tammystanton

Today I reconnected with another former sub and a sub sister. We both served my Dom at one point.

I see to be Domming much more than serving these days. Are they any other Domme's with this kind of experience?

Wow!! This was an incredible week! I got the most wonderful subbie boy out there! I love his attention.

This is a wonderful site! THANKS!

Thanks to the many who wrote after my simple one liner. I regret that I didn't include women too....I should have said people instead of men.

THIS IS HORRIBLE! No slave should be treated this way!

This is part of chris' reply to me...and I agree...

....I do understand the reality of slavery in a total power exchange relationship. I think many people who have never experienced it believe it is about sexuality. Reality though, is it is about interacting in a manner that allows the slave to feel owned as a peice of property, and for the owner to use that slave as a piece of property. ....... Total Power exchange encompasses a way of life, not just a bedroom fantasy. ....... i am someone's property and my owner would feel the comfort of having someone they can exert their will on with confidence that they have the right to do so ......

Nicely put

within moments of me posting this, a sub asked me if she has to pay me money! NO again Money is NOT the point, but to get across you need to give me your all.

She is an average working mom needing to give me herself for proper release. Okay..fine...she happens to be in a position in her job I think I can utilize for my benefit.

I will reply to her and make it clear that money is not necessary and neither is putting her job at risk. On the contrary she should NEVER put her employment at risk for release. But, if she can assist me, then she should consider making her Mistress better, that is if I accept her into my stable.

I want a smaller stable, not too many, so I can spend plenty of time with my slaves. Eventually weening down to a select few.

Let me ask you slaves a question? Don't you want your Domme to be the Best Domme on the planet?

You should be supplying me with books, links to great Domme sites, to enhance my knowledge and enhance our experience.

For example: I have read, but didn't have a copy of the Story of O...one slave sent me an exquisitly bound copy for my collection! How very thoughtful! She was a sweet and tender sub.

After I replied to this sub, I realized this may be a good discussion for the group. I need you all to understand, I'm not all about money....I realize it may sound like it, but what I am intending to do is get to the point with the hundreds of subs emailing me! So with that, here is part of my conversation:

chris, that is a nice polite introduction. I'm not just looking to own you from the neck down, or just for sexual fulfilment. i need someone who can enhance my lifestyle all the way around. yes, sexual enslavement is one part. i think more and more Dommes like myself are starting to request more of the total package from male slaves. there are too many men wanting to endure some humiliation for our enjoyment, then leave us with the cleanup. I get hundreds of introductions daily. Most are, Whip my balls please! Paddle my Ass, Butt Plugs, Feminize me. I want to wear a dress....etc....

Money is NOT the primary motivator for me....understand that...SEX and MONEY are second to a complete D/s relationship. I preface what I"m going to tell you because you need to understand this in NOT the only piece of our relationship, but it is a piece and I want you to completely understand it!!

True story: I had one slave who was a extremely rich. I have always agreed to be open to people who need to escape their vanilla mind for the joys of D/s. Boy did I feel used when after he left...i was literally cleaning up the mess from our games to having to negotiate my time to arrange to meet him. yes he did buy me nice leather and toys to enhance our encounters. completely outfitted my gym etc. but i was probably more hurt than his wife when i found he had bought a slut he was having an affair with a 6,000 square foot home with plenty of acreage. I knew he had her and I was tryinig to help him ween from her. She was a play Domme that had the advantage of working in his office.

I realized "I" the Domme was actually his "slave" in the sense that I was arranging all of this shit and controlling his schedule outside of this scene but he still was not totally my property. I will NOT do that again. IF you are MY slave, you will better MY life 1st!!! Every part of your being will belong to me! Can you imagine a plantation where the slaves left at 6pm and went home to a mansion while the master was in a upper middle class home? NEVER! There's no slavery in our civilized history like that. Rome kept their slaves in brick cells. Egypt kept their slaves with the cattle!

Hey, I am my own person and own my own business. So I don't need anyone!! Okay, but...if you have it, you WILL share it!

Sound scorned or vindictive??? A little...but I believe you're smart enough to realize what I mean and that I'm not holding a grudge, but learned a life experience lesson.

........there was more, but that is it for this discussion.....

Interesting: I am pleased to continue to get wonderful applications from Submissives. Male Female/cheating and others.

What is interesting is I had one submissive offer his mind body and soul, but when I asked him for a small favor..he bristled!!!! Amazing...let me suggest to the slaves reading this...mind body and soul usually means your everything, if it doesn't don't offer it...and say mind body and soul, except for...

Then you can sound like one of those car ads...put your disclaimers at the bottom, which should be respected by your Domme....but don't tell me mind body and soul unless you mean YOUR EVERYTHING....which I will immediately begin using if I'm interested in owning your everything!!!!

SURVIVOR: Slave style

i have decided to let brett attempt to become one of my slaves. i will be testing his loyalty, his abilities to serve and his true interest level.

i have warned him not to serve another Mistress at this time.

While he is not allowed to have another Mistress now, I will enjoy taking more applications from other slaves. Male or Female. I can have them all performing similar tasks and communicate with each other at some point.

I have to laugh to myself, I'm creating a Slave Survivor situation. Hey wait, no one steal that idea...i can copy right it! LOL

Today I replied to some of the many submissives that have started writing....

Here is the text: Thanks....I am honored xxxxx(NAME WITHELD)...tell me things about you other than sexual of nature. Where do you work, what kinds of job training have you? What kind of credit??

The point in my question is this; do men realize how many thousands of emails Mistresses get? I have to say here I make absolutely sure I respect each and every single one with a response. But that is not my point. I want them to approach me with something other than "I'm a good paddle bitch Mistress!" I want to know about YOU, your interests? DO YOU HAVE GOOD CREDIT! seriously! What about jobs, can you hold a job? What kind of job?  I know you like walks in the park, holding hands etc. Not to downplay those activities but I want to know more!

Comeon you can do better than that! Intrigue me, make me want to know more about you..what about a simple pick, and not of some tiny tortured penis...your face will do just fine.

Do other Mistresses feel this way??

Ask yourself..."What can I offer Tammy that no one else offers her?"

If you can answer that with the full "anything" I can possibly give her and be honest, then that is the kind of sub that I am interested!

Thank to all of the polite and articulate Dom's that have written. I am very fortunate to be in this lifestyle.

I  am now longing for submissive women, cheating wives, any and all women to submit to my every whim and bring me pleasure.