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	About tightbound3461 The road of life takes us down many pathways, mine is submissive boarding on slave. If you take a look at this profile at lest say hello. My number 1 goal is your pleasure, your comfort. I have many interests and few limits. Before you shut me off give me a little of your time, you might be surprised.

What ever happened to etiquette of a submissive. I have had the fortune to meet many in this lifestyle, Doms as well as Subs and a few in between. As of late I have been noticing a change in the way that lifestyle participants have lost some of the what I perceive as old guard etiquette, I have probably miscategorized this but as I am not a word smith so be it. Basically what it boils down to is just plane manors be it with a Pro or Non pro. Many years ago when I first entertained the notion of seeing a pro I wasn't sure of how to approach her when meeting for the first time, I thought about it for a while I came to the conclusion of how would I wish to be treated if I were in her shoes. So upon 1st contact I brought a rose and small box of sweets as an ice breaker more then anything else. I was surprised to find out how this small gesture was taken, She was elated that one would go to the trouble of such a gesture. I found out later that it had great rewards after the fact. Now in today's world of fakers and con artists it amazes me to what extent that a potential sub/client is willing to do in order to get attention for free or reduced tribute, this is also noticeable when some one is trying to seek out what they want in the lifestyle, I have talked with Dom's who have confessed that things like simple curtiesy have disappeared. She has asked you for a small tribute of purchasing a box of condoms for her supply and you say no? How about the when you enter? Are you are contrite and polite to ask is there anything you need in the way of supplies or house keeping, before any talk of the days event, can you be kind enough to offer help of any kind. When you are walking with your D do you place yourself even with them or just behind? Note to you, if you are even with them you are doing it wrong. When you are on a sidewalk do you place yourself street side or building side? Note to you, if you are building side you are doing it wrong. When you cross the street are you up traffic or down traffic? Note to you, if you are down traffic you are doing it wrong. When you get to the car do you go to your door or do you open theirs first? When you enter a building do you open the door and hold it for them to enter first. When they remove their coat do you offer assistance and vise versa when they put it back on. These are just small pieces of the pie. The cost of maintaining the lifestyle can be staggering, it would be nice if you offered to help, it would be nice if you treated your D with utmost respect and common curtiesy. When I am talking with a new to the Dom side of things I am aghast with the stories I hear about how they are treated by potential clients/partners, so I suggest things to try and weed out the con artist and fakers. I am no expert but simple things can be done to try and weed them out, such as having an amazon wish list with small things needed to carry out your daily life. If a potential partner/client won't commit to a $25.00 gift, are they worth of the time investment of a coffee meet, If at the coffee meet are they willing to pay the bill with out asking? It seems to me that if the little things are not attended to then the big things will be impossible. It is my hope that if one should read this it might be a nudge to remind subs that it's the little things that make a meeting a great one. If you can't pay attention to the little things you will never understand why the relationship never got off the ground in the first place. Don't go off mad if this happens to you, it's your fault not theirs because you failed to pay attention to the little things. Their busy trying to make sure you are safe, comfortable, paying attention to make sure you get as much enjoyment out of the meeting as possible, making sure they are equipped to achieve a pleasurable end, these things take a lot of time and energy not to mention the high cost financially. So buck up submissive and pay attention, you will be rewarded in the end.

Anyone into self bondage and need a safety partner? Message me and we can make it happen. No strings attached.

I don't journal often, I am not a word Smith by any means, however I try to have moments of mind opening brilliant thought. (at least as I see it)

I was recently asked if she knew who the One was. I came to using the One as a decriptive term for the Dominant in my life that has yet to be determined. She has no name as of yet because there is no One at this point. I use this term to let others know that although I don't actively search out the One but rather let it happen naturally. I loved the movie series the Matrix and that is where I lifted the term from, other then that there is no relevance. I just like it. I am always in training to the One and always trying to achieve perfection to the One. I know that perfection is unrealistic but I strive just same. In my conversations with Dominants I try to remember my protocols and be polite, humble. As a submissive I must always remember it is the One who mattes, not me. A submissive never knows who there next Dominant may be and therefore my training is always a continuous act. I can learn from simplest of conversation I just have to be aware of what is going on. So to the One i say happy hunting, when the time comes she will know the right conversation to have and I will have trained to give Her to correct answer in the correct Manor. In the correct position. On my knees looking down never up until told, always receptive of correction ready to serve. Good night to the One, sweet dreams. All comments are welcome please be constructive. Not destructive. Remember life is a time for learning. ?

Quiet... the calm before the storm... the whisper... are you ready... the nod... the hiss... the crack... the sting... the scream... the cry... the sob... the whimper... the tear... Quiet... Oh the Quiet...

No longer mentoring, I have updated my profile. Please feel free to ask about it or anything related. I tend to be an open book.

A question was asked of me the other night and I thought I would share it and my answer.

Question

Your profile says you're submissive but the text seems dominant and the photos are more like a submissive. My curiosity was aroused by the photos.

Answer

I was Dom many years ago, I discovered my sub side about 15 years ago and it's been an incredible journey, I started switching 3 years ago when a women in her 40's asked for help after she was physically injured from an ass who thought he could have sex with any one by being a Dom since then I have mentored a couple of people and basically my profile is that of my mindset, so many here want a love relationship and they think they can get it here thinking they are one or the other. These are the fakers these are the ones who have no clue what they are in for in this lifestyle.

I don't care about that I'm in it for the complete joy of pain and pleasure. I hope this helps.

I am submissive to the core... and I serve with no expectations of sex what so ever.

Special comment to the one whom I am speaking with now Miss T

If the right person comes along and a love relationship happens I am all for it. I will pursue with vigor, but it must take me by surprise, it has in the past and I am sure it will again.

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