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Are you an alpha hunting for a life mate? ... A seeker longing for a spiritual companion? ... A queen requiring a lady-in-waiting? ... A sultana desiring a favorite harem slave? ... A governess looking for a good girl? ... A dancing lead searching for a trusting follow?
Then, I am who you seek. The archetypes above illustrate the many facets of a single committed, mutually-fulfilling, lifestyle D/s relationship that I wish to have with a loving owner.
I am a romantic, queer, femme, masochist, BDSM lifestyle service-oriented submissive who is looking to offer skills and support in a committed, long-term, live-in, monogamous, spiritual, romantic, and sexual relationship. You may find my slave resume and writings on my website:?http://thecagedsongbird.weebly.com
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You are a sharp-dressed female, queer, very femme or very butch, sadist, lifestyle Dominant looking to offer leadership, protection, and order in a committed, long-term, live-in, monogamous, spiritual, romantic, and sexual relationship. Like me, you do not have children and do not want to parent children. Like me, you are free of addictions, fit, and in excellent health. You live close to me or are willing to relocate.
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I look forward to exploring this opportunity further.
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My Top 5 Kinks
My absolute favorite kinks that I can't do without!
1. Service. Let me rub your feet, scrub your bathroom, cook you dinner, and polish your shoes. Service can go beyond domestic and include secretarial or personal assistance - anything that you need done to make your life easier. I'm especially excited by service that draws on my areas of expertise. I'm such a service sub that when you order me to undress you, I will want to fold your clothes neatly and put them aside. I love it when I can anticipate your needs and get you that glass of water before you think to ask for it.
2. Protocol. Give me rules for how to interact with you and teach me how to serve you. It feels so good knowing how to please you. I enjoy moving gracefully, speaking eloquently, and dressing nicely to please you. Do you like having me kneel at your feet when you sit? Shall I be responsible for cleaning and storing the toys? Protocol allows me to engage in a deeper way with my activities.
3. Ritual and Ceremony. Don't just hand me my collar and tell me to put it on! Important events such as collaring deserve a little ceremony. Ritual stages a "direct experience of that which lies beyond the superficial order and predictability of everyday life." (from Encountering the Sacred in Psychotherapy by Griffith and Griffith)
4. Restraint. Hands, ropes, the sash of the bath robe, leather belt looped around my neck with the end closed tight in the door? All good! To me it is comforting, like an embrace. Hold me.
5. Intense sensation. This includes pain, breath play, wearing blindfolds, tickling, textures against the skin, wearing a ball gag, rough sex, etc. Amp up the intensity by quickly alternating between rough and gentle. Mmmm, yes please! |
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Hard Limits
-Animals, minors, or anyone unwilling or unable to give consent
- Receiving or witnessing lacerations, abrasions, piercings, or any penetration of the skin with sharp objects other than scratching with fingernails
- Any body fluids and excretions other than sweat, tears, saliva, mucus, cum, and vaginal fluids
- Putrid odors
- Loud sounds that exceed 90 decibels
- Angry-sounding shouting
- Humiliation or verbally-abusive name-calling such as being called "idiot"
- Being "set up to fail" with a task or assignment
- Breath play with a pillow or bag
- Mascots and puppets
- Control over urinating/defecating
- Drug use including cigarettes and caffeine
- Any behavior that jeopardizes my career and/or livelihood
- Breaking the law
- Permanent damage and major scarring
- STIs
- Pregnancy
Soft Limits
- Bruises, welts, or other marks on the face, hands, or high neck
- Control over eating, drinking, or sleeping unless it will improve my wellness
- Roller coasters
- Horror movies
- Extreme sports
- Being sticky for more than ten minutes
- Hair/s in my mouth
- Nude except for socks
- Prolonged cold
- Engaging in any behaviors likely to cause illness |
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| Age: 26 |
| London,
United Kingdom |
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