kneeling4dom

I need to lose weight - how do I lose weight in a kinky way lol

So another item to add to the list of want to try - a vac bed (but would definitely need a panic button lol) - oh and to have my breasts tied and dipped in hundreds and thousands lol

See I don't ask much do I?

Thank you everyone for your messages regarding chains and all their special uses.

mmmm now I am even more excited about them.

Hi everyone. Well I will be on and off here for the next few weeks celebrating christmas with my family and friends. I will be  on the coast for a few days and then I am going to a nudist camp to enjoy some R&R with some kinky friends. So if you message me, and I dont replay immediatly. Please be patient - after all it is christmas

Wishing you all a great Christmas and a very Kinky New Year

aghh -  I am the believer of destiny - all will be revealed in good time.. (and for those asking for more pics hehehe - nah not going to happen)

So have been on for a little while. And still getting contacts from people on here.

This is what I have learnt.

Because I will can not cam, I am apparently a fake.

Because I wont bend over straight away and do all that I am told to do = I am a fake.

Because I will not call anyone Sir immediately - I am a fake.

Because I will not play on the first meet, I am a scammer or timewaster

Perhaps men on here should learn a little about BDSM, learn about human nature and about personal safety.

Stop wanking to porn and get out in the real world, attend events and get to know a person before expecting immediate results.

Rant over - so if you think I am a fake, fine, get over it, move on and lose a good chance of meeting a real female who is submissive. (but submissive in the true sense of the word, not a puppet who has no voice.)

Thank you to all those people who contacted me regarding my last journal entry... it has been quite an amazing and educational response.

I have from than made contact with several people - some offering advice, some friendship and others wanting to develop a relationship.

What has been distressing is the manner in which some people have addressed me, ie just sub or girl, on their first message. Not after introducing themselves, but immediately, and then of course the ones demanding I "Kneel Bitch" at their cyber feet when now communication has happened at all.

Others have begun discussions but seem to forget that I am relatively new, that I want to learn properly, I do not want instructions via the net - I want a real man, who isnt hiding behind a computer screen, - who doesnt cut and paste from a text book and pretend it is his writing etc...

Once again tho, I thank you all for your input, I appreciate your support and guidance.

What have I learnt in the few weeks on here.

1) all is not as it seems

2) all the glitters is not gold

3) safety and respect are not always associated with BDSM

4) patience and taking my time is essential

I have been inundated with messages, and I have answered nearly every one. The ones I have not answered are the blatant masturbation fodder that abounds here.

The biggest crime has been the unwanted messages advising me that I am not submissive, too demanding etc because I respect my rights, and expect safety.

I was under the impression making a safety call, meeting in public and setting limits was quite normal in this lifestyle. But I have found that there are a large number of "players" on here pretending to be what they arent.

On the other hand I have received quite a few messages from men who are polite, caring and knowledgeable (you know who you are) and it is a pleasure whenever I open their mail.