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Actually submissive
Sure, I have interests, likes, dislikes, etc.; Everyone does. But honestly the biggest interest I have is in seeing my partner pleased. I receive a great sense of pleasure (satisfaction, happiness, call it what you will) when I can satisfy the needs of who I'm with. So whatever their interest is, it then becomes what interests me. It's the idea of someone wanting me to do something, accept something, withstand something that really interests me. I guess it really is a selfish thing, getting satisfaction out of serving, but I think it really is at the base of who I am.
So I can think of things that I would find enjoyable (or not enjoyable), but if I think about it in terms of someone wanting that from me, that turns it up. A lot.
Of course, there's always personal compatibility, attraction, hard limits, (and of course Trust) and all the other stuff that needs to work out in order for something to grow.
Being submissive is a big part of who I am. I'm not someone who tries to top from the bottom. I'm not going to beg for something, or try to behave a certain way to extract a reaction. I want to serve, simple as that.
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