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SurebutUnsure

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SurebutUnsure - Female Submissive,  Illinois | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About SurebutUnsure


PS - I knew I forgot something. I am not seeking anyone over 45 years old, sorry. We all have preferences. (I moved this from the end of my profile).





Hello everyone. I was here years ago and met a wonderful couple who I ended up living with. I served them both until a short time ago when He was transferred (or accepted a transfer) out of the country and they moved. They wanted me to go with them, but I did not want to leave the USA. It was a very hard decision, but they accepted it and they have moved and I am now on my own once again….not liking it at all. I am at my best when I feel I belong, feel owned, and feel what they did to me.


I am a big girl. No Barbie here, but I am healthy, walk often, work out once in a while and am still in pretty decent shape. I hold my own. I am educated, have a sense of humor, am easy-going, open-minded, can be sarcastic at times, and there is more, much more to me.


My big thing is pain. I am a masochist, or if not a masochist – I have very strong masochistic tendencies and traits. Pain excites me – like nothing else. I crave it, need it, want it, cherish it. It is who I am, and I make no excuses. But there is more to me than just being a pain lover – but you will have to find that out.


What am I looking for? Honestly, I am not sure. I know that makes it difficult for me and difficult for you thinking of contacting me – but at this point I am not really sure if I want to serve another couple, or just a man, or just a woman, or even a dominant transgendered female. It is like I am starting over, but this time much more experienced, more “worldly” and even more used.


I know what this site is like, and if I am right, I will be inundated with messages quickly. I don’t know how I will handle those, so to say I will return every message is not truthful right now – I just do not know what will happen. I do know that I will not rush into anything – I didn’t last time and it enabled me to experience a slice of heaven. Truly.


So I will keep an open mind and ask you to do the same. I value my privacy, so you will get my full picture only when I feel we have some connection and we might possibly be headed in the right direction. I hope I do not sound like a bitch because I really am not. I just know who I am.


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