The sexually submissive person likes the idea of being surrendered or submitting to another person and being used for sexual gratification - nothing arouses them more! Most of this power exchange (if not all) is in the mind. Outwardly, little or no activity is happening but a lot is going on mentally. By talking about the situation both the Dominant and the submissive get into the headspace of their preference. The verbal communication creates the space for the fantasy to manifest. The internal experience is brought more sharply into reality through hearing it said out loud.
Title: Hair Pulling - Use Control Responsibly
Description: Hair pulling is a great way to get control of your partner – just make sure to be responsible with that control! It’s 100% your responsibility once you take control. Discuss with the receiver beforehand how rough you can get and how careful they need you to be and use these as guidelines in the heat of the moment.
Tags: erotic hair pulling, sensual hair pulling, hot sex, rough sex
Description: Guys love getting their hands on a bunch of beautiful hair but then often don’t know what to do with it. Practice – often! The more you handle the hair the better you will be when it matters. Remember to play with her hair in non-sexual times too.
Tags: erotic hair pulling, sensual hair pulling, hot sex, rough sex
Title: Erotic Hair Pulling – How To Get Excellent Control
Description: Get a good grip on her hair! Starting at the hair line, run your fingertips (palm down) toward the crown of her head. Once you’re near the crown of her head curl your fingers and make a loose fist staying close to the scalp. This will make her feel really good and will give you excellent control!
Tags: erotic hair pulling, sensual hair pulling, hot sex, rough sex
Description: Be careful if she has curly hair. Ladies with very curly hair often have lots of styling products on their hair. Never try to run your fingers through to the ends with curly hair – you’ll just be increasing tangle and frizz. Instead, make sure to keep your fingers close to her scalp and in a place you can easily pull out.
Tags: erotic hair pulling, sensual hair pulling, hot sex, rough sex
Description: Do not pull her hair without asking if it is styled, if she has a weave, if she had a lot of clips in it, etc. Some hair styles are very expensive and must be professionally done and pulling it might feel good but would not make her happy.
Tags: erotic hair pulling, sensual hair pulling, hot sex, rough sex
