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03/01/2014

Walk in Peace

Love is giving someone the power to destroy you.

but, trusting them not to.





How tired God must be of hearing about guilt and loneliness

 

 

When we lose the right to be different, we lose the privilege to
be free.


Charles Evans Hughes

We knew it the moment we first saw each other
 Last two years have been incredible
I adore You Sir xoxo Your swt

Courage comes from wanting to do it well. Security comes from
knowing you can do it well.
Confidence comes from having done it well.

If the last couple of days are a veiw of what this new year will be like for me
I only wish everyone could be as
Blessed
THANK YOU

Even under ideal conditions people have trouble locating their car keys in a pocket, hitting the G-spot, and Pinning the Tail on the Donkey - but I'd bet my ass everyone can find and push the snooze button from 3 feet away, in about 1.7 seconds, eyes closed, first time every time

You'll seldom experience regret for anything that you've done.
 It is what you haven't done that will torment you.
 

Always do things you can't do,
that's how you learn to do them

Let the world know you as you are, not as you think you should be
-- because sooner or later, if you're posing, you will forget the pose and
then where are you?
Fanny Brice

Well said Fanny

You are the only real obstacle in your path to a fulfilling life.

You cannot tailor make your situation in life, but you can tailor
make your attitudes to fit those situations.


Zig Ziglar

First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do

 Carefully handle your words 
for they have more power than bombs.


Life is too short to waste. Dreams are fulfilled only through
action, not through endless planning to take action.


David J. Schwartz

BINGO!

This is the miracle that happens every time to those who really
love; the more they give, the more they possess.


Rainer Maria Rilke

When you feel that you have reached the end and that you cannot go one step further, when life seems to be drained of all purpose:
What a wonderful
opportunity to start all over again, to turn over a new page.

Eileen Caddy

The only place where your dream becomes impossible is in your own
thinking.

Robert H. Schuller

You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with.

Wayne Dyer

Often we allow ourselves to be upset by small things we should
despise and forget. We lose many irreplaceable hours brooding over
grievances that, in a year's time, will be forgotten by us and by
everybody. No, let us devote our life to worthwhile actions and feelings,
to great thoughts, real affections and enduring undertakings.

Andre Maurois

Success
comes in cans,
 failure in
can'ts.

The greatest power is often simple patience.

E. Joseph Cossman

There are some people who live in a dream world, and there are
some who face reality; and then there are those who turn one into the
other.


Douglas Everett

How different our lives are when we really know what is deeply
important to us, and keeping that picture in mind, we manage ourselves
each day to be and to do what really matters most.


Stephen Covey

Smile when you want too
cry when you need too
and
laugh whenever possible

Happiness is the method of
my life

Walk n Peace

Imagination is more important than knowledge.
Knowledge is limited.
Imagination encircles the world.

Albert Einstein

Life is no brief candle to me.
It is a sort of splendid torch
which I have got a hold of
for the moment,
 and I want to make it burn as
brightly as possible before
handing it on to future generations.

George Bernard Shaw

Feelings of worth  flourish's where individual differences are appreciated,
mistakes happen and forgiven,
rules are flexible and
communication is open. 
To The most important woman in my life;
 Lady Harlet
You have been everything to me for many years, my dearest closest friend.
My soul friend- all women rolled into one. 
A friend who offered advice, opinions, gentleness and love.
A friend who shared my pain and touched my wounds with a warm and tender hand.
The friend who stood by my side in  moments of despair, confusion and heartbreak.
Who stayed with me in my  hours of grief and loss.
A friend who shared with me some of my happiness moments. 
Who stood by me when I made my biggest decisions and let me know everything would be fine no matter how afraid I was of going forward. 
A friend who became part of my family who love and adore you.
A friend who had a huge part in helping and guiding me to become the woman I am today.
A friend I know truly loves and cares about me as I do you.
No amount of time or distance  or persons will ever erase or lessen all you mean to me 
 Then Now or Tomorrow
love always,
sweetie pie

If what you did yesterday seems big, you haven't done anything
yet


 
rock on

Quote of the day

I'm sure I am here to accomplish a certain number of things. Right now I am so far behind I'll never die. 
lol
Quote of the day

Most people never run far enough
on their first wind to find out
they've got a second. Don't stop trying
Give it all you've got and you'll be amazed
at the energy that comes out of you.

Quote of the day

Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart.
Who looks outside, dreams;
who looks inside, awakes.


carl jung

Quote of the day

"Oh, the comfort, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person;

having neither to weigh thoughts
nor measure words,

but to pour them all out, just as they are,
chaff and grain together,

knowing that a faithful hand will take
and sift them,

 keep what is worth keeping,
and then,

with a breath of kindness,
blow the rest away."
George Eliott

Quote of the day

We do not change as we grow older,
we just become more clearly ourselves

 

Quote of the day

The only real mistake is the one from which we learn nothing.


John Enoch Powell

Quote of the day

Someone's boring me. I think it's me.
Dyland Thomas

WTF

Quote of the day

Be good to this
planet
it is the only one with
wine

Quote of the day

The  deep friendship between a man and a woman may be a life long experience of the greatest value to themselves and to all their circle of acquaintance's and of activity; but for this type of friendship both a rare man and a rare woman are needed.

Quote of the day

Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born
until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is
born.


Anais Nin

Quote of the day

All you can do in life is be who you are. 
Many will love you for what
 you can do for them,
few won't like you at all
and
 Some people will just
love you for you.


Quote of the day

You will recognize your own path when you come upon it, because
you will suddenly have all the energy and imagination you will ever need.


Jerry Gillies

Thank you  MissHarlet for my happy birthday
love you

so yesterday was "the"day
I am now 612 months old.

So stay tuned I may say something
***BRILLANT***

at any time
walk n peace

Quote of the day

Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what
dies inside us while we live.


Norman Cousins


Quote of the day

There is no such thing as can't, only won't. If you're qualified,
all it takes is a burning desire to accomplish, to make a change. Go
forward, go backward. Whatever it takes! But you can't blame other people
or society in general. It all comes from your mind. When we do the
impossible we realize we are special people.

Jan Ashford

Quote for the day

Don't be afraid to give your best to what seemingly are small jobs.
Every time you conquer one it makes you that much stronger.  If you
do the little jobs well, the big ones tend to take care of themselves.


Dale Carnegie

Quote for the day

Commitment is what transforms a promise into reality.


Abraham Lincoln
(1809-1865, Sixteenth President of the USA


Life is short and a one shot deal 
we don't get a re-do
so I am going to refuse
to waste time being negative.
 
 The remarkable thing we all have is choice.
A choice regarding how we will embrace each and every day. 
 
We cannot change our pasts.
We cannot see into our future. 
 
The only thing we can do and I  choose to do is 
enter each new day with a positive attitude
and be grateful I have that choice.
Last weekend was the best time I have had since moving here to NM.
 It was 3 days of fun, such wonderful company. My dear friend Robert is a perfect tour guide.

I went on my first bike ride.
I was nervous about it, but after a few minutes that feeling passed.  Let me say 
I LOVED IT.
I hope I get chance to ride again.

He also took me shooting Sunday morning. Another first for me.
The rifle was so heavy,  I'm such a weakling
2 shots and I had to put it down to rest.
Believe it or not I did actually hit something other than dirt.

This is just a teeny bit of info, there is so much more we did and places we went but I'm not going to sit here and type for hours
Besides you all don't need to know details
Yesterday ended as good as it started. I had a lovely nap. Out to dinner couple  drinks, my Gentleman Switch friend from El Paso rode the bike down and joined my roommate and I for dinner.
Then he and I we went to the carnival here in town. It was a very small one but fun. Dart game- shooting game- bright lights- loud music- cotton candy - snow cones - a furry purple bear and purple kitty was won . We sat down awhile and people watched.
Thank You R:) for a most enjoyable time.
I woke up this morning just feeling good.
Went out to the patio for my 1st coffee and cig. Warm sunny quiet out there.
I don't know what got into me but I have raked the front yard, dusted and vacuumed the house started laundry taken a shower paid bills did a PC clean up.
 
Now it is 2PM and my roommate and I are sitting here all comfy in the high back chairs sipping on bloody marys and scanning the threads.
I haven't come across anything of interest so I am going to sign off take another sip of the yummiest Bloody Mary I have had in ages relax and enjoy what so far appears be a mighty fine comfortable & sparkling day.
Well I have not written in a long time. To my journal fans- I apologize
 
So much has happened and yet nothing has happened. I had been looking for a house to buy. 1st time ever!
Here in NM I can buy and pay monthly the same as rent. Seems silly to pay some one else. I found the house I want if all goes as planned I'll be moving in Aug.
 
I also finally attended a ELP munch. Since I had previously met some of the people the munch was comfortable I had a very nice day. It was held at a friends house. This friend is someone my roommate started corresponding with on Collar me we 3 met for lunch.
 
Now honestly I am a shy person, but the moment I got out of the car and walked up to him to introduce myself I have felt as if we have known each other forever. When we are together we're like siblings ( who actually like each other)playful-teasing-concern-supportive-comfort-feel good and smiles that wont stop.  Those are my happenings
 
Day to day  basically the same. I go to work. I sit out side with my morning coffee in hand and absorb the warmth of the sun. I check out the message boards. You know just regular stuff. Those are my non happenings
My Thoughts on being Submissive
 
It  was my awakening.
The ultimate measure of  my strength.
The ability to surrender freely. 
The power to give another authority over my  life.
 
Trust, loyalty, respect, completeness giving everything I am and everything I can become to another.
The  purpose, pride completeness I feel knowing my actions and devotion  can enhance some ones life.
 
 My service to them learning what they like. Learning that tilt of the head or a certain look in their eye what they want or expect and that I am the one to give it.

To please with the best of my abilities. To always learn to always grow.
 
My submission was a  journey between what I once was and who I have become
 where I feel  my dance of life really took place.
When I did learn to soar free

 Smile every day even if it only lasts but for a moment

"Our lives are not determined by what happens to us but by how we react to what happens, not by what life brings to us, but by the attitude we bring to life. A positive attitude can cause positive thoughts, events, and outcomes".
Anon

Yesterday was a sunny,clear, warm beautiful day here in New Mexico
(Have I mentioned how much I love it here)

Had a lovely lunch meeting with a
Gentleman Switch 
met on collarme.

He is very nice and quite comfortable to talk too
He rode in on his bike
dressed in black Leather and
Black Cowboy Boots***

:::swoon:::

 I don't go back to work until Monday at 4.
I'm going to have a mini vacation.

Roommate an I have Lunch Plans today to meet a Male Switch  from
 near El Paso.

*DEXTER*

If you have never seen it on showtime I highly recommend it. It's now on CBS sundays at 9
 
I guessed who the killer was. I've always been very good at that sort of thing.

 
Nascar season started last week.
Yes I love it I'm a new fan only been  2 yrs.
Daytona 500 * what I refer to as my Super bowl day. Spent it on the ranch with my daughter watching the race and chatting up a storm..
 She had some very surprising and wonderful news for me....then before we realize it's the Last 3 laps of the race and neither of us could stay in our seats.
It was exciting!
29 didn't win but  thank god neither did Gordon -mr whiney or Earnhart- mr excuses and so overly rated people should keep in mind the only thing he has is his dads name.
Anyway I still enjoyed my time.
Good for you Newman

I've been a member since 03 never concidered doing this journal thing but... what the hell why deny people from reading about my fabulous self. lol

I lived in Ma for 35 yrs. Never liked it there, so I relocated here to NM last aug and I Love it! .

Hub is still in Ma. We have a LDR that works very well.

He is also is very aware of my place in D/s and  100% supportive .
 

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