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Male Dominant, 53, Minneapolis, Minnesota
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About thetopdom
Update 3/8/2015.... So time for the promised update. I guess I'll start by a little vision of myself and who I am, which isn't easy to quantify. I have been involved in the lifestyle since my late teens. Though there was really a lifestyle then except the underground gay leather scene. I have been a Dom, Daddy Dom and a Master in my various BDSM relationships. I am very much into the mental and psychological aspect of dominating. However, I have also been known to enjoy physical side as well as I'm known to be a sexual sadist. I have had newbies and experienced subs and slaves and really don't have preference. My preference as far as women/subs is one who isn't playing games, is honest (with me and herself), isn't someone who read 50 shades and has these Cinderella concepts of a D/s relationship(not say it's not a good primer but it's fiction and this is real-life), a woman who isn't kinda maybe possibly interested in probably trying a D/s situation. This is real to me and it should be to you too. I have been known to have a weakness for gingers and Hispanic women, but honestly I don't have a type other than submissive and sexually open-minded. I'm looking for ltr but wouldn't be opposed to play partners if we click and are sexually compatible. As I am a single, joint custody, parent I only have every other weekend available. But have weeknights free every other week also. I don't have an age preference either. To me it's more about maturity, emotionally and mentally, and how we get along. About me I'm just over six foot with dark hair that's starting to get a bit salt and pepper. A former pro athlete who is still involved in his sport of choice, just no longer as a player. I'm a gentleman in public but a controlling and commanding Top whenever/wherever it is needed. I'm not one to have 5000 rules but the ones I have are to be followed. So there you have it. As requested an update and more about myself. Hope to hear from the real submissive women (if there any left) on this site. Cheers. Update 12/20/2014....I have been told that my profile is a bit, okay way, out of date and they are right. So for now here goes I'm flying to LA for a week to spend Christmas with family. When I get back will partake a real update but for now I am still single and looking. If you're in N. LA County and might like to meet for coffee let me know otherwise stay tuned for a update by the first of the new year!
Update 10/21/10.....Happy Halloween to everyone. Single and not sure of much other than its going to take an extraordinary woman to make me commit to a relationship. I have a pre-teen son who's my priority and who is my main focus most times. But I have a week at a time where I am by myself and would love to find a woman who can understand my priorities and doesnt mind moving slow or part time. Is she out there, who the hell knows!?
UPDATE 9/3/09....Heading to LA for the long weekend, hope everyone has a good weekend and any woman in that area want to talk send me a message...
Hello I have many years experience as a Dom and a Master. Would like to find some type of BDSM relationship.I am wondering if I will ever find the right woman to be my sub/slave. Many interests and kinks but really want to find a woman who wants to explore hers and find new ones. Please let me know if your out there.
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