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Male Submissive, 30, Southampton
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Switch Couple, 22, Southampton
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Male Switch, 24, Southampton
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About sotonslave
I have felt submissive since an early age but have recently decided that I need to be more proactive in finding a release for my submissive desires.
WHY?
Firstly, I have realised that vanilla encounters and relationships do nothing more. I am young, confident and attractive, I know how to act and what to say around women in order to direct the encounter back to my bed. But this is an exercise I'm bored of, these conquests do not satisfy me in any way. I realised that I was only chasing these conquests in order to fuel my own ego.
I guess you could say the life I'm living is not who I am, it's as if I'm living inside the Matrix, pretending to be someone I'm not.
I feel like my life and the lifestyle I lead is all a charade, a mask to hide my real desires and feelings.
I know in my heart that I am a submissive, vanilla relationships are not what I'm looking for and always leave me wanting more.
I have recently begun to participate in Domination filming. I have filmed with http://www.mistresst.net/ at http://www.theenglishmansion.com/ , as well as http://evolinpierce.com |
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Beginning to feel like my time is being wasted on this site.
Too many times am I exchanging messages, interactions which seem to go well and lead to swapping MSN details only to never hear from them again, either via message or MSN.
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Had the following interaction last night with a Mistress who shall remain nameless. It did make me chuckle.
Her
"Wow. you do rather fancy yourself, don't you? Got a clearer face pic I can peruse?"
Me
"Always happy to oblige MistressHERNAME...
As for my profile and the impression it gives of me, I guess I am rather narcissistic in some ways..
Kind Regards,
andrew"
Her
"Ok, so you're not unattractive. Ever in London?"
Me
"Yep, it's only an hour by train. Should be up on the 27th August for a work night out, looking forward to it!
andrew"
Her
"Right then, Enjoy the 'Big Smoke'.
Thanks for the picture. I think you may be a little too cocky for my liking.
I have no idea how anyone can jump to such conclusions based on two messages and my profile.
I mean, one would almost think that I didn't choose to explain very carefully and deliberately in my profile that my vanilla persona feels very inauthentic and my submissive side is the "real" me, hence why I am on this site. I am sure that 99.9% of people live very different vanilla lives to how they live or would choose to live behind closed doors - I am no different!
I can only assume that this particular Mistress wants submissives with no personality...
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I have recently become extremely interested in being kept in Chastity.? This is definitely a new fetish for me.
I am not sure why fetishes suddenly start to develop but it is increasingly something that I wish to explore.
I have no trouble finding women for vanilla sex and one night stands, in fact at the end of 2009 I was running "boot camps" for men that wanted to learn how to seduce women (google seduction community if this concept is new to you)
But I have since become disillusioned with that community for many reasons, the biggest of which was that I found one night stands incredibly unfulfilling, the majority of times I do not even achieve orgasm through penetrative sex.? So the only reason I was bedding women so frequently was to fuel my ego.
Perhaps this is why I am so interested in being kept in chastity now.? To me the idea of going from someone skilled at seducing women to being kept in chastity is such a fabolous juxtaposition.
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oh dear, I put a picture up finally and I start getting messages from Dominant Men even though I'm clearly listed as straight.
Save yourselves the time and do not bother please.
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