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Female Submissive, 42
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Male Dominant, 50, Kingston,ON
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Female Switch, 32, North of Portland, Maine
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About silentdeer
I am for real, seeking real life meetups and a real master. I have zero interest in play partners. I am happy to relocate in time for the right fit. I want to be someones one and only. I am seeking more the Master and slave dynamic and not play time. More mental and less whips and chains.
IMPORTANT… I am highly allergic to cigarette smoke and can not be anywhere near it. Please, be a nonsmoker.
I am a creative submissive woman, who likes to express such in writing, actions as well as daily life, adventuresome, intelligent, honorable, loyal, devoted, honest, witty and a bit of a smartalec at times. I tend to be a rather straightforward and to the point kind of gal who loves to laugh, spend time with friends I am close to as well as time alone. I am a rather diverse and quietly confident individual who finds joy in almost all I do and take part in. I enjoy city and country life, a good debate, conversation, current events, history, a good book, camping, gardening, hiking, movies, live theater, cooking with a friend, horseback as well as motorcycle riding, traveling both in and outside the USA. I am more of a tomboy that is into wearing jeans, no makeup, with my hair wild and free, always ready for an adventure and happy to get dirty, though I do clean up well and fit nicely into a dress to go out now and again. I am always a lady.
What is missing is a master, a man to serve with my heart and soul. I am seeking a man that is wanting to be monogamous and share their life fully, in a TPE. I am one who seeks to please. I am not one who seeks or needs to be micromanaged. I am a slave, not a baby girl seeking a daddy. I seek a master who is within ten years of my own age, that resides within the USA. Please be able to communicate honestly and transparently, as I will as well. I need someone I share vanilla chemistry with, as we need to like one another as people, not simply as master and slave. I desire someone who has compatible
life patterns and goals with myself. Yes, I am aware as a slave my life will bend towards yours. Someone who has emotional sophistication. You are aware of your own feelings and issues, and understand mine. You can ask for help when you need it and lend help when I ask. You're not easily angered or hurt, but will promptly and calmly tell me when you are. You'll call me on my stuff, and allow me to call you on yours. Other aspects that are important to me are, Dedication to self-development, Curiosity and fascination, Intuition and empathy, humility and confidence, you set limits and push limits, have patience and flexibility, express appreciation and encouragement, and care for yourself, both mentally and hygienically. Perhaps this seems like a tall order, but realize I am giving you all of me, and I offer all that I am seeking.
== Results from bdsm test == 04.05.24
100% Masochist, 100% Rope bunny, 100% Submissive, 98% Slave, 85% Degradee, 74% Experimentalist, 55% Exhibitionist, 53% Voyeur, 34% Primal (Prey), 16% Vanilla, 0% Ageplayer, 0% Brat, 0% Boy/Girl, 0% Non-monogamist, 0% Pet, 0% Switch |
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I've been in the lifestyle since my early 20's. I am my area MAsT group leader. I use to be very active in the NYC area bdsm scene, have atended many events through the years about north eastern USA. I do not do play, and am not a bedroom submissive. I am a slave all of the time, in my daily life. I am not submissive to everyone, I have owned and run my own business, been a boss to many people in my jobs through the years. The world does not know I am slave, nor do they need to know such, I simply am who I am all the time. I can not turn myself on and off. I live life to the fullest that I am cabable of doing. I serve with my heart and bering, in all I do, yes, even when I am sans a master.
Would it not be dishonorable, dishonest and disloyal for me to be on this site and be owned or collared and not have such stated in my profile as well as have checked that I am actively seeking a dominant male? I believe it would be. If I were owned, collared, in a relation, or even simply focusing on someone at the time, I would state such perfectly clearly in my profile for all to see. I am here seriously seeking someone, this is not a game to me. Read my profile please, then consider contacting me. First impressions mean a whole lot. |
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Intelligence is a extremely sexy quality that I highly value in a fellow human being and dominant. |
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"Honor is doing the right thing, at the right time, for the right reasons, independent of personal preferences, and accepting the consequences." |
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This is overly cool!
A palindrome reads the same backwards as forward. This video
reads the exact opposite backwards as forward. Not only does it
read the opposite, the meaning is the exact opposite.
This is only a 1 minute, 44 second video and it is brilliant.
Make sure you read as well as listen....both going forward and
backward.
This video was submitted in a contest by a 20-year old. The
contest was titled "u @ 50" by AARP. This video won second place..
When they showed it, everyone in the room was awe-struck and broke
into spontaneous applause. So simple, yet so brilliant.
Take a minute and watch it.
"The Lost Generation"
http://www.youtube.com/watch_popup?v=42E2fAWM6rA |
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Piglet sidled up to Pooh from behind. "Pooh!" he whispered. "Yes, Piglet?" "Nothing," said Piglet, taking Pooh's paw. "I just wanted to be sure of you." ~A.A. Milne |
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People are illogical, unreasonable, and self-centered. Love them anyway.
If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives. Do good anyway.
If you are successful, you will win false friends and true enemies. Succeed anyway.
The good you do today will be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.
Honesty and frankness make you vulnerable. Be honest and frank anyway.
The biggest men and women with the biggest ideas can be shot down by the smallest men and women with the smallest minds. Think big anyway.
People favor underdogs but follow only top dogs. Fight for a few underdogs anyway.
What you spend years building may be destroyed overnight. Build anyway.
People really need help but may attack you if you do help them. Help people anyway.
Give the world the best you have and you'll get kicked in the teeth. Give the world the best you have anyway.
Dr. Kent M. Keith American Author and Inspirational Speaker. ~*This passage, also known as 'The Paradoxical Commandments' is attributed by Mother Teresa and Bishop Abel Muzorewa*~ www.paradoxicalcomm andments. com |
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The Penis Study? In 1993, the American Government funded a study to see why the? head of a man's penis was larger than the shaft. After 1 year and? $180,000, they concluded that the reason that the head was larger than the shaft? was to give the man more pleasure during sex.?
After the US
published the study, France decided to do their own? study. After $250,000 and 3 y ears of research, they concluded that the reason? the head was larger than the shaft was to give the woman more pleasure? during sex.?
Canada, unsatisfied with these findings, conducted? their own study. After 2 weeks and a cost of? around $75.46, and 2 cases of beer, they concluded? that it was to keep a man's hand from flying off? and hitting himself in the forehead.?
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Got to have wit in our lives..so here is a good bit.
"Learn from the mistakes of others, we can't live long enough to make them all ourselves."Eleanor Roosevelt Accept that some days you're the pigeon, and some days you're the statue.
Always keep your words soft and sweet, just in case you have to eat them.
Always read stuff that will make you look good if you die in the middle of it.
Be wary of strong drink. It can make you shoot at tax collectors, and miss.
Cooking lesson #1: don't fry bacon in the nude.
Drive carefully. It's not only cars that can be recalled by their maker.
Eat a live toad in the morning and nothing worse will happen to you for the rest of the day.
If life gives you lemons, squeeze the juice into a watergun and shoot other people in the eyes.
If you're not part of the solution, be part of the problem!
If you can't be kind, at least have the decency to be vague.
If you can't beat your computer at chess, try kickboxing.
If you lend someone $20, and never see that person again, it was probably worth it.
If you think nobody cares if you're alive, try missing a couple of car payments.
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In case you missed it on "60 Minutes," this is what Andy Rooney thinks about women over 40:
"As I grow in age, I value women over 40 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why:
- A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night and ask, 'What are you thinking?' She doesn't care what you think.
- If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do, and it's usually more interesting.
- Women over 40 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you if they think they can get away with it.
- Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it's like to be unappreciated.
- Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 40.
- Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40 is far sexier than her younger counterpart.
- Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off if you are a jerk if you are acting like one. You don't ever have to wonder where you stand with her.
- Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal.
- For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed, hot woman over 40, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year old waitress. Ladies, I apologize."
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In my next life I want to live my life backwards. You start out dead and get that out of the way. Then you wake up in an old people's home feeling better every day. You get kicked out for being too healthy, go collect your pension, and then when you start work, you get a gold watch and a party on your first day. You work for 40 years until you're young enough to enjoy your retirement. You party, drink alcohol, and are generally promiscuous, then you are ready for high school. You then go to primary school, you become a kid, you play. You have no responsibilities, you become a baby until you are born. And then you spend your last 9 months floating in luxurious spa-like conditions with central heating and room service on tap, larger quarters every day and then Voila! You finish off as an orgasm!
by Woody Allen?
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