STONES

UPDATE: 9/8/13 How the hell did I end up in Pittsburgh?...)
Looks like I'll be here for a while before moving on to New Mexico.

UPDATE: 8/21/13 Change has come again...

Will be back in Miami indefinitely come Mid Sept.

Time for the next chapter........

UPDATE: 6/22/11 Time to make some new friends.....

UPDATE: 7/11/10 I'm going to be checking out for a while.... Don't know for how long. To those of you I counsel, my sincerest apologies.

UPDATE: 6/24/10 Well kids...... Today is the big day. I'm packed, Loaded, Gassed Up, and rolling my ass to Tampa. Lets hope there is a slightly better quality of people there....)

UPDATE: 12/23/09 The time has come for a change. I am now open to making friends here in Miami. I am not closed off to the possibility of taking on a submissive, but the submissive would have to be an exceptional fit. Till then, friends and conversations are welcomed.


UPDATE: 10/3/09 For personal reasons, I have decided to step back & no longer take on any submissives until The time comes that I see fit to make a change. For those of you I provide guidance to, this will not affect you. I will be as available for counsel as before. For all others, I welcome your friendship, questions, and comments as before.


Respectfully,
Stones.



"A BDSM relationship is a symbiotic one.
It is one that requires, not just trust, but the earning of trust. It is NOT one where the submissive is the "doormat" of an insecure Dom.
It is one where two opposites come together as one. A yin & a yang.
Submission and Domination must be earned by both sides if there is to be a harmony and a healthy relationship.
A SUB has very clear and specific responsibilities.
A DOM has even more specified responsibilities, as well as a required burden of Ethics. No less can be expected or tolerated.

There is no middle ground when it comes to Ethics. Ethics, as well as the process of earning ones trust, are non-negotiable in this relationship. Without either, there is no relationship. These are the basics. These are the fundamentals.
This is why Mentoring is required. Mentoring is a position that must only be taken on, by no one less than one who benefits from the education others. Someone who's Ethics are unwavering. Someone who's desire for right and wrong is more important than their desire for personal gain."