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| Welcome and thank you for viewing my profile. Please read my profile fully!!
Warning: I am more than capable of making you laugh, smile, or at times, confuse and confound you. Those closest to me really KNOW, truly KNOW how much they are loved and wanted in my life!! That being said, even by friends, I have been described as an "aggressive little devil, compared to as a 5'2" little general stomping in heels marching to the beat of her own drum.
I am NOT into couples, and any drama. If you have baggage (children, work issues, etc), please kindly move on. These issues are understandable, but I find they do get in the way!! I do enjoy mentoring and training both male and female subs. One of my favorite past times is chatting with others about the lifestyle, particularly those seeking what it truly means. For those of you just beginning your journey, please stop by and say hello. Always remember KINDNESS COSTS NOTHING. Note: At the present time, I am NOT currently training any subs. I do welcome making new friends all the time, provided you are respectful.
Just the facts: sassy, petite educated, cultured southern blonde that doesn't put up with any "stuff". I am diverse, possess joie de vivre, and have a wicked sense of humor. Finishing a third degree, and well educated,but not a snob, attending school to ensure that I can be financially independent. Very warm hearted, earthy, engaged in a variety of outdoor activities including horseback riding, biking, tennis, kayaking, hiking, white water rafting and sailing to name a few favorite activities. I also speak french, paint, and draw. In addition I participate all year round in a variety of animal rescue groups raising funds for animals in need.
The light of my life is to pleasure and serve. That is destiny. That is where my heart lies.
If you're ready for something new, something challenging I may be able to help you....If you want something different, something extraordinary, to belong with something that is far bigger than yourself PM me
There is way more to the D/S than sex. If that is what you believe is most important, you're in the wrong place, on the wrong page. If you are looking for someone that has the potential to truly care for you, and wants the best for you, then please continue to read. The D/S is a true bond of mind, soul, body, and heart. Nothing more. Nothing less. It is a relationship of trust in its purest form. It is two people that share a true bond, one that built over time. It is total trust. If you cannot let go,and trust then you're wasting my time. In my world the deion of the perfect relationship is one that has balance. Everything you do with them matters. When they are happy with you, you're on top of the world. When they are displeased, it rips your world apart. We all try our best, yet we are all human. At times, we make mistakes, and despite the fact that it is indeed very humbling to having to admit youve made a mistake, one who truly loves you will understand. They hold your heart, and when you come to them in complete honesty they will respect you. It is not an easy road, Ive known DOMS that are fair, and strict, and they still breathe fire and brimstone...I do refer to them as fire breathing dragons at times but above all they are there for your best interest.
When you find the right one, they allow you to grow on your journey, you get that opportunity to "feel" you don't just serve. They always want the best for you, even though it seems they are pushing you up against the wall as hard as they can and you can't breathe, always know you come first.
Always take the opportunity to make things right.
Both of the following pieces recorded by Passenger
Well you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
And you let her go
Staring at the bottom of your glass
Hoping one day you'll make a dream last
But dreams come slow and they go so fast
You see her when you close your eyes
Maybe one day you'll understand why
Everything you touch, oh it dies
But you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
Staring at the ceiling in the dark
Same old empty feeling in your heart
'Cause love comes slow and it goes so fast
Well you see her when you fall asleep
But never to touch and never to keep
'Cause you loved her too much and you dive too deep
Well you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
And you let her go
Oh oh oh no
And you let her go
Oh oh oh no
Well you let her go
'Cause you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
'Cause you only need the light when it's burning low
Only miss the sun when it starts to snow
Only know you love her when you let her go
Only know you've been high when you're feeling low
Only hate the road when you're missing home
Only know you love her when you let her go
And you let her go
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It is amazing how people's true colors come to the forefront when life gets tough. |
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It,is always important to be kind but becomes wearing when you contine to,encounter dumbasses with no common,sense. It shows it doesnt take rocket scientry to,graduate from,high school,just the tired out education system,that keeps pushing fools thru and the mastery of ebonics. No wonder I use the delete,button. |
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It is amazing the people you think you know, walk away like you never knew them even when you invest so much time. |
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More Insights of Who I Am:
Power exchange is so much more than getting laid. If you find a good woman that will take your beatings, and serve and pleasure you....,..what are the chances you are going to actually find that again somewhere else?
A good submissive in NOT like finding a good fuck. True power exchange creates a very deep connection that cannot be "replicated". It either works really well or it doesn't and if it does.....you hang on to it and you grow with it. Please note: my use of the word "beat" connotates abuse, which is not the case. In essence what is received can be one or combination of spanking, flogging, strapping, whipping, caning, etc. If the beatings are consensual, it is not abuse.
There is a real spiritual journey that is possible through power exchange. Power exchange anchors a relationship when a woman is transformed into a dom's sub or slave, it creates a sub/slave that is completely dependent on the dominant. She can be very strong in real life, but she needs him, and he cannot walk away it would equate to walking out on his family.
A dominant feels what his submissive is going through. They don't just watch, they empathize and they understand. And while a dominant is capable of beating a girls to tears many, many times, they enjoy it on many levels because they are also connected to her and her truth as it comes out of her. Through that truth, the dominant molds his sub into being the best that she can possibly be. She actually sees herself changing and evolving. A dominant is invested in her growth.
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I am a china doll, been called an absolutely doll baby, I have style and fashion sense, education and culture......but the best moments are when I can let completely loose...meld into someone and just forget...... |
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Yes, its really true...with the right one...you can drown in them and become completely consumed. Try it sometime!!.......
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iXvy8ZeCs5M
Ain't this what you came for?
Don't you wish you came, oh
Girl what you're playing for?
Come on, come on let me kiss that
Ooh, I know you miss that
What's wrong, let me fix that
Twist that
Baby, tonight's the night I let you know
Baby, tonight's the night we lose control
Baby, tonight you need that, tonight believe that
Tonight I'll be the best you ever had
I don't wanna brag, but I'll be
The best you ever had |
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Regardless of being M/S, or D/S...the reality is we all fuck up. Its not just designated to one role. We are all human. It's really hard sometimes to choke out the words and say you screwed up.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kjRo_CHSdt0
Sorry
Is all that you can't say
Years gone by and still
Words don't come easily
Like sorry like sorry
Forgive me
Is all that you can't say
Years gone by and still
Words don't come easily
Like forgive me forgive me
But you can say baby
Baby can I hold you tonight
Maybe if I told you the right words
At the right time you'd be mine
I love you
Is all that you can't say
Years gone by and still
Words don't come easily
Like I love you I love you
But you can say baby
Baby can I hold you tonight
Maybe if I told you the right words
Ooh, at the right time you'd be mine
Baby can I hold you tonight
Maybe if I told you the right words
Ooh, at the right time you'd be mine
You'd be mine
You'd be mine |
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How hot can you really get? Nothing is better than the sweetness and intensity of pain and pleasure.....MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM
Now how many will openly admit its what you crave?
Stir It Up
Bob Marley
http://www.bing.com/search?q=bob+marley+stir+it+up+youtube&FORM=AVASDF&PC=AV01
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Never give up for what and who you are looking for....some day you will find them
Lenny Kravitz The Chamber
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jAHlQ77lm10&nohtml5=False
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Life is meant to just be....to find that elusive peace. Knowing where you belong.
Nothing Else Matters
rec by Metallica
http://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=songs+by+metallica&view=detail&mid=538703CAC3FF307E4984538703CAC3FF307E4984&FORM=VIRE
So close no matter how far
Couldn't be much more from the heart
Forever trusting who we are
And nothing else matters
Never opened myself this way
Life is ours, we live it our way
All these words I don't just say
And nothing else matters
Trust I seek and I find in you
Every day for us something new
Open mind for a different view
And nothing else matters
Never cared for what they do
Never cared for what they know
But I know |
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Smiles...always good to be an intellectual....
definition of mind fucking sex.....
When a male or a female simulate sexual acts with a sexy looking female because they know they can't fuck in real life. Mostly used in the process of masturbation.
unfortunately, it doesn't end well or is satisfying. LOL |
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I can completely blow your mind.....never underestimate. Do you ever know how low youre willing to go for the right one? All the things you thought and said you'd never do? The traditions, the trappings, you threw to the side of the road to get what you craved. You eventually come to a crossroads...you need to make that choice to be free.
http://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=eric+clapton+layla&FORM=HDRSC3
What'll you do when you get lonely
And nobody's waiting by your side?
You've been running and hiding much too long
You know it's just your foolish pride
Layla, you've got me on my knees
Layla, I'm begging, darling please
Layla, darling won't you ease my worried mind
I tried to give you consolation
When your old man had let you down
Like a fool, I fell in love with you,
Turned my whole world upside down
Layla, you've got me on my knees
Layla, I'm begging, darling please
Layla, darling won't you ease my worried mind
Let's make the best of the situation
Before I finally go insane
Please don't say I'll never find a way
And tell me all my love's in vain
Layla, you've got me on my knees
Layla, I'm begging, darling please
Layla, darling won't you ease my worried mind
Layla (Layla) you've got me on my knees
Layla, I'm begging, darling please
Layla, darling won't you ease my worried mind |
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Just be.....clear your mind. Give into the sweet sensations that have you zinging off the damn wall....even southern princess are known to have their mind blown. |
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some things never change. people are ignorant, careless,and too lazy to read. hence, I use the delete button and send the particularly stupid ignorant assholes to daddy. |
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Nothing in my status has changed. Nada....not one bit. I am not talking to any other DOMs regarding a possible relationship. |
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While I always enjoy making friends, at this time I am NOT looking for a DOM, as indicated on my profile page, I DO have a Daddy. And I am appreciative of those that do take the time to read my profile and journal entries in full. I do not like having my time wasted. I am NOT a baby sitter, or one here to teach twenty somethings and thirty something babydoms about the lifestyle. Please go find your own guinea pig to learn and experiment on. My time is valuable, and I do appreciate discourse, and appreciate the merit of good conversation. However, I don't appreciate those that seemingly decide to think they are going to "correct" me, those messages actually are sent straight to my Daddy (Coolman). |
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I don't kiss and tell. If you want to know how things are, I will refer you to Daddy J. (Coolman) Hopefully this puts an end to those with the ever present inquiring mind. |
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I do not hesitate to make my Daddy aware that I have messages that are unwarranted and unwanted in my inbox. He will deal with each of them individually. I enjoy making friends, but please respect that I do have a Daddy and use proper protocol and etiquette. In other words, BE RESPECTFUL. |
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Never fails to amaze me how stupid and ignorant people are. Who wants attention from idiots, surely not me. I have a Daddy and we are in discussions. He is listed on my profile. Most people are respectful but the really uneducated ones either can't read or profile or find they like wasting time harassing me. Daddy J doesn't like that at all. |
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The amount of stupidity on this website is simply overwhelming. If it not for my good manners, there would be quite a few of these supposed doms with their necks snapped in half!! Its just not that damn hard to read a profile. My time is valuable, I am involved and in discussions with someone that is important to me. Please respect that choice. I am always welcome to making new friends; however, be advised I do not need your stats, or a list of your fetishes etc and do NOT choose to share mine at this time. My personal thoughts are very private. I just have no tolerance for stupidity. And as we say in the south, BLESS YOUR HEART!!! |
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Seriously, just because I believe in Christianity, and pray to God, don't exploit my spirituality and tell me that God is sending you to me. Try something else!! Please respect that I am in discussions with someone at this time who is important to me, and respect that. I am always interested in making friends but when I talk to someone about relationships and getting to know them, its strictly a 1:1 thing.....no listeners, and respect my privacy. |
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It took me a few tries thinking outside the box, to find the right fit....now let's PAINT IT BLACK.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6d8eKvegLI
see a red door and I want it painted black
No colors anymore, I want them to turn black
I see the girls walk by dressed in their summer clothes
I have to turn my head until my darkness goes
I see a line of cars and they're all painted black
With flowers and my love, both never to come back
I see people turn their heads and quickly look away
Like a newborn baby it just happens ev'ryday
I look inside myself and see my heart is black
I see my red door and I must have it painted black
Maybe then I'll fade away and not have to face the facts
It's not easy facing up when your whole world is black
No more will my green sea go turn a deeper blue
I could not foresee this thing happening to you
If I look hard enough into the setting sun
My love will laugh with me before the morning comes
I see a red door and I want it painted black
No colors anymore I want them to turn black
I see the girls walk by dressed in their summer clothes
I have to turn my head until my darkness goes
I want to see your face painted black, black as night, black as coal
Don't want to see the sun, flying high in the sky
I want to see it painted, painted, painted, painted black, yea |
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There have been days I didn't think I'd ever find my way back. Thank you for carrying me, you know exactly who you are.
Can't Find My Way Home
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VT-SFgkVlno
Come down off your throne and leave your body alone, somebody must change
You are the reason I've been waiting so long, somebody holds the key
Well, I'm near the end and I just ain't got the time
And I'm wasted and I can't find my way home
Come down on your own and leave your body alone, somebody must change
You are the reason I've been waiting all these years, somebody holds the key
Well, I'm near the end and I just ain't got the time
And I'm wasted and I can't find my way home |
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Sometimes we are just not ready to let go what is bad for me, until someone comes along that is really perfect for us. And we wonder what we saw in those scammers that emotionally abused us. It happens to us, but when you look back in fresh eyes, there is a totally new perspective.
Old Love rec by Eric Clapton
http://www.bing.com/videos/search?q=a+higher+love+by+eric+clapton&FORM=VIRE13#view=detail&mid=B39C5CCFE772033A0234B39C5CCFE772033A0234
I can feel your body
When I'm lying in bed
There's too much confusion
Going around through my head
And it makes me so angry
To know that the flame still burns
Why can't I get over?
When will I ever learn?
[Chorus:]
Old love, leave me alone
Old love, go on home
I can see your face
But I know that it's not real
It's just an illusion
Caused by how I used to feel
And it makes me so angry
To know that the flame will always burn
I'll never get over
I know now that I'll never learn |
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Seriously, NO TIMEWASTERS. I am too busy to be bothered and will just start deleting your message. If you are gray and wrinkled...please use proper common sense, you're NOT my type. |
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seriously, sometimes the view is no better the second or third time around. A snob, is a snob. for those that look,and think you're too good, think again...first figure out that if you're looking for a tall willowy blonde you're in the wrong locale. I am a Petite Blonde Firecracker. Nuff said. |
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If I send a courteous note,and say no thank you, at least don't be a bastard and do "deleted unread".....totally the sign of a true bastard. Why do I bother with manners if a supposed DOM acts like a baby when he does not get what he wants? Who would have thought so many timewasters could be gathered together in one venue?Shakes head. Looks for a bottle of wine.... |
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just when i think.I've seen everything something happens ...I've had a migraine for three days ..someone has not enough common.sense to bother me for a pic when i already say im.not online and just cking.message. you want a pic youre that desperate go to a porn site. im not here for sticky.fodder on my pics. and no.i don't get mad a lot im sick.of self centered ppl |
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Never seen such a wealth of rudeness, bad manners, poor etiquette and bullies all in one location!! |
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Ive been burned on here pretty badly, it takes awhile for me to be able to chat with someone and trust them....if you invest the time, its worth it. But I don't have tolerance for someone that is a bully, or one that wastes my time and is a fake. |
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Seriously, give me a reason that I would want to hear from you and be interested in you. Show me you are different. |
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I am an ALPHA female and have been through the School of Hard Knocks. I am not specifically searching for any one type but rather someone that suits me. I have trained others extensively and am well versed in the lifestyle. I am not here to win a popularity contest; I am extremely educated, and easy on the eyes. I possess a wicked sense of humor and joie de vivre. But aside from that, I am not so hard pressed or desperate to have someone that is is NOT right for me. I would sincerely prefer to be alone rather than try to force a relationship with someone I can't trust, or one that betrays me in any number of ways. |
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| Age: 41 |
| Towson,
Maryland |
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