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My interest, in†D/s,†is control-sensitive relationships. I like control. Not just being in con
Hetero Male Dominant, 60,  Peeples Valley, Arizona











 Dominant Male

 Peeples Valley 


 5' 10"

 190 lbs





Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

My interest, in†D/s,†is control-sensitive relationships. I like control. Not just being in control, but the awareness of control, the†feel of control and the ability to manipulate control itself.

One of the most important things for Me is to understand what happens when you take control from someone, the steps involved, how it proceeds, what can go wrong, how to reinforce control, how to give back control. . . basically Iím interested in anything that has to do with the transfer of control to or from someone.

Isn't that what D/s is all about?

Remember that submission is a state of mind. It takes practice.††

About Me. I†have been a Dom for almost 30 years.†† how times have changed since the Internet came along.

I live in AZ and consult . That frequently takes Me to San Diego, DC, Atlanta, St Louis, Pittsburgh and and other places less frequently.

Journal Entries:
4/4/2018 9:16:28 AM
I have been in the lifestyle for a number of years.  In that time I have had real life and online slaves, subs and play partners.  I have found that this lifestyle is about the mental connection and that the physical is the manifestation of the mental, emotional and spiritual.

1/16/2018 3:34:56 PM
Power Exchange: The mutually consented to exchange of power between a Dominant and a submissive. There is an inherent need to exert control and to relinquish control. When a submissive relinquishes that control to a Dominants authority, the Dominant takes a degree of responsibility for that person and their needs

1/15/2018 12:10:19 PM
today's thought

A true dominant doesn't take but, rather, inspires to give.... Beyond reason, ideally!

6/6/2017 9:05:36 AM
quæ numquam excogitari potest experiri vos estis si iustum sit ut te

11/8/2016 8:27:44 AM
home at last

I do believe that I have spent more time out of the country than in the US in the last 12 months

It is so good to be home and to know that there are no immediate plans for travel in the foreseeable future

while I love travel it has cost Me the submission of a very special sub which I regret but life goes on

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