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Male Submissive, 33, flint, Michigan
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Male Submissive, 35, Los Angeles, California
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Male Dominant, 53, Belfast, Maine
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About shoulderbloke
I don't know what a Munch is (are people eating?) Don't think I've ever been in a chatroom or contributed to a thread. Don't know my IMs from my ICQs from my AIMs. And although I tick the dom boy box, if anyone called me Master I'd be pretty sure they were having a laugh. On the other hand, I know I'm at the DO TO rather than the BE DONE TO end of the spectrum because when girls have tried spanking me, I've just blinked at them wondering what they're doing it for. I don't find it offensive, it just doesn't engage any sexual gears. But switch the gender roles and I'm slipping the clutch to accelerate. I don't think about it all the time - I get fully engaged in the rest of my life - but when sex comes to mind, in some form or other it's me telling you to do something, or you having something done to you by me. It just always has been from the moment my sperm started snapping like hormonal popcorn in a microwave. At age fourteen I was running half naked older girls through the snow fields in my head with any spurious rationale that I could bring to mind (usually, "it's for your own good," though how exactly eluded me.) And through Mendelian variation, and with occasional backup from practical trials, I'm metaphorically running them still. Maybe I'd have been better fulfilled if more past relationships had heeded this sexual core; but that was then, and the now that you're reading is my latest attempt at rectification. So what exactly am I looking for? Well yes, it might be fine to aim for your gravity well and hope that we'll fall into mutual orbit (or at the least get a slingshot to the next distant goal,) so if you get a teaser in your in-box that's most likely what I have in mind. Meanwhile I'm off to find out if there's food at a Munch, and hopefully meet some fine lady whose magnetic poles might snap to my own. I'm hunting for much of the usual thing - someone in that space between a touch and a lot lighter, shorter, and younger than myself (and whichever way you look at it, way more female!) Someone in the range between lightly submissive behind bedroom doors, and needing to be told that they can only eat five peas. I have a minimal bias for bisexual girls (though from my side, I've never fancied any man.) And my ultimate woman would be bold enough to walk in a storm just to see what it feels like, and to tread every street like her own back yard. Submissive doesn't correlate with sheepish in my book; just as, hopefully, dominant needn't correlate with dickhead. |
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