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Hetero Female Switch, 43,  PalmBeach, Florida
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Friends:
whippingboyylasteam1MistressSeekerJackofthePillorybdsman4u69
Drrmaninightranger31545DomSeeksSub1888Murphy919Mondoro

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______ I have not been on here in months. Some have emailed and ask what happened to me. I decided to change my life. I have never been a person to discuss my personal life. I have been divorced for eight years. I divorced because of domestic violence. I lived in evil loveless marriage for seven years of both physical and verbal abuse. I took the last six years and earned two degrees in criminal psychology and justice leadership/management. And, I am currently working on a PHD in forensic psychology. My goal is to work with victims of domestic violence and human trafficking. And, yes there is a difference in having a healthy loving relationship in the lifestyle and those who hide behind the lifestyle to abuse others. Some victims live in the lifestyle that cannot understand the difference because of low self-esteem or fear of being alone. Today I spend my time researching and writing about victimology, victim blaming, human trafficking and self-help. I started my own legal document preparation services while I move forward into advocacy. I hope that all my friends are doing well. _________________
If you are emailing me and have no picture on your profile please attach one. Thanks
______________________________________________________________ Some of My Favorite Quotes...
  • "Love is like a bird, you never know when it is going to come and shit on your face."
  • "Sometimes the perfect person for you is the one you least expect."
  • "One day you'll love me as I love you. One day you'll think of me as I think of you. One day you'll cry for me as I cry for you. One day you'll want me, but I won't want you."
  • "No man is wortjh your tears, and the one who is won't make you cry."
  • "With true love comes no doubts, no jealousy, and no worries."

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WARNING: All of my photo's are copyright by me. Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

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 tamatha

 Female Switch

 PalmBeach 

 Florida

 5' 11"

 165 lbs

 43

 Hetero

 Caucasian

 10/30/08

 

Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Submissive Male

Switch Men

Friends Only

 Lives For:

 Photography

 Loves:

 Horseback Riding

 Being Massaged

 Vibrators

 Painting

 Likes:

 Dancing

 Walking

 Anal Play

 Blindfolds

 Bondage

 Breast Play

 Corsets

 Spanking

 Stockings

 Strap-Ons

 Art Collecting

 Tattoos

 Goth Lifestyle

 Victorianism

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Journal Entries:
12/10/2010 3:56:56 AM

All the DOM You Need to Be?
 

“You can tie her up, spank her, have wild sex, and require her to do things.  But can you deal with her emotions and what she is feeling after you do this?  You better find a way, as this will be a pivotal time.  She has emotions about her submission itself, about the sexual acts you just made her do, and about you the Dom.  You need to be able to understand this, talk to her about it, guide her through this and care for her.  Be able to openly talk and discuss these things with her to help her understand what she is feeling and why she is feeling it.  This is an important time in nurturing and caring for her.  This will affirm to her all you have been telling her and what she is feeling, if you nurture her the right way.  If you don’t, it is very apt to push her away, make her withdraw, and cause issues for you both.  Problems are easily avoided with the right care and attention.  If done correctly, she will pull you even closer, submit more, and be even more yours that she was before.  And that my friend is a beautiful thing.”

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