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	About Stbleu2 feel free to ask anything and you will get a complete answer. .. well I am just me - complicated, complex, demanding and available... and possibly the right fit for you. Isnt it worth a few conversations and such to see??

Thought I'd add some thoughts that broach the breadth of what this life can cover. It's a complicated process getting someone's attention and then digging deeper to see the connection and if it fits.

Honesty is the best policy - especially in this lifestyle. That said what seems to be useful is getting to know the Dom/Master who expresses interest in you. Any good relationship takes time. And lifestyle D/s M/s is definitely a relationship when it is a 24/7 real life permanent thing.

Personally, once we are past getting your attention there's a lot of "normal" stuff that gets discussed (or should be). The first email or conversation may touch on the idea of owning, collaring or relocating or even a "poly" home and lifestyle. But one hopes there is an exchange of names and a mature, real conversation early on. If you're going to be with someone.. talk about food, background, cooking, gardening, art, music, books, etc. - after all it is life and living together.

I am looking for a kind and caring girl who is also obedient, caring, sweet, lovable, funny, perverted, sexually giving and fun to be with.

if you're looking for an honest Master to can share your life with and ready for long term relationship - here I am - I am artistic and creative - want to have adventures, with you including dancing, dressing you up - sexy, classy and /or vintage attire, curling up with a good book or a good movie with you, cooking with friends, listening to and creating good music - jazz to blues - to rock - to old school .. I have broad tastes - traveling, wine and tequila tastings, playing in the park, the opera, theater, going on nature walks. I am a down to earth person that has human feelings and believes the world should be a good place..

That said, I do have my BDSM side.

I just read this on a profile here ...

" if you know you can't own me don't text me,
am not here to play games"

Well..- starting off the supposed sub is directing the dom - and not like there's even been a hint of interaction. You know - It's not a matter of "Can't" = "it's really a matter of Do I Want to?"

Second,

Play games? hell get a grip. Likely this is coming from one the biggest game players around. It surely makes me think this is a money grubbing faker. But that's just my opinion.

Yours may be a helluvalot worse than that.

The phrase of one door closing another opening - maybe true but they never talk about the vacuum before the door opens again. Maybe the vacuum explains why it sucks. Wasting time - I guess there's always the potential for that. Sometimes it's the first conversation with long pauses and lack of attention. Sometimes it might be years of constant interaction and then a sudden change of heart. And you wonder why I spend so long finding a right fit?

A pet peeve.. the idea of calling me honey or dear - it almost makes me shudder when I get a message with that. Obviously someone on the sending side is not getting it. Recommendation to use Sir for a Dom - it is just good form. Yes - I know some want to say that's not what they want. Bless you - you'll find your path.

The first step that needs to be resolved to be owned is to verify you are who you say. The slave is the one seeking service and should present herself first, In a world where everyone has a cell phone - even if you claim to have none or a broken phone - you should be able to borrow one for a couple of pictures. There should be no excuse for not being able to provide a proof of who you are. Ideally, we use Skype or something similar.

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