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Female Submissive, 57, Prosper, Texas
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Male Switch, 23, North
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Female Submissive, 36, Watertown, New York
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About TameAndSubdue
I do not believe that a single label can define a person, including myself. I believe there are many roles that each partner will fulfill for each other in a relationship. A short explanation of what I desire is a woman who receives pleasure from servitude. This is not only sexual but domestic and emotional.
I would like my partner to be interested to hear me talk about my work, hobbies, or other topics that are important to me. She does not need to understand the topics. She only need to understand what is important to me.
There is a duality to the nature of being owned; being very well cared for, cherished and adored but also used harshly for the pleasure of her Master. However none of this will be possible without open and honest communication. If you are not happy in the relationship then something is wrong. If you do not speak up and tell me you are not happy then something is terribly wrong.
I wish to know and provide for your needs and understand your desires and fantasies, no matter how dark, twisted or embarrassed they make you feel; and I will take time to address them one by one so I may more effectively care and provide for you. As a sadist I may even turn this knowledge against you.
Outside of the house we will generally appear vanilla. When in public you will be obedient and submissive however I will not subject you to abject public humiliation. Though when around understanding friends your submission and my control will be far more evident and discipline will not be withheld.
I am strict but not unreasonable, correcting you on the spot for minor indiscretion (grabbing your hair to re-enforce a verbal warning, slapping your face or a quick spanking). At times I will simply use you to satisfy my sexual needs. At other times you will satisfy my need for affection (I would just as soon have you curl up on my lap to watch a movie as I would use you).
I particularly enjoy shibari (or Insex) style rope bondage of which I am fairly decent at. I have been able to incorporate some knowledge from my years of tactical rescue into my rope bondage style which does include rope suspension. I also enjoy heavy chain bondage and find some form of continual light bondage extremely arousing. By this I mean you wearing a collar, leather cuffs and the like. Or being bound with chains or ropes at night to restrict some of your movements or just to make you slightly uncomfortable and dependent upon me.
I try to stay healthy and I expect you to take care of your body at least as well as I do mine.
You should be willing to relocate however, I do not expect you, nor will I ask you to relocate after a few emails or phone calls. Nor will I expect you to bear the burden of any travel or moving expenses yourself. I am not into online domination or long distance relationships. If you are willing to travel to meet me I will be more than happy to accommodate you.
I am very self sufficient. I enjoy working on my house, car, motorcycle and cooking my own meals; including baking bread every week. I am very methodical and thoughtful. Thus I rarely do anything without thinking it over. I am very creative and more likely to look for dungeon items in a Grainger or McMaster Carr catalog than a BDSM catalog. I am also vary capable of building my own devices and finding new uses for every day items and tools. I am slowly teaching myself how to MIG weld having purchased a very good welder a while back as a Christmas present to myself. You can guess why I want to be able to weld; if not ask.
If you haven't guessed by now I own my own house. I have a nice workshop dungeon in the basement. I even have tracks bolted to the ceiling. It was there long before the world heard of Christian Grey and his red room of pain.
My limits: You will be drug and disease free, not partake in any illegal activities, nor be forced or allowed to engage in coprophilia or bestiality.
Thank you for reading my entire profile. I hope I have been clear about my needs.
One last thing: If you have found what I have written appealing I ask that you contact me. Please do not be shy or feel intimidated as I do not subscribe to the belief that women should not be the ones to contact potential partners. You will, after all, be the one to make the decision to offer yourself to me or any other partner. If you do send me a message please put some thought into it. I won't respond to single word or single sentence messages. Please be upfront with your intentions as well. There is nothing I hate more than weeks of messages only to realize there is no intention of actually meeting. I do not mind exchange of emails as long as I know what your intentions are up front. I wish to have intelligent discussions with any potential partner. Truly MtF women are welcome to contact me. Unfortunately selecting Trans under "actively seeking" leads to a lot of unwanted emails. |
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It is very discourging when you are corresponding with someone and it seems to be going well.? Then one day, not just no reply, they close their account. |
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When she's abandoned her moral center and teachings...when she's cast aside her facade of propriety and lady-like demeanor...when I have so corrupted this fragile thing and brought out a writhing, mewling, bucking, wanton whore for my enjoyment and pleasure.....enticing from within this feral lioness...growling and scratching and biting...taking everything I dish out to her.....at that moment she is never more beautiful to me. ”
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