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Yes, this is the sub profile I mentioned in my switch/Domme profile on here.
What am I? I start out as a 'bottom', and tend to offer submission if a relationship grows in that direction. Yes, I have to be "earned"- just as you do. Just as everyone of worth does. No biggy. If a match is made, then the earning is rather guarranteed. I will not bother getting into everything I like and do not like here since that can be a good basis for starting up an email dialog. I WILL say that I am a sensation slut, and would dearly love my partner to be a tad bit on the sadistic side. He also needs to have a sense of humour, be willing to use what brains the gods gifted him with, be close to my age, and be HONEST. Speaking of honesty, I am married. I have two kids, a couple dogs, a cat, and as I said, a husband. It is an open marriage, tho. He does and will always know of my "extra curricular" activities. Maybe not the details, but the general gist. He is completely vanilla, and a very good man. Just not into some of the things I wish to explore in this life. He has interests that do not interest me, so we're even there- LOL! That being said, I am not looking for simple and simply "kinky sex". Sex I can have- again, I am married. Other aspects of BDSM are a tad harder to find, however. Anyway, I am open to chats and emails from all. I am about to be done with my "busy time of year", so I will soon have time to start meeting people again.
P.S.- No, you are not insane (well...). I do have a second profile up as I am a switch >wink<
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Just a little wonder here, not even a rant of any form...
I get emails and the person emailing says "Whatever your answer, please at least respond..." And I always respond. I find it rude not to. However, these people asking that I be polite and respond to them who do not respond in turn? Makes one wonder 'why' they have to ask for a response in the first place... |
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Ahhh... A new year! New people to meet, new things to learn, new things to do! Isn't this time of year so exciting?! (okay, enough cofee for one morning... I promise! LOL!) |
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Hello, all peoples out there! I am done working now, and getting back to life and life's little 'pursuits'. So lemme make a point again, even though it is right there in my profile: I do not care if you are married, but your wife HAS to know! If she does not, then you and I would NEVER be anything more than just friends- if that much! And no... you will not be able to change my mind. Ever. So if you say "I would still like to be friends with you. Can we have a coffee sometime?" with the sole intent of trying to change my mind, you will fail. I will (and have before) get up and walk out on you for even trying. I do not understand what is so hard to understand here. It is simply a safety issue for me. If you cannot be honest with her, that means you are used to dishonesty, and I find that unsafe. I do not care WHY you cheat- I am sure many many of you have perfectly valid reasons that I would back whole-heartedly. That still does not mean that I will be part of it... |
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A few no-no’s: I am married, and so no, I will not run off to the far away wilds with anyone to be his “full-time” sub. If that is what you want, we will not match. My husband is vanilla, and is not part of this at all other than by being my husband. So none of this b.s. about trying to make him your sub as well by insisting that he has to ask your permission for anything he does, or to have sex with his own wife. That is asinine. I am strong and confident, and this is just a part of me. A part-time part, even, considering my family life. While some ‘orders’ can be carried through-out the day when we are not together, you have to be real. Safety is paramount. I will not give my home number away after barely a 15 minute chat, and I will never head straight to anyone’s private place without meeting in public FIRST and having safe calls, etc. And no, that is NOT “the way it is done”. I have met too many real Doms for anyone to be able to convince me of that. If what you need is someone who cares so little about her personal safety that she is willing to just go to some stranger's house for bondage, beating and true rape, then you need to move on because we will NOT match. I have no problem saying “no”, because I know that the man who will end up being my Dom is a man with integrity, intelligence, and honor. The actions described above has none of those. |
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