sound of them off their lips will be that much sweeter.

I find myself once again wandering, not in body but in soul.  Seeking answers for so many minute questions.  My life has little meaning and focus today.  I feel as if I am simply adrift on a raging sea, safe in the small life boat I have, however, very unsure of my destination.  Sometimes, its scary to feel the churning of it, however, today, it feels like the gentle sway of a mother rocking me to sleep.  Maybe if I could just slumber for a bit, relax and let some of the burdens roll off my shoulders, I would find that on the horizon lies the shore I seek. 

The very fact that this medium lends itself to secrets and falsehoods is one of the reasons most find it unfulfilling and unsatisfactory for their needs.  The internet should be an ice-breaker, not a deal-breaker.  People should not base an entire relationship and their very existence on someone who presents themselves solely in electronic form.  Please folks, have a smattering of intelligence and understand that safe, sane and consentual is just that with safe being the primary concern.  Would you wander a dark alleyway and respond to the voice calling from the darkened door?  Then why find yourself packing your things and traveling cross country to be with someone you have never truly laid eyes on?  I have seen it so many times and so many broken images.  Do you believe all the pictures placed on here?  Nor should you.  Some are photoshopped, other simply ripped off others profiles.  Please, have enough faith in your instincts to understand that if your gut says "HELL NO"  its probably right. 

These words are not a reflection of the views of the  management of this station or any of its sponsors  LOL
It is simple to wallow in mediocrisy, to find yourself flowing downstream with the unimaginative and the mundane.  It takes a visionary, a conquerer, to turn and change his/her direction and go against the norm.  I did not set out on this path to become one of the cookie cutter Doms.  I stepped out on my path to be different, to find MY way, to believe in ME. 

This is what I seek.  I seek someone who is not NORM.  Someone who does not bow to the mainstream of any society.  I seek someone who can look beyond the accepted into the imagination and find herself enticed and willing to walk that path. 
Its hard to fathom that again, many months have come and gone however, I remain on my journey.  Life has a peculiar way of forcing us to mold and bend to its desires.  As I proceed on the course set for me, I still search and listen for those who may seek to spend time, whether it be a minute or life, with me.  For now, I travel with my own soul to keep me company.
Almost a year, almost 4 seasons.  That is how long it has been since I expressed myself here.  Life has tormented and teased me beyond belief.  Some have stepped forward, claiming friendship and passion, others have revealed themselves to be what they truly are not.  No matter the pretense, the result remains the same, I travel this dark path unbidden by any true companion. 

Who is to blame in this matter?  Myself, I have chosen this path.  Most shake their heads and walk away, but to one who is possessed by wanderlust, this is the life I cannot tear myself from, therefore, I give myself over to it.
 
The winter moon runs its course thru the dark sky.  Clouds race across its face obscuring the illumination of my path.  Some have crossed the overgrown journey already, most positive, some arrogant and egocentric.  None know me well enough to dare risk crossing the beast that rests within.  Witches and creatures shadow my path knowing my purpose and determination.  Silence is my companion, reservation my strength. 
The opening of a new path, the venture toward an unknown destination.  Does one do better wandering alone, or does he seek out someone to walk beside him, friends, companions and lovers.  The going is difficult.  Many have strayed from the well worn path in search of adventure before only to find themselves alone and lost.  The trials and tribulations well known, he trods where no man dare step foot before.  The Journey has begun.
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