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About SirLanceherlot
It has been some time since I have actually had the chance to update what I have written in here about myself. Although in the past I have been more angled towards training and helping subs discover themselves, I have found that I have a natural interest in training and helping subs explore. My interests should not be construed that I am seeking someone age or experience centric - your interests could best be described as having an explorative attitude to your submission. I also need to emphasise that I do travel a great deal in my work (anywhere in the world except Europe) - and no, I am not an away player, if I was, why would I be in here? I am a one sub Dom, but group play wit my sub is something I have occasionally taken part in. I expect that despite having a submissive mind, you will still actually have an opinion and a vanilla side to your life for me to admire and respect - doormats give me an instant soft-on. Rememebr also that when you read my list of interests, don't go thinking that you must have all the same boxes ticked - quite the contrary these are my interests and I have been in this lifestyle long enough to know that we must all be felxible on this subject.
My professional life rarely takes prisoners – that is, if I do not do my job correctly people have a tendency to die – so the result is that I take that side of my life seriously. Safety is the alpha and omega of everything I do, so if you believe safe words are for sissy’s, thanks for reading this far, but don't waste your time reading on. Despite this comment I am adept at pressing the boundaries and extreme aspects are not unusual for me, so the obvious situation here is if you wish to experiment with the extreme I will be able to help you with the assurance of it being done correctly and safely. I have lived and worked for years at a time in North America, England and the more "civilised" areas of Asia. I have found that the lifestyle is more mature there than I have so far encountered here, please do not message and leccture me on that observation - the scene here simply has a lot of growing up to do. My perception of the scene here in Perth is that there are a small group of people here who seem to take delight in conspriring to bring about their own importance in the lifestyle - by creating circumstances that make them appear better than they are. So don't expect me to rush to any local functions !!
The effect of my work is that I relax quickly, enjoy the time off and would like to find someone who enjoys their part in this fantastically diverse lifestyle. I have been known to reward a sub because I have noticed something during casual conversation. This could be anything from a meal out, to putting her on a plane to see loved ones.
I have been told I am spontaneous, but if the situation demands it I have also been known to plan a session weeks ahead – the joy of the preparation can be stimulating in itself!! I still expect a face to face encounter to happen sooner than later – there is nothing like looking at a reaction to something that has been said.
My work demands that I be fit and this helps with the interaction with a sub – your weight does not concern me, but your fitness will – if I need to explain why, we may not be suitable !! Yes I will post a new pic as soon as I can get around to finding / taking a decent one - I now have no beard.
So drop a line if it suits you - even if we don't hit it off - we each will have expanded our networks.
Lance
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