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I am an intelligent, dominant, outgoing, creative man who is, honestly, really kind of hungry for a fairly deep connection with a submissive woman, or at least a woman with a submissive side to her that he can draw out. I've been in the lifestyle my entire life and I've always thrived as a person when I really had a connection to someone. It doesn't have to mean you're in some kind of deep relationship: it can exist between everything from married couples to good friends who are just play partners. But usually I prefer depth.
She should really be a geek, goth or just outright nerd. Sci-fi, fantasy and anime should all be familiar stuff. I write role-playing games as a side profession, and one of them is a role-playing game of an anime. So if you get involved with me, geek culture is going to be all around you.
In play I enjoy flogging, single-tailing, over-the-knee spankings and lots of other kinds of impact play, but probably my favorite kinky affectation is electrical play. I'm a long-time user of the violet wand and in the last couple years stepped into deeper electrical play (TENS, etc).
And for those of you who haven't tried it, it is NOT nearly as scary as it seems, and it's also not a requirement for a relationship with me. So don't let that stop you.
I am one of the "in-house" Dominants at the first friday fetish nights at Club Orpheus in Baltimore (a great place to meet me in a "safe" environment).
I have a large "nurture" factor and in fact have had to really wean myself out of the habit of taking in "strays" and healing them. I enjoy it, as it is my nature, but once they're healed, they tend to go away (which I guess means I did my job). But it would be nice to find one that's in it for the long haul.
On the professional side of things (because I don't see that too often and its something a submissive should inquire about, esp. if she's looking for something longterm and live-in), I am a regularly published journalist, writer and artist.
You: You are intelligent, with minimal baggage, low drama, creative, sensual, and open-minded. You are also not looking for a replacement for your father, and are on a minimal amount of psychiatric medications (we all have issues, I'd prefer someone who couldn't fill their own library).
It would help tremendously if you were:
Geeky, gothy, nerdy, or just an all-around intellectual. I'm not into ditzes.
20s to 40, petite in size to a little thick maximum and you should be a moderate liberal to darn near socialist. Conservatives and I don't usually get along well. I'd like someone I can talk to and relate to as well...because I'm just not that into gags.
Be honest, be really interested in meeting, and be rational.
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It really seems that I have found what I am looking for, so just seeking friends now. Mainly on FL these days as Darkeros. |
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Had a fantastic time at FetFest this weekend. Great way to celebrate my birthday. |
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If you are going to meet with somebody you do not know, have a contact person. Get all their information: full name, verified phone number, etc. (you don't need their SSC#) and then give it to a friend who you'll call when you first meet and when you get home safe. Let the person you are meeting KNOW you are doing this. And if they refuse, don't meet. There is no good enough reason. I don't care if they've been your "net master" for two years and if EVERYBODY seems to know them.
Oh, and here's a real hard one for some to swallow: This safety tip can apply to men too, Doms or subs. A lot of guys tense up at that, but your overconfidence can get you rolled hard. There are girls out there that are bait and you get there and there are a couple guys waiting to roll you. Happens more in the vanilla meet-for-sex-online world than in BDSM, yes, but the possibility is there.
Be safe, people. |
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I see half the women on here have to put in a message that they will not instantly drop to their knees because someone online asks them to. I'm not sure what bothers me more: The fact that there are that many idiots pretending to be Doms doing it, or the fact that there are enough would-be submissives and slaves who are actually obeying them that they keep doing it. |
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What the hell is with all the short, bad English profiles with fake model pictures? Is there some kind of Collarme Nigerian internet scam? |
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| Age: 22 |
| Amsterdam,
Netherlands |
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