In the vanilla world, I'm expected to be in control of everything, be the girl next door, be perfect at everything I do. I live up to that in the vanilla world. But behind closed doors, no thank you.

I still believe in 1950s style traditional gender roles. I also believe that feminists made it worse for women - now we are expected to be the modern female and yet still retain all the traditional roles as well. I'd rather be traditional - there to serve your husband - thank you very much!

I like power exchange. Give me a good looking, fairly tall to fuck-me-I'm-tall:), intelligent, strong, commanding kind of man. I like a man with strong hands, firm grip, can kiss like he means it, and says what is on his mind (or what he wants!). Here's to hoping that man is out there>:)!