***Update*** I currently own one slave who resides in Northern California. We see each other periodically for training and play, and have been together for many years, although in recent years we have been seeing less of each other. Any relationship we (you and I) have would be a standalone situation unless all parties were interested in meeting, although that is unlikely for many reasons. I don't consider myself Polyamorous and am not interested in creating a harem, merely meeting someone local whose company I can enjoy on a regular basis. I prefer depth--quality over quantity. Just to be clear, I am a strong believer in ethics and integrity--my NorCal partner is well aware of my activities here and is comfortable with those activities.
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In search of a mind to bend and an ass to tame.
Maybe it's asking a little much, but I want to interact and play with someone who has a mind of their own and yet seeks to submit that mind and body, completely, to another. There is a big difference between that and someone who has no stable sense of self who is just looking for someone they can get lost in; if I wanted a f*ck-doll, I'd order one.
So what do I want?
A beautiful and intelligent woman between the ages of 24 and 40, (just to be clear, overweight and unintelligent ARE NOT attractive and intelligent) who is looking to be explored...deeply.
I am looking for someone who knows enough about themselves to know that life without the intense, emotional, and fulfilling connection of a BDSM relationship is unimaginable; someone who thrives not only on the wonderful intensity of sex in this lifestyle, but on submission and surrender to the one they need to call Sir/Master. Whether or not I am that person for you will need to be determined.it is my belief that this sort of relationship cannot be forced-- although force and dominance are aspects of this lifestyle, at the deepest levels, it's based on trust and mutual compatibility and that can't be bullied into existence. ----
The reason I chose the name Mind Master is because of my preferences for play; I am a hypnotist, bondage and domination fetishist, and all around kinkster and I put these preferences/skills to use in conditioning (mind and body) my partners for ever-greater levels of submission and pleasure.The mind is the greatest sexual organ we have...and I LOVE to play with it.
If the idea of spending time with someone whose idea of fun is exploring every inch of your mind and body, and then doing things which make you vibrate from your pelvis to your head, then say hello.
If the idea of spending time with someone who can see you for who you really are, call you on your shit, and then expertly re-condition you for outstanding levels of submission and pleasure...then say hello.
Oh yes, and PLEASE...if you are going to contact me...include a photo, meet my criteria, and be honest and clean (disease and risky behavior free) . Don't waste my time with anything less...I will reciprocate. ? ***note- no, the picture is not me. I do not freely post pictures of myself online. Get to know me, and I will send you some.
Oh the importance of understanding values...
I've been in a few relationships and it seems to me that relationships either work, or don't based on 3 things; the ratio of attention desired and the amount of attention given to each person by the other, conscious and sub-conscious love strategies and expectations and whether or not those are fulfilled, and establishing values and priorities that are the same or at least similar.
When I think about the 3 to 5 most important things in my life, those things which I value and put most of my time and attention on, and then think about having a relationship, especially an intense D/s relationship and all that requires, I now realize that those priorities, those top level attention-getters need to be meshed with each others.
If you don't fit into my top 5 and/or I don't fit into yours, or if those things are tremendously unbalanced...that's not a relationship, it's an earthquake.
However, when we are each others top priority, and the rest of our values match and meet...well...let the sparks fly!
So...two messages today from people 1) across the country 2) one was from a Dom/Domme couple 3) BOTH were full of grammatical errors. Now, any one of these would be fine if the emails were simply "Hi. Saw your profile and thought it was cool" blah blah blah. But they weren't. They were solicitations.
Can anyone here tell me, by raising their hands, why these people should be publicly humiliated, derided and/or treated with psychotropic meds?
Anyone?
You, in the back row...
Yes. That's correct. It is exactly because they are illiterate idiots who should go play a game of "hide and go fuck yourself" with their imaginary friends.
If you can't read, don't have a pic in your profile, or are just too lazy to use proper grammar and spelling...bugger off.
