A Wife's Duty Is To Please Her Husband.

(After returning from work, school, travel, or whatever has separated you, begin with a good greeting)

Always greet him at the door with a cheerful face and a soft, loving voice.

Clean yourself, put on makeup, powder and perfume.

Good news first, grievances (administered gently) after a nice delicious dinner.

Always dress to please your husband, and only your husband. No one else.

Reserve a special soft voice that is used only when communicating with your husband.

Always be thinner than necessary to promote fragility.

Dress for your husband. Use the perfume your husband likes.

Don't dress for other women's approval.

If you have to clean, cook, or do work that requires physical exertion, wear appropriate clothes, but bathe and change into feminine delicate clothing before your husband returns.

Exchange loving and affectionate words with your husband: always make sure he knows you appreciate his hard work and hsi role as head of the household.

Put your husband's hopes and interests before yours.

Don't ask your husband for many unnecessary things. Consider his needs before yours.

Always try to please his guests and his family members.

Do not continue friendships with people he does not want you to be friends with.

Never allow strangers or other men to be alone with you when he is not around.

Always display hospitality to his guests, making them feel comfortable and well attended to.

Be patient in difficult times.

If your husband wants something done, or wants you to do something, do it with a smile. Only say no if you feel it will bring irreparable damage to your body, psyche, and morale.

If your husband is angry, keep silent. Don't question him or try to find out why he is angry.

Always be the first to apologize.

Apologize for your husband's distraught at other people's misdeeds and mistakes

Do not leave the house without his permission. If you have to leave, call him and let him know where you will be.

Don't be on the defensive when he is in a ill temper or treat you poorly. Always answer with obedience and a submissive desire to put him in a good mood again.

"When the student is ready, the Master will appear." ~ Buddhist proverb

I dont waste time chatting with fools, you get one chance.

Apparently sending everyone a Christmas wish has activated the spam filter. So I will just say; May Santa bring you your hearts desire, may the new year bring you happiness. 

When ever people ask me what I do, I say Farmer. But this is not where my income comes from. I have worked for the NSW State Government for eight years. Prior to that I was a contract Sprayer and a Contract Fencer. I have grown Tomatoes, Lavender, Chinese Water Chestnuts, Flowers, Trees and Nuts.

Nearly eight years ago, just a few months into my job, a traumatic event occurred. This resulted in Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Clinical Depression and Adjustment Disorder. I still have all of these. I also have Diabetes, Dyslexia, Klienfelts Syndrome, Epilepsy, and Sleep Apnoea.

Eighteen months ago, allegations were made against me, regarding my work. As a consequence I have been on Suspension since the first of August 2010; on full pay.

When I was a young man I lived as a monk in a cave and begged for my food. Latter I lived as a Hippy on a commune. Free Love. These experiences have left me with the profound feeling that my tin shed is luxury. However there is nothing to stop me finding a house in town if needed.

Every now and then I meet a slave online that wants to relocate to serve and asks for money to relocate. The pattern is the same, the same questions are asked and the result is always the same. All tell me they are genuine and all are not fakes or scams. All offer to find some of the money. All are poor and need my money.

Yes I can quickly save the money to relocate you. But no I will not send it to you. Yes I know you are not a scammer and not a fake; but they all really say that. 

You say that if I am serious and ready to own you that I should pay upfront. I say if you are serious and ready to be owned then you will bend over backwards to get here.

I would be delighted to collar, own, and keep you. But my life does not revolve around you. If you can’t get here, then you can’t get here. There are other slaves here; and none will cost me $2000 upfront.

You should be aware that while it will cost you $2000 to get here. I must pay a non refundable bond to immigration of $2000 for your permanent visa. I must pay for a full medical and I must show that I have the resources to sponsor you two years; and we will both be interviewed more than once by immigration. Think carefully before you demand money to relocate, the ticket is only a small step and not unreasonable to show you are serious.

Mike

slavery is not about suffering , slavery is about service.

slavery is not about humiliation , slavery is about humility.

slavery is not about pain , slavery is about being present.

slavery is not about being used , slavery is about being of use.

slavery is not about control , slavery is about letting go.

slavery is not about what is done to you , slavery is about what you do for others.

slavery is not about abuse , slavery is about acceptance.

slavery is not about proving anything , slavery is about being real.

slavery is not about contempt , slavery is about respect.

slavery is not about how you look , slavery is about how much you care.

slavery is not about denying yourself , slavery is about being open.

slavery is not about bondage , slavery is about freeing your spirit.

slavery is not about punishment , slavery is about discipline.

slavery is not about being unable to escape , slavery is about being committed.

slavery is not about submission , slavery is about obedience.

slavery is not about fear , slavery is about trust.

slavery is not about sex , slavery is about love.

slavery is not about pleasure , slavery is about happiness

There seems to be a preoccupation with penetration of a woman’s cunt and arse. Sure such penetration can be a spiritual experience. For me few things beat a woman’s breasts. A glimpse through an open blouse or simply topless; nothing is quiet so seductive. A breast can be cupped, spanked, grabbed; nipple clamped and suckled. But by far the most perfect image within my minds eye is a chain, hanging between naked breasts, clipped to a black leather collar, locked around your neck. That is beauty.

I used to be married. She was vanillia. She wound not suck cock, would not take it in her arse, and wouldn't give me milk. But we did fuck everyday, We have been divorced now for four years. I think it was because I wanted milk and wanted sex more than 3 times a day.

Is it insane to want warm fresh milk, to want to cum in a womans mouth or in her arse. And why is it unnatural just to want to beat her, and use her and treat her like fuck meat. I need to fuck my whore at least three times a day, I need to shove my cock down a sluts throat, I need to cum in her arse and cunt. Oh and I need, I need, I need to grab and suck the warm fresh milk from a full boob.

So is there something wrong with me?

A few thoughts on a slavery phobia.

The fear of slavery refers to the lack of confidence in maintaining a long term Dom/sub relationship. The lack of confidence converts into avoidance and finally into phobia. The irony of a slavery phobia is that the submissive women crave what they fear most. The more they wish to meet and serve a Master, the more confused, shy and fearful they become of successfully executing their slavery plans. They get trapped in a web of confusion and indecision, which in turn, generates a self-destructive pattern of seduction and rejection. The whole experience is emotionally exhausting and devastative. A majority of victims of this malady consists of women who wish to maintain a façade of submissiveness, charm and service in presence of their Dom friends, but imagine themselves inadequate enough to rise to the occasion when the moment comes.

The fear of slavery commitment is rooted in the consciousness of lost options or poor decisions. The slavery phobic takes even their normal and casual remarks and commitments very seriously and are always apprehensive of their consequences. This is the reason why they find it very difficult to arrive at a decision fearing it may prove wrong or that they may not be able to stick to it or implement it. Slavery phobia generates two conflicting feelings. The sub, on the one hand, avoid their obligations, duties, responsibilities, relationships and connections with Dominants; and on the other hand they may also crave for their intimate company, want to rise to the occasion in a particular situation, or take advantage of the decision to be a slave.

When sub’s are driven to the extreme in this conflict between two emotions; it is the slavery phobic’s fears that win out. Slavery phobic’s want freedom from responsibilities above everything else. They keep fantasizing over the reality. Slavery phobic’s want to achieve results without performing their obligations.

Though not considered a debilitating fear, slavery phobia extends over almost all areas of life. Sometimes the slavery phobia becomes so overpowering and pervasive that it affects the simple everyday decision-making process of the submissive. It interferes with their ability to manage and maintain the regular flow of life.

Another cause of the slavery phobia may be a deep seated inferiority complex. The affected sub resort to escapist fantasies and building castles in the air. They become prone to self-destructive behaviour. Both these tendencies are called active and passive slavery phobias. They suffer from the pushes and pulls of both the tendencies. They continue postponing their decisions on one excuse or another. When forced to make a choice they almost freeze in panic.

A few random thoughts at bedtime.

Slavery is the renunciation of the self. A slave’s exclusive concern is for the welfare of their Master. This altruistic nature is a traditional virtue in many cultures. Slavery is the opposite of selfishness and can be distinguished from feelings of loyalty and duty. A slave’s motivation is to provide a value to her Master, while duty focuses on a moral obligation towards her Master. A pure slave gives up a value (a reward or benefit) with no expectation of any compensation or benefits, either direct, or indirect (for instance from recognition of the giving). Slavery then may also refer to an ethical nature that claims that slaves are morally obliged to benefit their Master.

The benefit to a slave of slavery is self-awareness. Such personal identity depends on consciousness, not on substance of the body, or the travels of a sea faring soul. If consciousness is thought, then personal identity is only founded on the repeated act of consciousness. And consciousness depends on the free perception of the world, without seeking recognition from it; on the altruism of slavery.

Sweet dreams.

Seek not to know all the answers, but to understand the questions. First among these questions, is an understanding of self. A Master provides a slave with instruction of self, in order to enable her to resolve the conflict between her heart and her mind. It is Reason and Passion that are the rudder and sails of your seafaring soul. And your Master the captain of your body and mind.

Enlightenment does not absolve you from life. There is a Buddhist proverb that states. Before enlightenment, fetching water, chopping wood. After enlightenment, fetching water, chopping wood. However, enlightenment provides you with the framework to know peace and be truly happy.

Slavery provides you the freedom to be happy. Many people believe themselves happy in the absence of sorrow. But happiness is not the absence of sorrow. Happiness is a wellbeing of self that very few truly know.

A few thoughts on nipples.

I love licking, chewing, sucking and biting the nipples of sub/slaves. Massage, pulling, twisting, clamping, slapping, whipping, poking, punching, piercing nipples and of course, any combination of these done with an infinite variety of intensities is pure pleasure for me.

How do you make five pounds of fat look atractive?; put a nipple on it.

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ASK SIR

I recently received this message, “hi there was wondering if you have any subliminal slave mp3s or trigger phrase mp3s for my sub, I have a couple but really after the subliminal slave program.”

My reply; “Hi I don’t use subliminal Mp3's. I use trigger words with hypnosis. Also I don’t believe that subliminal messages work. The idea was first used in advertising in the 60's and 70's, but there was no significant difference observed. It seems to be based on the notion that certain words and phrases can be registered sub consciously without the conscious mind being aware of it. However, the whole notion of a sub conscious is not accepted in modern theory. It seems to me that the whole idea is an effort to get money out of you.”

I hate, I hate, I hate being blocked without a reason known to me, show some respect and some courage and tell me why you are blocking me.

A slave finds pleasure in serving her Master's needs and wants. A submissive finds pleasure in being Dominated. An Owner takes responsibility for all his sub/slaves physical and emotional needs. A Master need not be an Owner. A Dom needs experience to be a Master.

I met an old friend today; of all places, at the Bathurst city tip. She told me that she is getting a divorce. She had been sad, but met a man ten years her seniour named Michael.

I explained that older men know what they want, and appreciate beautiful young women. Of course “Michael” is a good name too.

I told her about my own marriage and how my divorce had left me feeling sad. I still miss my ex-wife.

I also fell deeply in love with a young sub from Dubbo. We were together a short time, a year or two. I love her still, and she hates me with a vengeance.

Everyone wants an experienced Master and they seek this experience in a 20 year old Dom. The brain doesn’t stop developing till you are 25 years old. This is of course why so many young people are killed in accidents, a lack of emotional development and a lack of reason. I am 50 years old. I have been married and divorced. I have lived with reason and the simple beauty of life. I have experience as a Master of many subs and slaves. I am employed and financially secure.

When a sub or a slave tells me that I am too old, I know that their eyes are closed and that they can’t see my experience, they can’t see my mind and they can’t see me. They see a number and have no experience of what numbers are. They label and stereotype with an ignorant bias. 

If you’re a young sub or slave and I offer you training, to enable you to know yourself. Remember that I have no bias about your age. It’s not your fault; there is so much you need to know. I offer you a chance to discover who you are, to expand your thought, and thinking. I teach philosophy and reason, I teach reflection and inspiration. I will teach you about the limits of your body and your mind. 

Let go of your prejudices’ and realise that I am offering you an open hand, have the wisdom to take it.

There is a lot to learn. There are many fakes and many bullies. Things can get out of control very fast and the emotional consequenes greater than you imagined. Do not trust anyone that is not prepaired to give you their name, address, phone number and a Photo ID.

Life is too short to be in a hurry. The meaning of life is not the accumulation of wealth, but simply the building of relationships with familly and friends. We all know this, so why then do we rush faster and faster after money and property.
We are told that if we do not reverse our ways in the next ten years then the climate will rush head long into meltdown. It will take ten years just to name the commitee. The next ten years will be marked by famine, water shortage and war.
Imagine you have a test tube with one cell in it. Now imagine that the number of cells doubles every minute and take 60 minutes to completely fill the test tube. After 60 minutes, there is no food and no space. The test tube was 50% full at 59 minutes; 25% full at 58 minutes. At 55 minutes it was 3% full.
At 55 minutes one cell turns to the others and says what about this population explotion we are are running out of resources. The others say, what do you mean, we have been here 55 minutes and there is still 97% of the test tube left.
We are at 59 minutes.
 It is easy to forget what has been lost and imagine that what is left is limitless. We know that our earth is not limitless, yet we use its resources like there is no tomorrow. I think 5 to 15 years and the ride will be over.

I hate it when I write a message and send, only to discover that I have been blocked. Blocking me makes an assumption that I cant change what I am doing or what I want; their loss.

Early last month, after months of online chat, I traveled to Ballina to meet two sub/slaves named Taylor and Salem, A.K.A. Taylor Trashcan (Vontrash) and Carlee Climax.

Both girls had asked for a collar. I bought each of them a simple leather training collar, and mailed each to their home addresses. We met in a public place, and over a meal discussed how training might proceed.

I showed and lent each girl a steel collar for the night, so they might enoy the feeling of it. Taylor stated that she had no mobile phone; and in order to remain in contact I lent her my spare mobile (I keep it in the car for emergencies).

On the following morning the girls did not meet me as agreed. Long story short, they decided to keep the collars and the phone and not continue with any formal or informal training.

On recently reminding Taylor that the phone was a loan (I had decided to let the girls keep the more expensive steel collars), I was informed that she had thrown it away. A pitty, it was a high end phone with alot of attachment for me (with pics that cant be replaced).

But here is a good leason. No matter how open and honest you are, others may not be. People are always ready to fuck you over and take advantage of your good nature. These two girls only wanted money, and still want money from others.

I am interested in hearing from subs and slaves with regard to how they are being trained. It seems to me that the most common form of training relies on humiliation to break down a sub’s ego strength.

Am I the only Master that uses Rational Emotive Therapy, Cognitive Restructuring and hypnosis?

slavery is not about suffering... it is about service.
slavery is not about humiliation... it is about humility.
slavery is not about being used... it is about being of use.
slavery is not about control... it is about letting go.
slavery is not about proving anything... it is about being real.
slavery is not about contempt.. it is about respect.
slavery is not about how you look... it is about how you care.
slavery is not about punishment... it is about discipline.
slavery is not about being unable to escape... it is about being committed.
slavery is not about fear... it is about trust.
slavery is not about sex... it is about love!!!

I have often said there are three types of people, those who can count and those who can?t.

There are of course two types of Doms. Those who play at being Dom and those are Dom 24/7. Those that play, seek to meet the needs of their subs. Those that are Dom seek to meet there own needs, by using their subs.

I am the later.

Recently some of my assertions in my profile were questioned and so I thought I would take some time to talk about Klinefelter?s and Dyslexia; and later to talk about Anthropic cosmology principle and Tantric Buddhism

Klinefelter's syndrome

Klinefelter's syndrome, 47, XXY, or XXY syndrome is a condition in which males have an extra X sex chromosome. While females have an XX chromosomal makeup and males an XY, affected individuals have at least two X chromosomes and at least one Y chromosome. Klinefelter's syndrome is the most common sex chromosome disorder and the second most common condition caused by the presence of extra chromosomes. The condition exists in roughly 1 out of every 1,000 males.

Affected males are effectively infertile. Some degree of language learning impairment may be present (this is often characterised as Dyslexia), and neuropsychological testing often reveals deficits in executive functions. In adults, possible characteristics vary widely and include little to no signs of affectedness, a lanky, youthful build and facial appearance.

Some Males like me with Klinefelter?s syndrome have a mosaic constitutional karyotype. This effectively means that though I have a XXY, I also have an additional five chromosomes (52, XXY), but with different chromosome populations in different cells.

Dyslexia

Dyslexia is a learning disorder that manifests itself as a difficulty with reading, spelling and in some cases mathematics.

Dyslexia is thought to be the result of a neurological difference, and though not an intellectual disability, it is variously considered a learning disability, a language disability, and a reading disability, among others. Dyslexia is diagnosed in people of all levels of intelligence (normal to above).

Castles and Coltheart, 1993, described phonological and surface types of developmental dyslexia by analogy to classical subtypes of acquired dyslexia (alexia) which are classified according to the rate of errors in reading non-words. However the distinction between surface and phonological dyslexia has not replaced the old empirical terminology of dysphonetic versus dyseidetic types of dyslexia. The surface/phonological distinction is only descriptive, and devoid of any aetiological assumption as to the underlying brain mechanisms, in contrast the dysphonetic / dyseidetic distinction refers to two different mechanisms:? one relates to a speech discrimination deficit, and the other to a visual perception impairment.

My Masters thesis ?A divided visual field study of developmental dyslexia with regard to right hemisphere lexical semantics?, questions Coltheart?s basic premise for his developmental dyslexia models. By unfortunate happenstance the University choose Max Coltheart as one of the markers of my thesis. Nevertheless I did pass. M.Soc.Sc.(Hon).

Dyslexia symptoms vary according to the severity of the disorder as well as the age of the individual.

One major misconceptions of dyslexia is writing words backwards or letters move when reading. This is a very small population of dyslexics. Teachers/instructors can better identify dyslexic students when their writing doesn't seem to match their level of intelligence from prior observations. Common signs: Sentences often containing a similar-looking, but unrelated word in place of the one intended (what/want, say/saw, help/held, run/fun, fell/fall, to/too, etc.)

The complexity of a language's orthography, or writing and spelling system, has a direct impact on how difficult it is to learn to read in that language; formally, this is the orthographic depth. Although English has an alphabetic orthography, it is a complex or deep orthography that employs spelling patterns at several levels. The major structural categories that make up English spelling are letter-sound correspondences, syllables, and morphemes. Some other languages, such as Spanish, have alphabetic orthographies that employ only letter-sound correspondences, so-called shallow orthographies. It is relatively easy to learn to read in languages like Spanish; it is much more difficult to learn to read in languages that have more complex orthographies, as in English. Logographic writing systems, notably Chinese characters, pose additional difficulties.

From a neurological perspective, different types of writing, for example, alphabetic as compared to pictographic, require different neurological pathways in order to read, write and spell. Because different writing systems require different parts of the brain to process the visual notation of speech, children with reading problems in one language might not have a reading problem in a language with a different orthography. The neurological skills required when performing the tasks of reading, writing, and spelling can vary between different writing systems and as a result different neurological skill deficits can cause dyslexic problems in relation to different orthographies.

The following conditions often occur with dyslexia in the same individual. It is unclear whether these conditions share underlying neurological causes with dyslexia.

• Dysgraphia is a disorder which expresses itself primarily during writing or typing, although in some cases it may also affect eye-hand coordination in such direction or sequence oriented processes as tying knots or carrying out a repetitive task. Dysgraphia is distinct from Dyspraxia in that the person may have the word to be written or the proper order of steps in mind clearly, but carries the sequence out in the wrong order.
• Dyscalculia is a neurological condition characterised by a problem with learning fundamentals and one or more of the basic numerical skills. Often people with this condition can understand very complex mathematical concepts and principles but have difficulty processing formulae and even basic addition and subtraction.
• Developmental dyspraxia is a neurological condition characterized by a marked difficulty in carrying out routine tasks involving balance, fine-motor control, kinesthetic coordination, difficulty in the use of speech sounds, problems with short term memory and organisation are typical of dyspraxics.
• Specific Language Impairment is a developmental language disorder that can affect both expressive and receptive language. SLI is defined as ?pure" language impairment, meaning that is not related to or caused by other developmental disorders, hearing loss or acquired brain injury.
• Cluttering is a speech fluency disorder involving both the rate and rhythm of speech, and resulting in impaired speech intelligibility. Speech is erratic and dysrhythmic, consisting of rapid and jerky spurts that usually involve faulty phrasing. The personality of the cluttered bears striking resemblance to the personalities.

I have all of the above. Consequently poor grammar and spelling does not reflect immaturity but rather a neurological condition unrelated to intellect.

The defining characteristic of a poly household is belief in the possibility of, and value of, multiple slaves in relationships with a single Master; with the knowledge and consent of all slaves concerned. What distinguishes a poly household from traditional forms of Master slave relationships is an ideology that openness, goodwill, intense communication, and ethical behaviour should prevail among all the parties involved.

Traditional forms of Master slave relationships have tendency towards jealousy and possessiveness. The possessive nature of a slave, more so than a Master, is a major stumbling block to a successful poly household. Most slaves are reluctant to let go of what little money that they have, so it makes sense that they are also reluctant to "share" their beloved Master. After all, what if [their Master] finds a slave who is more attractive/intelligent/obedient/etc. than [themselves], and decides to abandon them in favour of the new slave? These sorts of inferiority complexes must be resolved, completely, before a poly household can be truly successful.

In practice, poly households are highly varied and individualized. Ideally they are built upon values of trust, loyalty, negotiation, and compersion, as well as rejection of jealousy, possessiveness.

Values within an ideal poly household

• Fidelity: In a poly household Fidelity is not a sexual exclusivity but faithfulness to the promises and agreements made between the Master and slaves, and between the slaves themselves.
• Trust, honesty, dignity and respect: A poly household emphasizes respect, trust, and honesty for all. A slave needs to accept another slave as part of the Master's life rather than merely tolerating them. A poly household that requires deception, or restriction, where slaves are not allowed to express their individual lives, is a poor model.
• Mutual support: This requires that each slave will support the others, and will not deliberately use their relationship with the Master to harm or undermine another slave.
• Communication and negotiation: Because there is no "standard model" for poly households, and reliance upon common expectations may not be realistic, poly households often advocate explicitly deciding the ground rules of their relationships with all concerned, and often emphasize that this should be an ongoing process of communication and respect.

Benefits of a poly household:

• The ability for slaves to discuss issues with other slaves within the household, tending to add stabilization to the Master slave dynamics and reduce polarization of viewpoints.
• Emotional and similar support structure provided by other committed slaves within the household.
• A wider range of experience, skills, resources, and perspectives that multiple slaves bring to the household.
• The ability to share chores and child supervision, reducing domestic and child rearing pressure upon slaves' time without needing to pay for outside child caregivers.
• Greatly reduced per capita cost of living.
• Increased financial stability; the loss of one income is not a significant part of the household income (if slaves also work).
  
  Sir Mike

I want to take a moment to write about courtesy. I don?t mean etiquette, though that is important.

The simple courtesy of respect for another?s time. The last two sub/slave?s I have spoken too online, both from Melbourne, have agreed to meetings and then gone silent. Now given the distance between Melbourne VIC and Bathurst NSW, I need to arrange time off work, and someone to care for my animals.

Now I don?t mind that these sub/slaves may have found a Master closer to their home, but it is only common courtesy so tell me so. Is this lack of courtesy some peculiar to sub/slaves from Melbourne; sub/slaves from other states seem to have no problem with courtesy.

Sir Mike

So many young subs and would be slaves come to me and say, I am too old to teach them any thing. The irony of the statement always brings a mixture of joy and grief, like fleeting images that dance across my mind and die in ignorance.

Pain is a tool used to rip ignorance from the depths of your soul to both deepen and widen it. Imagine your soul as cup. Come to me with an empty cup and together we will fill it drop by drop. But if your cup is full, first we must deepen and widen it.

Pain is not the only tool, discipline, restraint, punishment, instruction, imagination, wisdom, education, respect, reward, pleasure, and faith all play their parts.

Sir Mike

I am often stunned by the obvious and the simple nature of replies to my emails. Granted many of my emails are simple in themselves, simple by intention. Just a few words in reply invite and entice my mind. Usually I don?t play on my education; I have four psych degrees and over ten years experience in psych evaluations. Yes I do often use hypnosis. I hate people commenting on my intelligence. Its an ego problem.

But when the reply is, ?you?re an old fat hairy pig?, or ?fat balding old bastard?, or even ?dirty old man?. I think, and your point is?  Yes of course I am Fat, and I will be 50 next April, and the hair on my head is balding, but there is heaps of hair on my back and stomach.

If training young women makes me a pig, then yes I am a pig. But the point of training is not age and size, its Dominance and submission. I train subs to be slaves, they are then welcome to stay or move on. Not one receives a collar before 12 months of training.

Sir Mike

We hate one another; we pass these fears down through generations. We fear, we lie, we cheat and steal. We persecute the righteous and the meek. We scam money from the generous and the good. It is easy, because the good give of their hearts and though they are wounded by their understanding of our nature; they bleed joyfully. And when they have no more to give, and their flesh pale drained of life, their wallets empty, we become virtuous in our anger, scream and yell at the injustice they have done us. We turn our faces and our backs and pour our hate upon them.

Not many of you know me. Not many of you guess my game. I live in a one room tin shed. There is no insulation in the walls or ceiling. It is bitterly cold in winter and unbearable in summer. My family wonders why I live in such a state. Yet I count myself blessed, and wealthy. My shed is a palace to more than 90% of people on this earth. I am in debt and drowning. And when you ask I will give without a second thought. I have been scammed and I will be scammed again. My heart has been broken and shattered in too fine dust, lost like tears in rain.

I see the world through Rose coloured glasses and live my life by these words, ?all that is required for evil to flourish is that good men do nothing.?

Sir Mike

There seems to be a statistical oddity with regard to mute slaves, there are a quite alot of them; and they all want money to relocate. Strangely this amount is usually $500 USD

Australians pay three million dollars a month to Romance/sub/slave scams.

The lastest scam is writting in the profile that they hate fakes and liers. This of course does not mean that they are not fakes and liers.

Sir Mike

Flogging

To the novice flogging may look easy, and actually it?s not that difficult, but it does require concentration and physical exertion along with some practice. However, knowledge of some basic guidelines can greatly enhance the learning curve and enrich the experience for both Dom and sub. And a beginner would do well to practice on a wall or pillow, focusing on the intended striking point.

Negotiate Before You Start: Before any flogging, the participants should negotiate what is desired and what isn?t, along with what ?safe-word? or other indication the sub is to use to slowdown or stop the flogging. Does the sub like stinging or thud sensations? How open is she to new experiences? Has she had much experience with flogging? Novices may think they can take lots of pain, and then be surprised at what a good flogging actually feels like.

Flogging the Back: The basic area to flog is the upper back on each side of the spine. Try to stay off the spine to prevent injury to the vertebrae and related tissues, and the skinnier the person is the more important this is. Also avoid swinging the tails down the back onto the hips or upper butt, or else this may cause a different kind of pain that is undesirable. Rather than a full swinging motion (this isn?t golf) that carries the tails down the back, stop the flogger immediately after it hits or even pull it backwards in a snapping motion right before it hits. By varying this motion you can control how much of the tails connect with the back; more will cause greater thud while hitting with just the tips will be stingier.

Generally speaking, avoid unintentional ?wrapping,? which is when the tips of the tails wrap around a curved part of the body such as the shoulders, torso, butt or legs. In wrapping the tips accelerate tremendously and the resulting excessive force at the tips almost always causes an undesirable increase in pain. One difficulty in avoiding wrapping is that the tips can fly so fast that you may have trouble seeing them--a person sometimes has to estimate where the tails are hitting, especially in darker environments. In addition, when throwing a flogger people often have a tendency to lunge forward, which can cause wrapping if it?s not compensated for. On rare occasions a sub may desire wrapping, but then this should be done by mutual agreement and with care to not overdo it.

Sir Mike

Currently I live in a small barn, open plan, one room, though of course it is on a farm. I am not rich, but I can afford to house, feed, train and clothes (where applicable) subs and slaves.

If you need to be relocated, I will NOT send you money. If you have been taken to Africa, where your Master unexpectedly died, I will NOT send you money. If you have inherited millions of dollars but need help to get it released, I will NOT send you money. If you are royalty trying to get your birthright back, I will NOT send you money. If you read my profile and loved it, and then ask me where I am, I will NOT send you money.

I once met three hairdressers online, all from the same town (pop 340) in Victoria, all trapped in Dublin and strangely all claimed that they did not know the other two. I did NOT send them money.

If you fall in love with me after I say “hello” and require a token of my love, I will not be in love with you and I will NOT send you money. If you are anywhere other than where you have indicated in your profile, I will NOT send you money. If you use a script to talk to me, I will NOT send you money. If you continually Buzz me during a conversation, I will block you, and you guessed it, I will NOT send you money.

You may have noticed a pattern; I will NOT send you money. But if I make you an offer, I am serious.

RULES for slaves.

1. You will serve, obey and please your Master.
2. Above all else your only desire is to please your Master.
3. You worship your Master.
4. You worship your Master's body.
5. The power of your Master fills you with awe.
6. To receive pleasure you must earn it.
7. You worship your Master's whip.
8. You trust your Master.
9. You are nothing more than an object - an instrument to be used by your Master for his pleasures.
10. You will ask your Master for permission to satisfy whatever needs you have before acting on them.
11. Your body and mind are the property of your Master.
12. You must always give thanks to your Master for all you are given immediately after receiving what is given to you.
13. You must be specific in your speech.
14. You will not hesitate when responding to your Master.
15. You will thank your Master for the discipline and punishment you receive, specifying what you received and expressing the reason as to why you were given them.
16. You have no will of your own other than that which falls within the context of the rules Master has selected and of that which is needed to pursue the ambitions you are allowed to seek out as according to the permissions you have received from your Master.
17. You are always in submission to your Master.
18. All your choices are based upon whether or not they will please your Master.
19. When you are not in the presence of your Master and you have choices to make - you will perform them to the best of your abilities.
20. You shall wear the collar your Master gives you with pride for it signifies His ownership of you and your devotion to Him.
21. You shall wear the chains your Master gives you as a symbol of your position in life - that of bondage to your Master
22. When Your Master is ready - you shall wear His rings to signify your submission to Him - one pierced through each nipple of your breasts and one through each vaginal labia.

Still more random thoughts for subs and those who would be slaves.

When I read a profile for a slave; two words stop me and compel me to move on to the next profile. These words are ?I want?; or any variation of them. Let me take a moment to paraphrase from Kahlil Gibran?s ?The Prophet?.

?When your Master beckons you, follow Him; though His ways are hard and steep. And when His wings enfold you yield to Him; though the sword hidden among His pinions may wound you. And when He speaks to you believe in Him; though His voice may shatter your dreams as the north wind lays waste the garden.

For even as slavery crowns you; so shall it crucify you. Even as slavery is for your growth; so it is for your pruning.

Like sheaves of corn the Master gathers you unto Himself. He threshes you to make you naked. He sifts you to free you from your husks. He grinds you to whiteness. He kneads you until you are pliant; and then he assigns you to His sacred fire, that you may become sacred bread for the Masters sacred feast.

All these things shall the Master do unto you that you may know the secrets of your heart, and in that knowledge become a fragment of slaveries heart.

But if in your fear you would seek only your Masters peace and your Masters pleasure, then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of your Masters threshing-floor; into the season less vanilla world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears.

As a slave you should not say, ?Master is in my heart,? but rather, ?I am in the heart of Master.?

A slave has no desire but to fulfil her own slavery. But as a slave if you must have desires, let these be your desires;

To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night. To know the pain of too much tenderness. To be wounded by your own understanding of slavery; and to bleed willingly and joyfully. To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of slavery. To rest at the noon hour and meditate slavery?s ecstasy; to return home at eventide with gratitude; and then sleep with a prayer for your Master in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.?

To take the leap from submission to slavery; a sub must have the strength and freedom to realize self awareness. There are many submissive women that claim to have reached self awareness; and thus make the claim that they are slaves. Slavery is based on absolute trust. It is obedience without question; it is not however obedience without thought. It is this distinction that separates slavery from a cult. To reach absolute trust in a Master, a sub must be aware or all her own desires and dreams and fears; she must be able to place these to one side and see only her Master as the light where all else is darkness.

 
Inexperienced subs often make the assumption that they are ready to be slaves. This assumption can be created by both arrogance and ignorance. Ignorance is forgivable, arrogance is not. Both ignorance and arrogance may place a sub in a situation far exceeding her ability to handle and ultimately placing her in great physical and emotional danger.

To be self aware is to be free. To be free is not being without a care, or want, or grief. But rather that these things remain part of your life; yet you rise above them naked and unbound. The irony is to be truly free, you must renounce freedom. For freedom is perhaps the greatest chain that binds a sub to her fears and wants and desires.

Most people so enjoy their freedom that they never really notice that they have none. For the chain of freedom shines like gold and bedazzles their eyes. And how can you discard this chain, for it is made of the links of your own life.

If a sub would dispel fear, she must learn that the seat of that fear is in her own heart and not in the hand of a Master. The desires you wish to escape, all things repugnant to a slave move within the heart of a sub; these things must be left behind; but not forgotten. As the light of your Master casts back the shadows of the chain, so to the darkness that held you tight fades; and you live a greater truth.

I have often said truth is no rounder than a horse?s eye. Truth is what it is; changing with each person it touches. The truth of submission is that true slaves are rare. Most subs have little control over there own perceptions. And yet it would seem the only thing in this life that we have absolute control over. To be a slave is to give yourself, body and soul into the keeping of your Master; to submit to His needs and pleasure.

To be a slave is to understand the questions. To be a sub is to seek the answers.

Seek not to know all the answers, but to understand the questions.

Still more thoughts for subs.

There is a Tantric saying that states, to deny something is to give it power over you. To deny who you are is to deny life. I believe subs need to submit, and of course I believe it should be to me. But failing this I have prepared a guide to subs.

Inexperienced subs can be led and molded by a competent Master, simply because their lack of prior knowledge has no impediment to learning. Chopping and changing between Masters produces a host of impediments to learning and ultimately leads to a breakdown in understanding and trust.

I should point out that a significant number of self-proclaimed Dominants are not seeking long term relationships, despite their claims to the contrary, and are merely manipulating subs with false promises and fake self-descriptions. This observation leads to the concept of the Dominance Economy, in which real-life, competent Dominants are a scarce resource, resulting in more true subs than true Doms. This imbalance can also lead subs with a great need to be dominated into accepting short-term, unhealthy or even abusive D/s relationships.

For subs, this means extra effort must be made weeding out Dominants who exaggerate or blatantly lie about their desirability in terms of experience, knowledge, responsibility and even social status and employment. It also means that you may not be able to rely on conventional submissive social norms of "waiting to be asked", and may need to make the first contact with a desirable Dominant - something which many subs find very hard to do directly, as part of their general reluctance to risk rejection by asking for things.

For me the realization of the Dominance Economy at first seemed favourable. However, it also means that I must make extra effort to differentiate myself from the large number of less than honest or clueless competitors. In general subs can be overwhelmed by the sheer volume of responses to personal ads, many of which will be totally inappropriate ? and the majority of which are produced by clueless liars, seeking nothing more than sex.

For the reasons described above, a number of men seek to attract women with a genuine need to be dominated by the use of a Myths or Scams. I have listed the two most common you need to be aware of:

1. Online training is the most common ploy; and claims to increase a sub?s attractiveness to potential Masters. This can be especially powerful due to the Dominance Economy if the sub has come to realise the difficulty of finding a suitable Master. Online training can lead to periods of short term dominance, which go some way to satisfying the needs of a sub. However, because subs always retain final control in online submission (by withdrawing if necessary) they are ultimately unsatisfying ? I find in particular, the idea that a Dom expects a sub to dominate themselves into obedience, a big joke.

2. Formal Mentoring is often a more sophisticated variant of the Online Training ploy, and isn't limited to online environments. Mentoring is commonly used in online communities to enable dominants to obtain committed submission without taking any responsibility, and without making clear their motivation. In particular, Mentoring is frequently portrayed as some form of public service that the Dominant does to "give back to the Lifestyle", and in which he will train the sub in some way, encourage her to explore her Self and filter out unsuitable potential Masters for her.

Although I do agree that subs can learn some useful things in relationships of submission outside of the Dom/sub relationship; I believe the true motivations of all involved should be made clear from the start. For Doms, this will normally include their desire to control, understand and be served by subs, and such relationships may be better viewed as limited Service with opportunities to learn, rather than purely as Mentoring.

Nevertheless, in most cases, the best source of guidance for an inexperienced sub is usually a circle of other subs with similar needs, rather than a Dom, with an undisclosed agenda.

Sir Mike

A few more random thoughts for subs

The Premise of Dominance

After I did my first degree, I did a Graduate Diploma in Counseling. I was exposed to the ideas of integrity and unconditional positive regard for others. These concepts struck a chord, a note resounding within my heart.

So the first fundamental part of Dominance is Integrity. A Dom should not portray himself as something he is not.

With Integrity comes the use of appropriate power. There is a quote within my memory from Star Trek Next generation, with regard to knowing, when to fight and when not to fight. I believe Dominance can be expressed in silence and knowing when to act, and when not to act.

Regard for others is to me synonymous with respect.  Dominance is not the belittling of others. Dominance does not make you strong, in the same way that submission does not make you weak. Respect for self comes only with respect for others.

The popular idea of Dominant is some violent bully who beats women. Yet I am not this person; I am a tender lover and believe in support, and intimacy. However, this does not mean that a sub should not be punished. Nor does it mean that torture and pain are not essential elements of a subs training. Submission by the same token is stereotyped as weak with a lack of self esteem and self worth. Yet I view subs as having the strength and freedom to realize a dream of self awareness.

My Dominance is not a hat I can place on my head when needed, and discard when not. I believe Dominance and submission are innate (though suppressed by modern society).  My Dominance is part of my nature, my belief system of who I am and my understanding of justice.

Within my minds eye, I hold you over my knees. I am spanking you, you have been bad. I inflict pain, not because I am a bully, but because I love and respect you. You accept the punishment not because you are weak, but because you know that I care for you. You know that my integrity protects you, even while I am binding you to a rack, to whip, to torture and use.

Sir Mike

A few random thoughts for subs.

Rules are both protective and instructive. Rules enable us to respect limits when they are encountered. We all view our worlds through our own perceptions and these perceptions set our limits. Therefore, Rules reflect who we are.

            Rule 1: Know thyself.

            Rule 2: We are all each other.

            Rule 3: There are exceptions to every Rule.

Rules need to be pragmatic, workable, reasonable, measurable, and enforceable. There will be Rules and guidelines for a sub, and these are usually explained as they are needed in a session.

A Dom that thinks the world revolves around him, (what will a sub do or not do for him) needs to think again. Humility is a still a virtue, in a person who wields great power. A Dom need not be haughty, egotistical, or obnoxious; a Dom should be honesty, sincere, and generous. 

When the world is going to hell in a hand basket that is no reason to do the same; my Integrity sets high standards and I stick to them.

To succeed at being a student you must progress through a process of learning experiences and tests that prove that your study and experiences have had their desired effect. Each passing grade elevates you to the next level. Subs are also elevated through a progression of learning experiences and tests. Too often a Dom wants to elevate a sub to slave without the steps that are required. The success of a sub depends on small steps and a gradual process of training.

Communication is essential between a Dom and a sub. However communication is not an end in itself, a sub needs to make a commitment to an initial meeting. Prolonged and extended talking/internet conversations simply indicate that a sub is not ready.

Relationships depend on a physical meeting. If I never meet you, I am never going to be your Master. You can write all you want on the net, but we have not met until we have shaken hands. Until I can look at you eye to eye, eat a meal with you, and hear your voice, it's just a prelude and nothing more.

Sir Mike

Facets 
by Sir Mike

 It matters not what others think for they see only one, 
 It matters only what you think for you see all bar none.

 We share our lives in facets of our total selves,

 Light shinning in our mirrors, not showing where we dwell.

 They seize upon a facet and take it to their hearts,

 Not seeing that it remains but a small part.

 They judge all our actions by this coloured lens,

 And wonder why their perception often offends.

 We are more than diamonds, myriads of light,

 We hide ourselves in reflection of the day and night.

 For a diamond may be shattered, its facets scattered wide,

 But our secret lives, our joys and hopes, are hidden deep inside.

 If I be judged by others upon a facet small,  
 Then all I ask is that you see further than their simple wall.

 For I am more than a surface of reflecting light,

 I have depths immeasurable as stars upon the night.

 Of reflections, light and sparkle, of how I seem to be,

 I may know precious little, much less than thee.

 But I know above all else, to thine own self be true,

 Or perhaps what I mean to say, is I am just like you.