Short version:
I am a single alpha girl. I am active in the fetish and D/s lifestyle. I regularly attend munches and events in my area. I've been active for over seven years. I'm a community bootblack and delving into that more.
Long version:
What I offer...
I am a Alpha girl. I am a strong and independent person with a drive to be useful. To that end, I have developed many skills including bootblacking, leatherworking, wide range of intimate skills, sewing, research skills, educator, facilitator, and a wide range of service. I volunteer and work as many events as I can fit into my schedule as a bootblack. I present on a fairly wide range of topics related to service and navigating the lifestyle. I host a monthly discussion group that explores any topic relevant to the lifestyle the members wish to discuss. I have a medium masochistic streak, as well as a playful sadistic one. I have a deep inner girl that thirsts for a loving, nurturing, and protective Owner. I am playful and love to laugh. I have a very high libido and it occasionally clouds my judgment. I crave to hear 'good girl'.
What I look for...
I am looking for a loving, romantic long term partner that is a Dominant/Owner/Master. I realize they can be very different things. It has been my experience that I do best with someone that is a combination of all three. I flourish in a nurturing yet controlled format. Clear rules, boundaries and expectations make me happy. I wish to feel small. I tend to gravitate to tall, masculine men with facial hair. Intelligence is necessary. You must be able to stay at least one step ahead of me. The ability to keep me slightly off balance is a good thing. Emotional and financial stability is super sexy. My play is highly sexualized. I enjoy impact play, non-con, service, leather, and a huge variety of other activities. I do tend to chameleon towards the activities my Dominant enjoys as I derive great pleasure from theirs. Emotional intimacy is key. We must have a connection. I am very active in the lifestyle, I wish to remain so and would enjoy my partner doing so as well.
NON-NEGOTIABLE:
YOU MUST BE SINGLE.
Single is defined as UNMARRIED AND NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP.
For clarity, divorced and widowers are most welcome.
I am not interested in a secondary position.
I am not interested in casual play or sex.
More about me...
The non-kinky me: I am career driven and successful. I work in the design field and I adore my job. I love going to the movies - action flicks are awesome! I'm a product of ST:TNG and I do indulge once in a while and watch reruns on Netflix. I enjoy a wide variety of dining from Indian to Vietnamese to Japanese to my mom's meatloaf and gravy. I love car rides and driving down that road I've never gone down. I enjoy the water, lakes, ocean, rivers... all good and I am very much a water baby. I love travel and well planned adventures. I am slow to build close friendships. I am an odd mix of super private and massive exhibitionist. I love figuring out why things are they way they are and if that is the way it should be. I am a purely visual thinker. This results in a communication style where I ask many questions and seek details to get a clear understanding.
I am not a thin woman. I am OK with this. I am more interested in healthy choices and working towards a healthy lifestyle than the number on the scale or the size of my dress.
I am emotionally monogamous. I refer to this as flexible monogamy. I define that as a 1:1 loving and emotionally monogamous relationship that occasionally brings in a third or a couple for additional group play and intimacy.
A personality note - I am an alpha girl. I am protective and possessive of my partner. My partner's happiness, satisfaction and pleasure is my primary goal. I no longer top in any fashion that is not serving my partner directly.
While I do not fall in love often; when I love, it is with everything I am; deeply, wholly and without reservations. Own my thoughts and I will drop everything for you. Own my mind and I will open like a flower to the sun. Own my body and I will make you feel like a god. Own my heart and I will move mountains for you. Own my soul and I will change the world just to see you smile.
That is what I offer you.
