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Young sub looking for guidance, in the big bad world

Just starting out in the lifestyle after looking at it through the shop window since i was in my early teens. Its still an unknown to me, but i can't wait to explore it more.

A little about me;
I'm 23 (obviously), I've grown up around the UK, and untill this year I was at college. Taking a year (maybe more) off to earn some money, and see a very nice black bank balance statement for once, as opposed to red.
Also, while I've put what I'm searching for down below, I'm also looking for people who have been in my shoes, or have an idea. People who can maybe help me, in terms of make up, putting fashion tips together etc...

My interest's are very vast. I've been interested in most things in the BDSM scene for a while now. For instance, Pet play and Cages, both touch buttons.
I guess the only way to compare my interests is like a kid being in a sweet/candy shop for the first time. I just want to try as much as I can!

Being young, I'm fairly inexperienced, but dying to learn, so I'm looking not just for Dom/me's, but for some friends aswell, that can help me in the lifestyle, and tell me what to expect. Also, please bear in mind, while being young is a bonus, it also is a curse, in the sense that I'm still getting to grips with somethings in my labelled 'gender'. So any help in those terms would be gratefully appreciated. I guess my perfect contact, would be to meet a Couple and serve them both, but I'm also open to Males, Females, and in between. Along with short meets, to something more. However I'm not sure if I'm looking to be "owned" straight away. This could change, but I'd like to, test the water first. I do believe however, that BDSM isn't about sex. Sex can play a part in it, but its not my main goal, or my second... or probably my fourth to be honest.

Also, I can't believe the amount of fake people this site produces. Yes I'm submissive, but if you think that I'm going to call you Master or Mistress from the get go, then I'm obviously the wrong person for you. I'm friendly and passive, but not a doormat who will do what you say just because you can shout.

Anyway, I've rambled on for long enough. If you got this far, thank you very much for reading my profile, and please feel free to email me. I won't bite, its not in my nature, and any contact will help put the myth that sites like these are just full of time wasters to bed.
10/17/2013 8:24:59 AM

 

So after seeing more than one of my pictures on various profiles (i guess i should take it as a compliment) over the last year or so, i've decided to remove most of them from this profile.

 

 

I do host them on other places, more secure (all relative i know) and frankly in my opinion, better sites such as . So if you'd like to see how much purddier i am, go over to =p.

4/30/2013 2:38:42 PM

Life seems to have had some serious ups and downs recently.

I've been super heavily involved in my local scene and if anyone has any doubts about theirs, honestly go. It was the best thing i've ever done in my life. Nearly all my friends are now at least know about kink and i've never been happier.

 

That said, in the middle of a sub drop and other things. Had my rear cropped first the first time on Sunday (ouchies!) and still have the marks to show it.

 

Been seriously considering a few things in my life, one of which im not going to share on CM but i'm also seriously tempted to start a clips4sale store, seems a friend is keen too so i might drag them into it =p.

1/29/2013 4:30:49 PM

 

Dear CM people's and other's that fly by,

 

This is my only profile on here, all the stuff i put up here is of me and only me =).

 

If i find anyone using my pictures, firstly i will remove them all from this profile and secondly i will give you a 24 hour warning before contacting whoever needs contacting (be it site admins or police).

I put up pictures for my enjoyment and to show myself off to the world, i do NOT like people passing themselves off as me. I'm good at doing that myself thank you.

 

 

End of the day, i can and i'm willing to prove who i really am. Are you?

12/13/2012 8:29:24 AM

I haven't entered a journal in ages so..

 

Firstly, new picture of my brand 'spanking' new flogger up (purple suede :D).

 

Okay so, in the last month i've decided life is far too short and as a result been trying to get involved in the local scene. I've done a play party, been to several munches (including three in three days).. And frankly been having the time of my life!

 

If you've never been to a munch, GO, get yourself out there!

8/28/2012 2:03:22 PM

 

Friend seems to be earning alot of money on cam sites (a staggering amount)... I wonder if theres a market for someone like me ^.^.

3/22/2012 10:10:42 AM

 

I don't think anyone can beat the freshly shaved feeling.. The moment when you step out of the shower and pull on something soft over those nice smooth legs...*shudders*

12/26/2011 1:50:12 PM

 

Jeeze i constantly seem to be saying sorry in my journal... Hope everyone has had a nice Christmas.. Things for me have finally calmed down, so i might actually be able to reply to people now! :o

7/17/2011 7:46:56 PM

So... I might sound really moody in this entry so i'm sorry for this (i'm nice honest),

Chat doesn't work, please don't try as it will only annoy me and probably get you on my bad side.

Please, no one liners (or single words)... You've a tongue in that head of yours, use it!

 

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If i come across as a bit of an arse by this message then i don't really care, i'm fed up with people on CM lately. So a bit of maturity, talk to me, hell even ask me about the weather, i am British after all! Its what we do!

4/28/2011 1:22:54 AM

Its worrying just how long i've been on CM now and still feel totally new to bdsm :/.

 

 

Also, is it just me are all the 'pro' dommes having children and multiplying?

I mean, i believe three is a place for Pro Dommes and the thought of earning money for what you truely love, all the power to them.. but this is getting stupid and if people can't see that 90% of the people on the site are just after a quick buck, then they need a good slap (okay, some might enjoy that -_-).

2/6/2011 12:21:49 PM

Anyone got a spare cage? Feeling a little submissive and could do with a few hours in one ^.^

12/4/2010 6:07:33 AM

Anyone else noticed how recently profiles keep stating that their "friends" told them about this website?... Might be true for a few but seriously?

Am i the only person who found this website because i knew what i was looking for? As apposed to a 'friend' telling me how 'cool' it is?


/rantaboutastupidthingover
5/12/2010 1:59:51 PM

So, was just thinking, does anyone actually take anybody from Africa (i.e Ghana) seriously anymore? I mean, when you see someone saying "I was born to be a Mistress" or "My life has always been a slaves"... Does anyone actually consider they are telling the truth? After what has happened in recent years on the internet?


I know thats a massive misrepresentation, but.. yeah..
3/4/2010 8:08:04 AM
So, after speaking to someone for the last few days, it made me relise, just how little people actually write on this site. Made a nice change to read very well thought out 'walls' of text.

Thanks, if you ever read this :).
2/10/2010 12:50:09 AM
Another birthday... Think its time i started writing a list of things to do. Top is to actually meet someone this year :p.
1/26/2010 4:18:41 PM
What on earth is with tribute Domme's? Seriously.. No, let me rephrase that, what on earth is with fake tribute Domme's?

Is it just me, or are they starting to look a bit like cockroaches? Nothing against pro Domme, if thats what a person whats, then all the power to them (not my thing tho, but nothing against it)... What i am against, is these 'online only!!!!' 23 year old women, who have suddenly sprouted a profile, telling 'whores' to go to websites and send them money.


What ever happened to BDSM being enough for both people?
1/11/2010 3:11:04 PM
pc is out of action again. No CM for a while i guess.
9/28/2009 8:26:18 PM
go go surfing cm on a phone!!
9/13/2009 5:58:51 AM
Sorry to anyone who's messaged me in the last... Month? [Probably more like two]
Had some RL issues, and troubles.

But everything is better now. Sorry again, and will try to get through the backlog in the coming weeks.
6/10/2009 2:28:37 PM
Whats with the copy and paste mails from 'male submissives' begging me to Domme them.. Uhm, check the profile please?

Also, stop asking me to marry if you are from Africa >.<. Amazingly some people on the internet don't lose all their sense when they log on!
5/31/2009 11:39:24 AM
While i consider myself a Tv/other label. I'm the first to admit, not quite there yet. Also, while i'm willing to meet (infact more than willing). I'm not stupid, and wont meet after a single chat... I also, the first time won't be dressed, sorry!

(CM Chat still doesn't work for me, and im still bored with the 'tribute' people on here. Also while im at it, if people could read my profile before mailing +2 cookies)
5/30/2009 4:02:08 PM
woohoo, finally got some transport again! Ahh.. Good times.
5/27/2009 7:06:23 PM
So... Had a few setbacks recently.. But slowly getting over them.

Semi rant time - Whats with all these 'Tribute' Dom/mes springing up all of a sudden? Other people have noticed it aswell so its not just me. Kudo's to real pro's who are getting paid to do what they love. But most of these just smell as paypal scams, or "Free things!" to me... Honestly..

Also, if i click the admire box and its late at night, i'm sorry if i dont send a message ^.^ but do mean to.
4/25/2009 12:41:27 AM
Will be away this weekend, so sorry in advance if i don't reply to your emails.
(This weekend being the 25th/26th of April 2008)
3/22/2009 2:48:05 AM
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~*~*~*Chat Requests~*~*~*
~*~*~*Don't Work for me!~*~
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3/11/2009 9:07:36 PM
Is it just me, or are there alot of "people" on this site who either A) use the same picture as others or B) exactly the same profile text.

Either someones really desperate, or i smell some fakes :o.
2/6/2009 11:47:17 AM
Last day of being 20 today... Does this mean i have to pretend to grow up?

Least i can drink and gamble next time i go to the states i suppose.
1/10/2009 1:15:08 AM
Sorry to everyone who's sent me a message through CM in the last few weeks, they've been building up.

If I haven't already I'll try to reply as soon as I can.
1/8/2009 12:07:37 AM
21st Birthday is fast approaching... I feel old :(.
11/22/2008 4:12:56 AM
Why are all the good people, either too far away, taken, or not looking for anyone... Perhaps that says something about this site :/...
11/13/2008 4:51:23 AM
Please don't send me a mail going "add me to yahoo/msn", if thats all your going to say. I love getting mail, but not that kind since its boring, and dull, and lets be honest why would i want to add you if thats all you've got to say for yourself.


Oh also, don't call me "dude".

Thanks :p
11/10/2008 12:54:15 AM
Jet lags a bitch.

For anyone who does bother reading these things (mine most importantly, since i do read others, honest!). I spent most of Friday and Saturday on a plane or in a car. I'm still suffering for it, and its Monday morning. urgh.
11/7/2008 2:02:44 AM
*** Won't be around untill Sunday (possibly Saturday night at the earliest), but will reply to people who have mailed me straighty away!***
10/24/2008 8:17:20 AM
**On Holiday from Saturday 25th of October till around the 8th of November**
10/5/2008 1:23:45 PM
woohoo. Finally got my pc back a few days ago, but its still a mess.


9/17/2008 8:26:53 AM
*~*~*Please read this!*~*~*
I don't have any 'kinky' pictures on this laptop. Infact i dont even have many vanilla pictures on here. So please stop asking for them in mail. In future if you do, i'll know you haven't read this, and while im not evil, i'll probably just ignore the mail (yeah, subbie fighting back :p).

Please read. It really bugs me. This only took what, four seconds to scan?
9/14/2008 1:18:05 AM
*Still having pc problems*
Please, NO CHAT REQUESTS without speaking to me first. This has just started to happen recently, and its really ANNOYING. I'm not a bad person, send a mail and get to know me. Thank you!
9/12/2008 1:07:20 AM
PC is on the blink so i won't be on collarme as much as i'd like to. Having said that, i was never on here much to start with, but i intend to change that once i get my pc back from the store.

Also, once i get back fully online, i'll rewrite my profile, since i suppose i've changed a bit, and the collarme profile i always felt was the weakest of the profiles i have online (such as in alt or flickr).

Anywho thats all, so thanks for reading i guess ^^.
MatriasLupa
 
 Age: 18
 United Kingdom