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RealNeeed

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What I seek...

I am looking for a Dominant to spend quality time with when my Mistress and I must be far apart, He must be able to understand that while I am willing to submit to him during our playtime, I have a collar that I won't be giving up. You must also understand that our relationship would require the approval of my Dominant.

Also wouldn't hurt if you own a pair of cowboy boots and wear them often!

Ride em cowboy!


I am not looking for a "collar" I have one that fits me quite well. I am quite content to wear the collar of RealNeeed whom I love and cherish in many ways. She owns me! If you are looking for friends or a long term play partner and can accept the fact that She owns me even if I play with you...say hi!

My Mistress trusts me to talk to people and let her know if someone that interests me pops up. But if you are interested in making contact with me my Dominant has requested that you familiarize yourself with both Hers and my profile first! Her profile is under the nick RealNeeed.

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A bit about myself...

I am friendly, outgoing and my friends say fun to be around.

I love kids and dogs and they love me.

I enjoy being outdoors and fixing things. I am very handy.

I grew up on the beach and love the water. I like being in the waves, boating, fishing or diving but I get bored just sitting on the beach.

I enjoy the fulfillment of a D/s relationship.

I enjoy everything I have tried so far in regards to play and still have a few things on my wish list!

I make my own floggers and other toys.

I love bondage and all things leather...I love the feel of it, the smell, the sound, the look and yes even the taste of leather.

My favorite ice cream is rocky road

I am sane and intelligent

I have excellent critical thinking skills and common sense

ok, now i feel like I am writing a resume, better stop here.


WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this.

7/29/2013 9:08:43 AM
Thankfully back on the hill, thankful for all the firefighters and support staff for saving the town!
2/8/2013 1:57:47 PM

QuieTimeSessions

is also ReluctantSadist

and by his own admission 10 other profiles.  He claims to be doing surveys..."I am using 11 different profiles to conduct this survey, because after about 20 messages that are canned the filter is triggered, so I go on to the next profile. The filter is removed after a few hours, usually less than 24. If I used only 1 profile to conduct this survey I wouldn't have EASILY gotten the 200 responses I've gotten."

 

Please do not encourage this scourge by responding to him!

11/13/2012 7:37:12 PM

My heart is soaring...and not because of football!

8/20/2012 11:49:05 AM

My heart is soaring...Football is back!

8/8/2012 10:16:19 PM

Reading Fifty Shades of Grey...Dang I want a Mr. Grey!  I don't care about the money or the Adonis looks but that evil, dominant mind and insatiable appetite...Yes please!

7/4/2012 11:12:09 AM

Happy Independence Day America!  Glad we are free to choose our lifestyle!

6/4/2012 2:57:11 AM

Mistress goes home today...Very sad.  even at 3 months at a time, Her visits are waaaay to short.  Wish She could move here!

5/7/2012 6:50:02 PM

Spending some much needed "getaway" time with my Mistress in San Diego for the week!  So excited to finally be "alone!" If anyone knows of any good local munches or sights we shouldn't miss, please message me!

3/6/2012 8:55:46 AM

My Mistress arrives tomorrow from Australia!!!!!  I am so excited, I have missed her so much!

2/13/2012 8:31:06 AM

I do very bad things...But I do them very well!

2/10/2012 10:11:11 PM

Stolen from Xplore33 (thanks)...

Dominance is the ability to create a hunger in someone that's so strong they will do anything, anytime, anywhere just to please you.

12/8/2011 7:28:40 AM

I miss my Mistress. I really miss subspace!

12/7/2011 8:58:57 PM

Stolen from another profile!

Ds Wonderland  By Cryptic  Whips n chains hear them jingle, Feel the pain and the tingle A beautiful sight, I tied you up tight. Living in a D/s Wonderland. Gone away is vanilla, Here to stay is a Thrill uh. I cut off your thong, As we go along, Living in a D/s wonderland. In the basement we can build an X frame, Then strap you on it upside down I'll say: Are you ready? You'll say: No man, But I can do what I feel When you're tied down. Later on, take you higher, With some ice and some fire The faces you made, As we both got laid, Living in a D/s Wonderland

9/9/2011 5:10:24 PM

Got this ad today from groupon...

 

82% Off Pearl Necklace from My Pacific Pearls
To secure their glistening baubles from sneaky pearl divers, oysters hide all their necklaces in treasure chests disguised as sleeping sharks.

 

Like I haven't heard that line before! I usually get a pearl necklace for FREE! Just for being a good girl! ROFL

9/9/2011 3:01:03 AM

 

 

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GO STEELERS !!

8/10/2011 6:28:57 PM

You know you are getting old...when you go to the kitchen for a beer and come back with a glass of Nestles Quik.

8/3/2011 7:50:30 AM

My Dominants have decided to part ways and I am now in the sole custody of RealNeeed which suits me fine.  I love my Mistress very much, she takes exceptional care of me and is my best friend.  it is a pleasure to serve her!

 

That being said we are still looking for a play partner in the states for me.  I need a strong male Dominant who understands the D/s dynamic and is willing to accept the fact that I wear Her collar.

1/8/2011 7:20:37 PM

IN MY NEXT LIFE...

I want to live my next life backwards. You start out dead and get that out of the way. Then you wake up in an old age home feeling better every day. You get kicked out for being too healthy; go collect your pension, then when you start work, you get a gold watch on your first day. You work 40 years until you're young enough to enjoy your retirement. You drink alcohol, you party, you're generally promiscuous and you get ready for High School. You go to primary school, you become a kid, you play, you have no responsibilities, you become a baby, and then... You spend your last 9 months floating peacefully in luxurious spa-like conditions with central heating, room service on tap, larger quarters every day, and then, you finish off as an orgasm!

I rest my case.

12/29/2010 12:00:48 AM

Kind of depressed, tired of mail that consists of a few works like "wanna play", "hi there" or the classic "on your knees bitch"  Why can't I find a man that can write, asking and answering question, starting a dialog and getting to know if we are a good fit? Oh, and as long as I am ranting...Why for the love of god do Doms think I wanna look at pic's of subs they got off the net?  Please posts pic's of you, I don't care what she or your cock looks like!

12/14/2010 10:07:46 AM
sent this to a "Dom" who is looking for "tarnished little piece of crap" who expects his girl to be "a worthless piece of garbage for me to use as I see fit" why would anyone want crap?


I don't think we are a good fit, I prefer to be enjoyed and cherished for my obedience.  I am a good submissive, I love to please my Dominants, whether it be through enduring pain or pleasure or simply pleasing them.  I am not someone with no self esteem who feels they deserve to be treated like a piece of trash.  BDSM and D/s is not about making someone feel like dirt, its about getting into someones head, owning them and the exhilaration and power that comes from that.  There is a fine line between what we do and abuse, abusers are what gives this venue a bad name because that's what the mainstream of society sees this as. but hey, to each his own.
11/28/2010 1:21:28 PM

Pulled from my profile 11/28/10...

I have yearned for this all my life.  Don't really know what to say here, I suspect that after I get some experience I will have more to say!  

Ok, more to say...I am not looking to be your plaything!  I want to be your favorite toy.  the one that you love and take care of, the one that you don't leave out in the rain!

It takes far too long to build the relationship I desire.  I want to find the One that I feel compelled to offer myself to.  Fully and completely, without reservation. 

I think the mind is an essential part of a D/s, M/s relationship.  If You cannot engage my mind, my body will not follow.

Looks fade, but the mind and soul grow and expand with each passing day.  I seek to see Your Dominant spirit burning within Your eyes.

I desire One who will guide me and help me to be all that I can and should for be for Him, He will know me, who I am and my desires to be.

One who will cherish me
and my devotion to Him. 

One who is a bit sadistic, but will enjoy my submission and praise me when I deserve it.

One who will help me to explore and push my limits until my only limits are those which He desires for me.

One who I can laugh with.

One who believes "aftercare"  is part of taking care of and maintaining that which is Yours.
 
One who I can build trust with
and know I will deny Him nothing, for He is my everything.

One who's eyes I will look into
 and know that I will serve Him 
heart, mind, body and soul,
for to do anything else would be to deny my very essence.

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7/21/2010 6:39:56 PM
It is amazing to me how one can feel so fulfilled by simply attending to the needs and desires of another!
1/3/2010 3:23:44 PM

While I am always open to lifestyle friends...My plate is a bit full right now.  My submission has taken an unexpected turn and I am a bit overwhelmed and amazed by the feelings within.  While I really need to find someone to satisfy my physical needs, that person needs to be strong enough to get in my head in spite of the fact that I am truly owned by a wonderful couple whom I cherish above all else.

Not sure there is a Dom out there who can handle the competition.

12/31/2009 1:49:20 PM
Happy New Year to all!  May this be the year all your kinky dreams are fulfilled!
12/25/2009 9:00:21 AM
Merry Christmas to all, may your subs be tied in tinsel and floggers be festive!
12/8/2009 10:57:04 PM
When obedience ceases to be an irritant and becomes a quest, at that moment you are endowed with power from on High.
11/30/2009 1:21:16 AM
submission is...giving someone the chance to destroy you, and trusting them not to!
11/29/2009 4:32:17 PM
Thought for the day....

This lifestyle is very unique, we all have a need for a deep personal connection.  Anyone that would send a form letter in hopes of finding a partner that way isn't searching, they are fishing.

If you are truly interested you will have read my profile and not greet me with some generic words about how you think we are a good match.

I don't generally initiate communication with Dominants, i guess I am a bit old fashioned...I sit by the "phone" and wait for Him to call.
11/7/2009 9:32:37 AM
Never doubt that a small group of concerned citizens can change the world.  Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.  Margaret Mead  


A wise and frugal government, which shall leave men free to regulate their own pursuits of industry and improvement, and shall not take from the mouth of labor the bread it has earned - this is the sum of good government.   Thomas Jefferson
10/9/2009 1:44:48 PM
Well I have been under Riot's protection for about 5 months now.  I have learned alot and grown alot with the help of Him and especially His "girl" Realneeed/coffee.  They are both wonderful people and unbelievable friends.  (And it doesn't hurt to have someone around to offer a friendly flogging now and then, when I am a good girl)

I am still actively seeking the man for me and although I get mail implying that having a protector discourages "real" Doms.  I feel confident that any real Dom that had an interest in me would not be scared off by the mere presence of a "protector"
9/1/2009 11:31:24 AM
I do not wish to sound like many of the subs I hear about on here with a list of demands and complaints, I am actually very easy going. 

However...I find profiles that imply that I should call you Sir or Master from the git go or that list the Dominant as an expert at virtually everything a real turn off.  I try to be open minded because under all that bravado might be a really great guy but it is hard.

I also find unsolicited pic's of your "parts" offensive, maybe you could send me a nice shot of you in some boxers with the fly just peeking open, yet revealing nothing and allow my imagination to run wild.
8/21/2009 8:00:24 AM
OK, here is a rant...IF you cannot complete a sentence, desperately need spell check but don't know how to use it...if you are only looking for a phone number because your too lazy to write...Don't waste your time.  I need to be able to respect you and your mind, if you have the IQ of a sponge or the brain's of a well educated cucumber, its not going to work...My mind controls my body.


thyla
8/14/2009 12:30:06 AM
I now have auburn hair, didn't expect to like it as much as I do, lol
7/29/2009 9:18:42 PM
07/29/09
Joined a gym yesterday, I have been wanting to get more exercise and now with coffee here I have a workout buddy!

Well I continue to learn and grow under the strong, capable hands of Riot and coffee/RealNeeed [R].  I am stronger, more disciplined and more confident than I was a few months ago.  I still have my "sammy" days but all in all I would say that I am closer to the person I should and desire to be.
The metamorphosis continues.
5/9/2009 12:05:46 AM
Well time marches on and with it change...I am no longer being mentored by safeinhishands.  I am thankful for the things I gained from that relationship but it is time to move on.  I am now under the guidance and protection of Riot79.  It is my hope that this will be another opportunity for me to learn and grow.  I want so much to learn all I can about myself and where I fit in the lifestyle.
4/13/2009 9:13:48 AM

Well my new mentorship is going well. I am learning a lot and I think the growth I am experiencing is making me a better person as well as helping me to grow into the kind of submissive I want to become.

Things I am learning…

I am learning the importance of rules and structure and how by being obedient I am happier, more content and healthier.

I have become much more aware of how my thoughts, words and deeds affect and reflect on others.

I am less impulsive and try to “think” before I act and speak. This is an important one for me because I am not a very cautious person sometimes and am more inclined to “seize the day”. I do not tend to look before I leap.

I must say that safeinhishands{TWC} is a very patient and understanding mentor.  She also firm and immune to begging and does not tolerate irresponsible behavior. I am learning…

3/3/2009 12:01:57 PM
Greetings, It is time to add a little something here.  I am learning a lot of things about life and what I want.  I feel that right now what I need are friends who feel as I do.  
2/14/2009 9:34:04 PM
Happy Valentine's Day to A/all!

I am who I am, I cannot change that and neither can you! 
This is not a bad thing, it is what makes this journey through life worth it!  Discovering yourself, learning from others, the satisfaction in finding One who reveals more of yourself than you knew existed as you go down the path of new discovery together.  This is the stuff of life.

There are bumps and potholes in the road.  do not let them sway you from your true path.  embrace them, learn from them and move forward with a steadfastness of hope for a better tomorrow!
2/9/2009 2:04:18 AM
There is such a thing as "too much of a good thing" in regards to sex...who knew!
2/2/2009 11:26:49 PM
I want this so much, every fiber of my being screams out with a need for something more.  I need to feel the sensations of letting go, pain and submission.  I will not rest until I find someone to pursue these desires with.  The quest continues!
1/31/2009 6:06:51 PM

He is born in heat and fear and darkness,

feeding on what has given Him life.

He takes what He wants,

without remorse,  without mercy.

A terrible beauty that changes everything,

in one instant.

and once He touches you,

You are never the same.

SacradTrust
 
 Age: 25
 Grand Junction, Colorado