WaMaster42

ok...new rant.

Over the last few days I have had several conversations with a few potentials. None of them lasted, (not overly upsetting in the grand scheme of things). Most would reply to the initial email by asking a question, to which I would reply, but they would never bother to read or respond back, as if they were uninterested in hearing the answer to the question THEY posed. I did have a very enjoyable conversation, with a women who approached me, we talked for three days, the first day for 4 hours, and then abruptly ignored me, no explanation, no "so I don't think this will work"....just silence and the cold shoulder. In fact the very last thing she said to me was, "I'll talk to you later"

So my point is this, if you are one of those who believes the internet is a place where normal rules don't apply, where it is ok to be rude, or to be a self centered flake.....Then please DO NOT contact me in any way shape or form. I wish to get to know and converse with adults ONLY. If you are incapable of being one, then we are not right for each other and you are just wasting mine, yours and everyone else's time...period.

I should be able to have a reasonable expectation that those who contact me or reply to my contact, are here because they are serious adults dealing with a serious subject matter.

By the way...this obviously does not apply to that one very charming lady I have had a very enjoyable and friendly adult conversation with. You know who you are. :-)

ok, I guess an explanation is in order. I keep getting questions concerning my statement about not wanting to shave a women's head, beat the crap out of them, and keep them caged 24/7.

I wrote that because I am looking for a long term, 24/7 TPE relationship, always on, never a time out! Because of that I do not see being brutal and cruel, shaving your head, and keeping you locked up 24/7 over a period of years as a viable lifestyle......I see that as totally impractical on a long term basis. Now I do realize that a lot of women have very intense fantasies about this, and I understand that, but you have to realize the impracticality of what you are asking, to my knowledge the only women who suffer this treatment on a daily basis are most likely dead, and it was never long term anyway. And I blame the porn industry for promoting it.

In my mind being cruel and brutal, caging a slave, ect. are tools. Tools to modify behavior, correct attitude, and instill training. And like all things, they have there place and time. A lifestyle situation, means that both must adjust on a daily basis, that what was necessary yesterday, may not be needed tomorrow, and vice versa. Being locked into only one thing is not a lifestyle! I do not have a problem whatsoever with being brutal and cruel, shaving your head, or caging you, if that is what you are into, but not all slaves are into that. What I crave and desire is control, absolute total control, so how that is achieved is not important to me. Some women are more compliant than others, some women desire more pain than others, ect.ect. I am fine with that....as long as I am in control. It is who and what I am. So if you desire to be cruelly beaten, then so be it, as long as you understand I only do it because I enjoy the control!

Be Warned, The Following Is A Rant!

I recently conducted an unscientific test. I sent out messages with the following text stating: 

Hello XXXXXX,        

     I read your profile several times and found it intriguing, and must admit I can see possibilities in you. If you care to discuss them in the near future, I would be most obliged. In the meantime please direct yourself to my profile and assess your feelings as to whether or not you can see yourself under my direction and ownership. But be advised, my profile is lengthy, as I have tried hard to explain who I am, what I am about, and what I am looking for, so because of that, I apologize for the shortness of this email. I look forward to any and all questions you may have.

I sent this out to a bunch of members who I thought interested me, though I admit because of the sample size needed, some were marginal. Keep in mind I was not fool enough to think I would get a 100% response rate, hell I would have been happy with a 10% response and that was getting my hopes up, but of all the messages I sent out, only one person actually read my profile, one! Doesn't say much for collarme. nor for those who populate here. You would think that if you are going to be serious about finding someone compatible that it would be a priority to read profiles, even if you decide to pass on them after doing so, to try to know who you are attracting, but it seems the number of fakes, scammers, picture hounds, and wannabes is more overwhelming than I thought.

So in response, I am now no longer taking to heart any cries to receive first messages that are tailored to the recipient. As I am now only going to cut and paste my profile to those I find worthy of contacting. If you object, tough!!! I am not here to please you. In my opinion, any one who is truly here to live this life will read and respond regardless of whether or not it is cut and pasted, if you object, or are incapable of spending enough time to read more than a few sentences, then you are nothing more than a fake and a waste of time. My humble opinion, but I am entitled to it.

In addition I am no longer going to take any slave profile serious if it states or implies anywhere that you require to be attracted to your Master. I am seeking a Master/slave relationship, and if you are seeking one too, then it is you who must attract me, not the other way around. If the so called slaves on here cannot understand this simple concept, then you are NOT a slave, but just someone playing with the idea. A true slave seeks a Master based on compatibility such as experience, capabilities, personality ect. A true slave should not base compatibility on things such as race, physique, genital size, how long your hair is, whether or not you own a motorcycle, ect. As none of these things have any bearing whatsoever on their ability to Dominate and control you, which is why you are here right? If not, you are in the wrong place looking for the wrong thing, in which case I suggest Match.com  or some such for your search.

Rant Over!

If I send you a message it is because I have seriously read and reread your profile and see potential for compatibility, but all too often I am disappointed to find out that the recipient has failed to show me the same respect and read mine. Too many on here seem to think this is all some kind of game in which they boast about the number of emails they get but don't seem to bother reciprocating by at least doing the minimal effort of reading a profile, which baffles me, if you are serious about finding a match here, then it would seem elementary that reading the profile from the sender would be a matter of course before responding or ignoring. While I know and expect such behavior from the fakes and scammers that populate this site, is seems even the legitimate profiles on here are beginning to adopt the practice.