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i am submissive by choice, please don't think that i will automatically become Your slave, there's a difference.

i am looking for Someone who will continue my training, Someone who will guide me with a firm but gentle hand. i'm not about to change who i am for Anyone, but having a Dom who knows when to reel me in is a bonus. i don't expect my Dom to change who He is for me.
i realise that i haven't been in the lifestyle for very long and am looking to continue learning what i've started, also learning new things as well. To me the lifestyle is a an ever-changing journey full of learning and challenge. i'm looking for Someone to share in that with me.


Let me tell You what i have had training in, it's more sensation play then pain. i have had training in etiquette, and have some light bondage, clamps, candle wax, ice, private humiliation, and some breath play. Yes i realize that it's the proverbial tip of the iceburg, but i'm an avid pupil and i learn quite quickly. i am currently learning (on my own) about knifeplay,fireplay although my investigations into these areas are more for curiousity's sake than anything else (at least for right now).