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OK, lets be clear with each other. I am a sub – all sub all the time – and I have recently relocated and coming out of a long-term relationship because of that move. I am looking for a serious and experienced owner. I have been in the lifestyle for over 20 years, and full understand the proper role of a sub. Single or couple does not matter, gender, body type, age, does not matter. I am bisexual but not a switch. What does matter is honest communication and a good chemistry. I am looking for a real time situation (cyber does nothing for me) and hopefully in Massachusetts or the nearby area.
(Please, no more emails from the Carribbean, Norway, Alaska, or other points).
Near Massachusetts is good, across the country is simply unrealistic so lets not waste our time. Having said that, I would be willing to relocate for the right relationship, but that is not an issue right now. Getting to know a good owner(s) is the issue. Without chemistry nothing could happen.
What is an issue is that being a sub is not something I do for “fun” (though it is fun) but what I am. I am looking for an owner that is someone that is as committed to the BDSM lifestyle as I am. We all have limits, and Safe Sane and Consensual is the key. This does not mean that limits cannot be expanded or explored. I also understand the need for discretion and respect.
If you are married, and your spouse does not participate in your BDSM activities, then I am not the person for you.
Frankly, I wonder if there are any real “players” out there. We all know that there are a certain amount of “wannabes” or “game players” that are on sites like this. If someone gets their kicks off doing that, I do not judge, just ask that if you contact me you are not one of these people.
A long-term relationship is my goal, and I am able to support myself and still be in a 24/7 relationship. But again, it takes to get to that point is an investment but if the chemistry is right, then it is worth it.
I answer all emails, and will respond as fully as possible to questions you may have about just about anything.
I should also perhaps talk about why I have not posted a picture. Simple. I do not judge books by covers, and hopefully you do not as well. Of course I will be happy to exchange pictures if we move to that point.
An owner looking for the right sub and a sub looking for the right owner is not an easy or fast process, but we both know that if it happens, it is great. I hope you will take the time to read my profile in detail. No question you may have is inappropriate or should not be asked and I will answer to the best of my ability.
So, drop me a line if you would and lets see where things go.
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