swtevlbtchJan

What I am looking for. Someone who is fun to be with, sarcastic as I am, that is into BDSM. Also likes to do some vanilla stuff like shopping, movies, coffee, people watching and whatever we decide on doing.
I would prefer a bi female or possibly a male bottom/sub or switch that primarily wants to sub/bottom to me.
I have an evil side and love to punish naughty girls & boys. I am looking for someone that wants to grow and learn together.
Must be honest and single. (or I know your partner) No married or attached cheaters.
I do have a boyfriend and he knows what I want. We are very active in the BDSM community here in the Twin Cities. I have been involved in the community on and off for over 10 years.
Friends first. There needs to be some mutual chemistry. Must have trust both ways. Some RT experience please.
Not into online play crap. First meeting in public place which could be a restaurant or maybe a BDSM munch. No shows/chickens get lost. Don't bother me if you not serious about meeting in person if I decide we are.
Spankings, paddling, flogging, wartenburg wheel, clothspins, tickling, hair pulling, pinching, biting, humiliation and more are some of the things I like to do. I didn't mention dildos, vibrators... Do you need to be punished and/or pleased?

Jan

(DO NOT call me Ma'am!!!)
Jan is fine to begin with.