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If you feel you need to see what I look like, just ask.
I am dominant and in control in almost every aspect of my personal and professional life. Being dominant comes easy. While being "expected" to be dominant can be stressful, when I am in a natural setting, it comes effortlessly.
Briefly about me....
I'm very dominant and in charge professionally. I am also dominant within my relationship even though it is a vanilla relationship. My spouse defers decisions to me and I make them without hesitation. I am completely within my comfort zone only when I am in a dominant position.
And for me, bdsm stands just for that.... pain is one of many factors to be included. Not the simple whip my back side or me whip yours.... erotic pain.... pain necessary to assert the dominant role, pain that is designed to heighten and enhance the sexual experience, et cetera. I do not place high value in pain simply for the sake of pain unless that is what all participants desire.
But, it becomes important for me to point out that I don't view bdsm as a solely sexual relationship; it is the totality of the relationship. Physical and mental voluntary changes in position....
I'd love to chat and exchange emails and learn a bit about you. Relationships are best built on a combination of mutual friendship and trust.
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