traveller123

My “Condensed” Profile

Not new to bdsm but new to searching online. Mostly searching for a submissive woman but the right man or couple might interest me.

I have high standards but for the right connection I can be flexible.

Feel free to say Hi and let’s see what happens

My “Expanded” profile

Well since the above caught you eye perhaps the rest will as well. My name is Gemma, I am 27 and I live in London though I travel a lot to NYC due to work

I have been interested in this lifestyle since my teens and have been active in it since my early twenties once I learnt what it was about. I have had one bdsm based relationship that lasted 2 years and I had a few shorter ones.

I suppose I am looking for 3 types of people

Type 1: A female submissive to serve me long-term in a bdsm based relationship. This will be a 24/7 relationship which at its core is bdsm based but with most of the vanilla “extras” any real relationship needs. This is my long term goal but as we all know life sometime is complicated. That leads us to group 2

Type 2: A submissive, male, female or couple to have a short to medium term “relationship” that has a true physical and emotional connection. The connection between the submissive and me is what is key and other aspects can be flexible. I am not saying this type of relationship will never be a long term one but it is definitely a good place to start. And that in a round about way leads me to type 3

Type 3: Friends that know and understand bdsm or at least want to learn about it

Well I hope that all makes sense and even if it doesn’t I hope you still say Hi