Collarspace.com

Friends:
pusymouth
I am into almost all types of play. Also looking for someone that enjoys the mental as well as the physical of the lifestyle and realize that it is as important if not more important than the physical play.
I am married though we have always had a open relationship.
As a side note I am Dyslexic so if your deal is spelling and grammar move on please. I am a white male living in the Bethesda MD. area. I have been in the lifestyle for as long as I can remember. Actually the first real book I remember reading is the story of O. I have many varied interest inside the lifestyle as well as outside of it. I am a big believer in the gift of submission I have yet to experience a more awesome feeling then the one you get when someone acknowledges that they are giving themselves to you. I am not looking for someone that plays games and is not comfortable with own sexuality. Its a continues learning process with lots of perks I have always thought. Love to read mostly litrpg or science fiction or fantasy. I read to relax enough experience with modern violence after spending so long in the military. Love the blues as well. Jazz and various rock and alternative music. Grew up in a family mixed with professional musicians and famous ones mixed with doctors and Phd's. Weird mix i know. Spent my childhood in New Orleans most in the French Quarter. Now all into kink but need the emotional connection actually. I know 99% just hit the back button. Also not a sadistic person. Don't get me wrong I enjoy or LOVE spankings straps crops etc. Just not into real pain. Love humiliation play the primary word there is PLAY. I don't want to spend time with someone who i don't respect. So looking for that .01% person. Sometimes who is kinky with a twisted nasty streak who wants there heart held and cuddled at the end knowing that is there safe zone. Oh not looking for a perfect woman or some gorgeous centerfold. I meet a women I sated for a year before work and a old live reappeared. The thing I remember about her was her profile said 5 foot 2 240 pounds. I sat for 15 minutes when this lady sat with me and said " Hi Sir that is the only lie I will ever tell you and I have a cane in my car for not telling you I was skinny." My point is I found her interesting sensual before I meet her because a brain is a scary sexy thing. If you are wondering i did cane her that night giving her the option of going out with just friends or as a submissive with a bare as caning with the intent of her not sitting down for a week. She kissed me and said please punish me Sir. Just if you were wondering.
piggymom
 
 Age: 26
  Missouri