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Male Dominant, 49
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Female Switch, 37, Arlington, Texas
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Male Dominant, 66, Spokane, Washington
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About TheCandle
”Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.” Buddha Siddhartha
I've decided to put up a profile on Collarspace so that I might make some more connections with the local community and area kinksters I might not otherwise meet. I'd call myself fairly new to BDSM, if only because I spent years having just a passing interest and no real sense of what it might mean to me. Recent events changed and clarified what, for me, being a Dominant really means.
I have recently come out of a very deep, enlightening and tumultuous relationship. I will cherish every moment of it until the day I die & I am unapologetic when I say that there will always be a special place in my heart set aside for her. That being said, I am ready to move on after really coming to better understand myself as a Dominant.
As a Dominant I am at my best as a mentor and firm guiding hand. I believe in behavioral discipline which covers everything from obedience training all the way to having you re-examine your perspectives and see things from different points of view than you're used to. I will require you to rethink what drives each of your emotions, and through that understanding, discover how to master them instead of letting them get the best of you. I do not profess that I know anything more than you or are wiser somehow, but I will certainly ensure that you see yourself and the world in a new way.
As a newcomer to the Indianapolis community, I would enjoy getting to know others who maybe are just venturing out into the public scene or considering it, I know that it can be an intimidating place to wander into.
I know there has been some drama with CM/Collarspace in the past year. I hope to find that it's become a place for friends and responsible behavior. If you're local and want to get to know me please send me a message! |
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Fuck this place, and fuck you all. Enjoy the shithole that is CS. |
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Just discovered: a profile that starts off by bitching about how people don't read her profile...then goes on to say that she doesn't read anyone's profile who writes to her and if they don't like that then fuck off.
Seriously, seriously about had it with this site. It is obvious that anyone genuine or with half a brain has gone elsewhere with their efforts and left CS to those with significant emotional and inadequacy issues. Keep hoping someone will prove me wrong, but in every instance I'm just finding one more moron on the other end.
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