toysdad

When I meet a new submissive, I try to be kind and guiding without demanding ritual of you; I do not demand respect, for it is earned. I want to explore your mind first, learning your strengths. My goal is not seducing you, but getting to know you as a person first, building a relationship, slowly discovering if there is to be one.

If the time comes when you do offer yourself to me, I will question your decision, asking you to look into yourself and discover if I am whom you really want. We will discuss safety issues for both our sakes. I stress safe calls and public meetings at first; your safety and my comfort level are foremost in my mind at this beginning. If I decide to take you into service, we will negotiate the terms of your servitude.

I know our safety also depends on honesty and communication. I will be as protective of myself as I need to be, but I will be totally open and honest about my life, tastes, what I expect. I know that you are taking a leap of faith in putting your trust and your life in me.

Again, to possess you, I know I must first earn your respect; to do this I must prove I am who & what I say; that I will care for you, that I will push your limits only to build your strengths.

If you should lack self-esteem, I will show you are beauty in my eyes, thus you are beautiful. Again, I will focus on your strengths; show you your own power. I will explain that the gift you give is the most wonderful gift of all…yourself.

I will take the time to learn your soul, before learning your body. A connection must take place allowing me to sense your desires, your needs, and your passions. With this knowledge, I should then be able to take you to new heights of pleasure, to guide you and walk with your as together we seek new levels of love and fulfillment.