sissySarah

Why oh why are there so many fakes, wannabes, and people that just are not what they purport to be ...

I am damn sure that this entry will either mean i get flamed, informed its not the proper attitude and all the other crap that flies around when someone speaks up, but ...

Well all know there are fake dommes, wannabe subbies that are the undesirable elements - and they abound. I'm also equally sure there are real genuine Dom/me's and subbies here, but ...

deep breath, prepares for the flames ...

I understand that some Dommes are providing a "service" on here, i don't care how you describe it, at the crux that is what you do, and if you say you are a pro-domme - good!! you are being honest, but all those that aren't a pro-domme but expect tributes as my time is valuable .. of course your time is valuables, everyone's time is, and by asking for tribute you are basically saying i provide a service and you need to pay for it - thats fine but don't pretend its anything else, its not about respect or anything its a trade of money or similar for services, nothing more, nothing less!!

Why the rant, i just spoke to a very nice lady/Mistress, what are my needs, yes i have needs, just as a domme has, and the sort of get to know you conversation, and then bang - well i do expect an introduction "fee" - so you expect me to pay - oh no, i have been messed about and am fed up - sure that happens but how can any true D/s relationship function on a commerical transaction - all genuine people have been messed about and are fed-up with it - i could and offered to provide recommendations from other domme's and subbies i know - but no, give me the money!!!!!!

Now feel free to flame me and tell me i'm not a real sub, but i have my self respect, and if i chose to pay for a service i will, but don't pretend its anything other than exactly that!!