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Let's see, I'm 28; I have a bunch of both kinky and not-kinky friends, a sense of humour and irreverence, and a filthy mind (as far as deviancy is concerned, at any rate - promotions to leading people at work tend to focus the mind a little into the real world). Experience dictates that there's more to life than getting caned, however, especially on the nipples. What am I looking for? Interesting people. Chemistry. That, in a nutshell, is what it boils down to. There's really not a specific set of criteria to tick off. I want to meet people that can hold a conversation with me and are also fair to decent at holding a silence (without props...). People that have a fetish for attention to detail as much as anal-intrusion. People that are real, and unbroken. What am I? Top or bottom, slave or sub? Figure it out yourself. Accept that I might change subsequently! Depends on the dynamic. Versatile. Everyone's equal 'til other arrangments are made, though; I'm _not_ into kink and nothing but, and not at the drop of a hat or flick of a crop either, there needs to be some level of connection. Reliable and dependable without being uninspiring; loyal and with quite an old-fashioned sense of fair-play. God, how fucking vague and wishy-washy! I hate writing this. I have my own opinions and love a good-natured argument. I'm frequently offended by how many stupid people there exist in the world; it's not that I think I'm perfect, I just don't understand how some people manage to remember breathe, let alone hold down jobs and raise kids. "The problem with people is stupidity. I'm not saying there should be a capital punishment for stupidity, but why don't we just take the safety labels off of everything and let the problem solve itself?" resonates with me. I'm worth the effort of getting to know. Try it.