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Male Submissive, 46, Flomaton, Florida
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Male Dominant, 48, New Orleans, Louisiana
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About SurvivalSlave
However every journey worth its weight has some obstacles to face and overcome, and you learn something to make you a better person.
What I have discovered is, while I may be submissive I am a person and worth some respect to.
What this means is the person that I am looking for while at least keep me in the loop on how they are doing if something is happening in there life, and not shut me out. As I am not the type of guy that calls once and if I do not hear back say, "fuck it", and go about there daily life if nothing happens. I am caring person and part of a FLRLT, Female Lead Relationship for the Long Term, is building a bond between the two people, and a key is communication.
What I am seeking is the best of both worlds, a woman that can go out in the vanilla world, and keep a FLR up with out making it known we are into BDSM in private. Someone I can have more than a once a month "play date", I want to see someone weekly that we can build a real relationship from.
I want the best of both worlds in one person, someone that enjoys everything from going out to a movie and holding hands, to putting a strap-on and making me her "bitch".
As for me I am a pretty laid back guy, I have a good job and own part of the company, so anyone wanting me as a slave needs to be local, as I do not plan on relocating anytime soon. I enjoy woodworking, shooting, camping, cooking, and many other things, just ask to learn more.
As far as anything BDSM goes I am fairly new, even though I have been around the lifestyle for some time, I just have never found anyone to train me.
Anything else just ask, and I will be more than happy to tell you.
* I am a big guy, and if this is not your cup of tea then please move on, I am working to get this under control and any one in my life needs to be supportive of this, I want to be healthy.
* Tributes are something earned by a Domme, I do not tribute to talk to someone, or for session. If the Domme is worthy then I will mostly certainly give her a tribute.
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Well on my personal journey to a better and healthier me, I have dropped 13 lbs. in just a little over 3 weeks, that is about the average I need to maintain for the next year to reach my goal.
for those that have helped me to stay on goal thank you.
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Well I have decided to move on with my search for a Dominant Woman that is interested in a FLR, Female Lead Relationship, for the Long Term.
I thought I had meet the perfect person, but due to a lack of communication between us issues arose, and I was not happy how I was treated, and think that this is for the better, even though it hurt to have to admit this.
While I will miss this person, my life needs someone that can communicate to me about things going on in there lives, I do not like to see someone in pain and want to help them through those times, as I find those can be defining moments in a relationship building blocks.
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Well this time around things are looking better than they have in a long time.
I have talked with some great people that may have future prospects.
I know many Dominants get tons of emails from fakes, and I appreciate the ones that will at least email you back and tell you that you are not what they are seeking.
So I am going to cross my fingers and hope that good things finally come.
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Well I am giving this site another shot, I really am hoping to find a person that I can have a LTR in both the BDSM and vanilla worlds.
After my recent stint in the hospital, kidney stones are not something that are fun, I at least know I am healthy and everything is working in tip top shape.
I have decided that I really need to loose the weight and I am hoping for a Dominant that will be willing to help me with this.
I want to be everything she wants in a submissive, and if she likes me as i am I am happy being this way, but most people I have talked with have an issue with BHM. ?
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